Stephen J. Stango

Stephen J. Stango

Stephen Stango Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 31 to Apr. 2, 2008.
STANGO – Stephen J., 35, of Cape May Court House, N.J., died Friday, March 28, 2008, in Sea Isle City, N.J. He was born in Philadelphia, Pa., the son of Joel D. and Grace (Shevlin) Stango on Oct. 5, 1972, and was raised in West Chester, Pa. He had been a resident of Cape May County for eight years. Steve was an occupational therapist and was a regional quality assurance director for the In-House Rehabilitation Solutions of Florida. He was a member of St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Sea Isle; an active member of the Gilda’s Club; and enjoyed the Philadelphia teams of the Flyers and Eagles and watching “Seinfeld.” He is survived by his wife, the former Amy N. Pauley; a daughter, Sophia R., and a son, Stephen P., both at home; his parents, Joel and Grace Stango of Sea Isle City, N.J.; his siblings, Joel D. Jr., and his partner, Robert Goff, of Wilmington, Del.; Christine M. Walsh, and her husband, Richard, of Lansdale, Pa.; and Michael P., and wife, Jennifer, of Boca Raton, Fla.; three nieces and six nephews. A viewing will be held from 6 to 9 p.m. Tuesday, April 1, 2008, and 9 to 10 a.m. Wednesday, April 2, 2008, at the Radzieta Funeral Home, 9 Hand Ave., Cape May Court House, N.J., followed by Funeral Liturgy at 11 a.m. Wednesday at St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church, 44th and Landis Avenue, Sea Isle City, N.J. Memorials in his name may be made to the Stango Family Trust, 1221 Lisa Lane, Lansdale, Pa. 19446 or the Stephen J. Stango Benefit Fund, c/o First Summit Bank, 404 N. Center Ave., Somerset Pa. 15501. Condolences at www.radzieta.com.STANGO – Stephen J., 35, of Cape May Court House, N.J., died Friday, March 28, 2008, in Sea Isle City, N.J. He was born in Philadelphia, Pa., the son of Joel D. and Grace (Shevlin) Stango on Oct. 5, 1972, and was raised in West Chester, Pa. He had been a resident of Cape May County for eight years. Steve was an occupational therapist and was a regional quality assurance director for the In-House Rehabilitation Solutions of Florida. He was a member of St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Sea Isle; an active member of the Gilda’s Club; and enjoyed the Philadelphia teams of the Flyers and Eagles and watching “Seinfeld.” He is survived by his wife, the former Amy N. Pauley; a daughter, Sophia R., and a son, Stephen P., both at home; his parents, Joel and Grace Stango of Sea Isle City, N.J.; his siblings, Joel D. Jr., and his partner, Robert Goff, of Wilmington, Del.; Christine M. Walsh, and her husband, Richard, of Lansdale, Pa.; and Michael P., and wife, Jennifer, of Boca Raton, Fla.; three nieces and six nephews. A viewing will be held from 6 to 9 p.m. Tuesday, April 1, 2008, and 9 to 10 a.m. Wednesday, April 2, 2008, at the Radzieta Funeral Home, 9 Hand Ave., Cape May Court House, N.J., followed by Funeral Liturgy at 11 a.m. Wednesday at St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church, 44th and Landis Avenue, Sea Isle City, N.J. Memorials in his name may be made to the Stango Family Trust, 1221 Lisa Lane, Lansdale, Pa. 19446 or the Stephen J. Stango Benefit Fund, c/o First Summit Bank, 404 N. Center Ave., Somerset Pa. 15501. Condolences at www.radzieta.com.

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April 4, 2008

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April 4, 2008

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Ivan Lopezllavore

April 4, 2008

My sincere condolences to Amy and family. The brief time that I shared with Steve, I learned to respect him as a manager and as a co-worker.
God bless his soul.

ROXANNE UPDEGRAFF

April 4, 2008

NO WORDS CAN EXPRESS OUR CONDOLENCES, WE KNOW THE PAULEY FAMILY AND ARE DEEPLY SADDENED. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. HAROLD AND ROXANNE UPDEGRAFF

Carter Wilson

April 4, 2008

Stango Family,I did not know Stephen personally, only the good things that Mike has expressed about him and your family. I only hope that his memories will keep your family together and when you remember his smile, you will smile too. So sorry for your loss.....

A friend

April 4, 2008

Amy,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and I graduated high school together, but lost touch after a few years. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this troubling time.

April 3, 2008

To the Stango Family: I knew Stephen in passing as an OT. Very sorry for your loss.

A friend

Andrea Raucci

April 3, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the Stango family. Steve and I worked together several years ago and I will always remember him as one of the kindest persons I've ever known. My heart goes out to your family.

Mona Bentz

April 3, 2008

Amy, Grace, Joel & Family,
Your are in my prayers.
God Bless you.

Kurt Unterkoefler

April 2, 2008

Don't think of Stephen as gone away, his journey's just begun. Think of Stephen as living in the hearts of those he touched, for nothing loved is ever lost, and he was loved so very much. You are all so very dear to us - please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you now and always. May God Bless you. Kurt & Lisa Unterkoefler and Family

Heidi Bristol

April 2, 2008

To the Stango Family,
I am so very sorry and saddened for your loss. I have not seen Steve for years but have great memories from working with him. I will never forget his great sense of humor, kindness and positive spirit. I am grateful to have known him.

Primrose Beckles

April 2, 2008

Sincere condolences go out to the Stango family. The few occasions that Steve and I interacted, he proved to be a very caring and supportive individual. I know he will be greatly missed. God Bless you all.

Anne Visco

April 1, 2008

Dear Amy:
Our sincere sympathies are with you and the great loss of your wonderful husband Stephen. We cannot espress in words how much he will be missed. Please know that the Lord is merciful and He alone can comfort in times such as these. We are continually praying for you and the dear children that you have now in your care.
Love,
Aunt Carrie and Aunt Ann

John & Barbara Morford

April 1, 2008

With our deepest and sincerest sympathy. You are all in our thoughts.

Nicole Kohler

April 1, 2008

God surely works in mysterious ways. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.
Nicole Kohler

Claudia deBrun Boldyga

April 1, 2008

To The Stango Family-Thinking of you all during this very sad and difficult time. I have such wonderful memories of your family from years ago. Even though Stephen was so young when I knew him I always thought that he was a special boy. My heart goes out to you all.
Love Claudia

Susie Leonard

April 1, 2008

We are very sorry to hear about the tremendous loss to your family.

There is an Irish poem called "Remember" that says:

Always remember to forget the things that made you sad;
But never forget to remember the things that made you glad.

Always remember to forget the friends that proved untrue;
But don't forget to remember those that have stuck by you.

Always remember to forget the troubles that passed by the way;
But never forget to remember the blessings that come each day.

We are thinking of you.

Anita Peterson

April 1, 2008

I am heartbroken to hear of the loss of your child. I will always remember Mr. Stango with the fondest of memories for taking the delightful video at Susie and Sean's wedding. I can only pray that God is holding you in His arms and providing for you during this bleak and dark time and that friends and family will provide comfort for you. Words cannnot express anything to ease your pain but know that others want to help shoulder your burden. Susie's sister, Anita

Rhoads 3

April 1, 2008

To the Stango Family- We are very sorry to hear of your loss. It was our pleasure to care for Steve on Rhoads 3. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. From the entire Rhoads 3 staff at The University of Pennsylvania Hospital

A Friend

March 31, 2008

Amy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm from Portage and heard about your troubles and sorrows. I have you in my thoughts.

March 31, 2008

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May the love of family and friends sustain you during this difficult time. "Rejoice in the hope.
Endure under tribulation. Persevere in prayer" - Romans 12:12. Treasue your many wonderful memories.

Melissa Ems

March 31, 2008

To the Stango Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. It was our pleasure to care for Amy and Baby Stephen and family during their stay on the Maternity at The Hospital of The University of Pennsylvania. Take Care and Let us know if there is anything that we can do. Love, The Silver 8 Maternity Staff

Dolores Pavlis

March 31, 2008

Our thoughts & prayers are always with Stephen's dear wife, children and his wonderful parents, sister and brothers. May Stephen's memory be eternal. With deepest sympathy and love always. Aunt Dolores & Uncle George

Patty Boggs

March 31, 2008

God saw you getting tired, He did what he thought best; He put His arms
around you, And said, "Come and rest." He opened up His golden
gates, On that heartbreaking day; And with His arms around you, You
gently slipped away. It broke our hearts to lose you, You did not go
alone; A part of us went with you, The day God called you home.

To the entire Stango family - our deepest sympathy for loss of Stephen - a wonderful son, husband, brother and father. May he rest in peace. Love, the Boggs' family

Grace & Larry Curran

March 31, 2008

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your son, Stephen. Larry & Grace Curran

Bob and Gerry Clark

March 31, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Erin McAllister

March 31, 2008

Dear Joel, Grace, Amy & entire family, On behalf of our staff, Board of Directors, members & volunteers of Gilda's Club, I extend to you my deepest sympathy for your loss. As you know, we are very fond of all of you & you have been & will continue to be in our thoughts & prayers. We will continue to support you through this very difficult time.
Love,
Erin & all of us at Gilda's Club

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