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Stillman Harmon Obituary
Born on July 24, 1998, in Norwich, Stillman grew up with a vibrant spirit and an infectious energy that left a lasting impression on those around him. He graduated from Plainfield High School in 2017 and pursued a career in retail management. He worked at Cumberland Farms before joining Dollar General, where his dedication and hard work led him to become a store manager. His career was cut short when he fell ill with cancer, but his resilience and positivity remained unwavering.
Stillman was known for his high-spirited nature and his ability to light up any room with his personality and happy attitude. He had a deep desire to help others and always sought to lift the spirits of those around him. His kindness and warmth touched many lives, leaving behind cherished memories for all who knew him.
He is survived by his loving parents, Daniel and Tonya Harmon of Lebanon; his partner, Christopher McClure; and their two children, Trever and Ana, all of Lebanon. He is also survived by his maternal grandmother, Rosalie Metzermacher; his five siblings: Daniel Harmon Jr., William Harmon, Rosalie Harmon, Jacob Harmon, and Jasmine Harmon; as well as his niece Meadow Harmon. In addition to his immediate family, Stillman leaves behind many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends who will forever hold him in their hearts.
Stillman will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His memory will live on through the love he shared and the joy he brought into the lives of so many.
There will be a celebration of life memorial for Stillman announced at a later date.
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Alyssa and Olivia Aubin
March 11, 2025
Thinking of the Harmon family during such an incredibly difficult time. Stillman was so warm and welcoming, and had the most memorable presence; vibrant, outgoing, energetic, and extremely kind.
Donna Horne
March 9, 2025
You are going to be miss a lot love you stillman going to miss you jokes miss have you around love you kid from aunt Donna
Linda M
March 9, 2025
My sincerest condolences. Although I didn´t know Stillman very well I had the pleasure of meeting him through his employment and devoted friendship to my friends daughter and her family.
He will be missed. The world could use a lot more.
Bill moquin
March 9, 2025
So sorry to hear of Stillmans passing. I didn't even know he was ill . My thoughts and prayers to you Dan and to the rest of your family.
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Judy Osowiecki
March 9, 2025
I am so profoundly sorry for your loss. Stillman was part of our family for years when my daughter Becky was alive. They worked together at CF and became good friends. He spent time at our house, becoming friends with our entire family. Becky would help him dye his hair and whatever the color of the week was, it was all over my bathroom! They had so much fun together. Dan and Tonya, I understand the intense pain you are feeling right now. I'd like to think that Becky greeted Stillman as he entered Heaven and that they are together and having fun.
Love from Judy and Catman (Eric)
Anonymous
March 9, 2025
Stillman encompassed everything we want in our fellow person. He was a man of strong integrity, compassion, and loyalty. I will always look at every memory of him fondly, and I am glad that his image is a part of my childhood; Sleepovers, wrestling, gaming, and his incredible desire to do good in the world. I hope I see you again some day brother!
Tammy and Gerard Moe
March 9, 2025
Our deepest condolences to the Harmon family. Stillman was such a joyous person to be around from his bubbly personality to his kind and caring soul. He will missed by all who got the chance to know him. RIP Stillman.
Mr& Mrs Aubin
March 8, 2025
My sincere condolences to the Harmon family. I never got to meet Stillman but know he was well loved. I´ll keep you all in my prayers
Nicholas Metzermacher
March 8, 2025
Stillman is my cousin and he was a good kind hearted soul and a good person he was an amazing cousin and he deserved better than having to fight every day he was one of my cousins I looked up to and now he's gone I wish I could of talked to him one last time I miss you so much god took you way too soon may you rest in peace I love you so much
Brittany brown
March 8, 2025
Him and I were close in high school we met in cooking class and we sat together everyday and we would try to get partnered up together when there was a group assignment. He was always cracking jokes and would be there to listen if I needed to vent and vice versa. We lost contact after high school he was in my mind though. He will be missed, he was an amazing friend and help me get through a lot.
Lex Houle
March 8, 2025
Stillman and I were friends in Highschool. We kind of gravitated towards each other, as if it was just by chance. That's how our little group was. I remember him clearly. and how him and I would hang out together with our ragtag group of misfits all just trying to find our place in the world. We lost contact outside of school, but I never really forgot him. He had an energy about him you couldn't replicate, this constant joy with everything he did and put himself to. Stillman was a beautiful person, and I am devestated by the news of his passing. He will always be remembered fondly.
Kaitlyn Reynolds Boyko
March 8, 2025
Stillman you are a great person and I will always remember you, you brought so much life to me on dark days and I appreciate your kindness, rest easy, God bless you
Kevin Mariano
March 8, 2025
I still remember Stillman (and most of his siblings) in my classroom at Plainfield HS. He would usually be walking down the hallway, with two or three textbooks AND his giant trapper keeper... a man on a mission. He was always smiling and super kind and friendly... a reliable student who set a good example for his classmates I´m really sorry to hear about his loss. Sending love from PHS
Ashley Gunderson
March 8, 2025
Words cannot even begin to express the sorrow I have in my heart right now for both Stillman and his family. He was a ray of sunshine in a world that can be so dark at times. Stillman always knew what to say to make me smile. I was blessed to get to know him these past few years and get to meet his family who made him the man he was. He made my nephew smile and was the best partner and the best father to his children even when he was not feeling well. Stillman will never be forgotten My deepest sympathies go out to everyone grieving their loss and may you rest in peace Stillman with G-ma and all those who have passed that loved you!
Sadey Sarette
March 8, 2025
I am so sorry about the loss of a wonderful and beautiful person. Stillman always made my day whenever I got to see him at Cumberland farms and then Dollar General. I hope you can find comfort in knowing how many people he made happier just by being who he is.
Dan Harmon
March 8, 2025
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