STUART T. PORTER Jr.

1931 - 2017

STUART T. PORTER Jr. obituary, 1931-2017, Middletown, OR

STUART T. PORTER Jr.

1931 - 2017

STUART PORTER Obituary

Published by middletownpress from Mar. 19 to Mar. 20, 2017.
Stuart Thackway Porter, Jr. passed away Monday, March 13, 2017 with much of his extraordinary family at his side. He was a loving, caring, gentle, generous, compassionate man who will be missed dearly. Born in Mineola, New York on May 12, 1931 to Dr. Stuart Thackway Porter Sr. and Rosalind Louise Porter, and married Jean Constance Kluge (deceased) in 1954. They had five children: Stuart T. III (deceased), Jeffrey C., Glenn H., Gregory S. (deceased), and Jon C. Stuart attended Adelphi University and attained a B.A. in Zoology in 1960 and a Masters in Library Science from C.W. Post School at Long Island University in 1972. Stuart married Kathryn West in 1979 and they had one son, Alexander W. Stuart served in the Navy from 1952-1956 and then worked in aerospace defense on Long Island, New York. In 1972 he moved to Danbury, Connecticut where he served as Assistant Director at the Danbury Library for six years. In 1978, he became the Director of the Russell Library in Middletown, Connecticut where he focused on the addition and renovation of its 1834 building, increased programming and introduction of technology and collection development until his retirement in 1997. Stuart was involved in many Connecticut library organizations and initiatives including Treasurer and chair of the editorial board at the Connecticut Library Association, the Literacy Task Force and Career Recruitment Task Force, Treasurer of the Southern Connecticut Library Council, Vice-President of the State Advisory Council on Libraries, and member of the State Board of Directors of Literacy Volunteers of America. In Middletown, he served on the Red Cross Board of Directors, the municipal Computer Task Force, the Race Relations Task Force, the Community Oriented Policing Leadership Council, and was a member of the Middlesex County Chamber of Commerce. Stuart was a Trustee, Treasurer and President of the Independent Day School in Middlefield. He became a Rotarian in 1979 and continued to be involved in Rotary in Oregon. Retirement brought almost twenty wonderful years in Cottage Grove, Oregon where he continued to be highly involved, explored the western US and Europe and enjoyed share outdoor activities, travel, food, and wine with great friends. His kids have been here for him over the last year as he battled cancer as the strength of his family has grown and furthered everyone's wellbeing.Those who would like to honor Stuart are encouraged to donate to their local library or service club or to either of two scholarship endowments for graduating seniors from the South Lane School District in lieu of flowers. Send checks made payable to CGCF to Cottage Grove Community Foundation Box 1326, Cottage Grove, Oregon 97424 and specify the fund: Porter/Allen Family Scholarship (focused on Career and Technical Education) or the Cottage Grove Rotary Endowment Fund.

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March 25, 2017

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March 21, 2017

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March 25, 2017

Jeff, Glen and Jon
Sorry to hear about your Dad.
Many fond memories at the Porter house.
Bob Kornhaas

Tiffany

March 25, 2017

So sorry for the family's loss. It's times like these when the loving promises of our heavenly Father can bring us comfort and can soften some of the pain we feel in our hearts. (1 Thessalonians 4:13,14) May God grant you guidance, strength and peace during your time of sorrow.

Vince Juliano

March 21, 2017

Stu provided us with intelligent, encouraging leadership at Danbury Public Library and set an excellent example for other library staff members. He worked energetically on behalf of the Library, the community, and our state library association. I am glad to have had the chance to work with him.

An Old Friend

March 21, 2017

Love and prayers at this time of loss

Gregory Harris

March 20, 2017

I was on the board of trustees of Russell Library when we picked Stuart to be the Director, and I enjoyed many years working with him in that capacity. I admired him enormously and it would be hard to pick his best trait, so many were his virtues. He was quiet but wonderfully competent, keeping a low profile while preserving and adding to the library's place as a beloved institution in the Middletown community. Hortie Kabel and I were long-term members of his fan club. I missed him often after he moved to Oregon and wish I had kept up with him. He taught me many things, big and small, such as that restaurants routinely overcook fish. He said that when he grilled fish, the rule was one minute for each inch the fish was thick. We went to a state library conference of some sort around 1980 where the featured speaker was a "forecaster" (he didn't want to be called a "futurist") who predicted what the year 2000 would bring, such as that General Motors would be making houses on its assembly lines, and people would snap sections onto their houses as the family grew and snap them off when the kids left the nest ("you messed it up--you take it"). The forecaster said he wouldn't predict a female Pope by 2000 because "this Pope [John Paul II, a skier] is very healthy." Stu and I laughed over the guy's predictions nearly two decades later, when so few of them came true. I'm sorry that
cancer brought him down, but glad he had a long and fulfilling retirement. Middletown owes him a debt of gratitude, and so do I. Goodbye, friend. I hope to see you again, but till then, your memory will be a blessing. Sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Debra Sticht

March 17, 2017

What a wonderful man Stuart was. I remember fondly the many dinners I attended at the Porter home when they were in Connecticut. Much fun with Kathryn, Stuart, Alex and friends Lana, Ginette and Claude. My prayers are with you for days to come. Love Debra

Cathi Langan

March 17, 2017

My thoughts and prayers to Alex and family. Stuart created a wonderful legacy...who could ask for more in life.

March 16, 2017

To everyone in the Porter family sorry for your loss..........

The Sweikert Family,,,Danbury, Ct

ann

March 16, 2017

To the family of Mr Porter Jr. What an incredible life he led. What talents he took to the grave with him. Soon death will be abolished and no more suffering or pain or tears. Rev 24:4,5

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