Susan Terry Clapper obituary, 1944-2023, Leesburg, VA

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Susan Terry Clapper

1944 - 2023

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Rhiannon Thomas

June 18, 2025

I’m so sorry to be reading this and so late. Sue was such a lovely person and made my visits working at the Clapper home a really fun(ny) experience. My deepest and most sincere condolences to all of you.

~ Rhiannon

Tom Tischhauser

July 27, 2023

So very sorry Jim and family. Thoughts and prayers for the family. From what I have heard from Kellie and Mike, she was a wonderful lady.

FRANK HERRELKO

April 19, 2023

DEAR JIM--

I GRADUATED FROM PALLOTTI IN 1962 WITH SUE--SHE WAS MY VERY BEST FRIEND IN SCHOOL AND AT MARYLAND-- I WAS A FRESHMAN THERE WITH HER WHEN YOU WERE A JUNIOR. I AM TOTALLY SHOCKED TO READ OF HER PASSING, AND EXTEND ALL OF MY SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOURS--

SINCERELY,

FRANK HERRELKO, JR.

Tom and Jane Ferguson

April 9, 2023

General Clapper and Family,
We extend our sincerest sympathy at this time of sorrow. Sue’s generous spirit touched the lives of everyone who knew her -- she was loved and respected by everyone who knew her. Sue leaves behind so many wonderful memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wayne Birkel

April 6, 2023

General Clapper,
I regret I did not get to know Sue, but there is no doubt that she positively influenced your life from the time your were Army brats in Northern Virginia, when you left your collection of Superman and Batman comics in her care when you could not take them with you due to weight restrictions on your Dad's PCS assignment. I believe she learned a lot about how to be a superhero and applied that during her career as your wife. I'm sure those of us who worked with you over the years also benefited from her wise council to you and we benefited not only from your natural talents, but also from receptiveness to inputs from subordinates and colleagues. Please know that my wife and I will stand (maybe with the occasional wobble?) to support you, and be thinking of you in your time of loss. From days at NIMA as a rotational from CIA.

Brian Prioletti

April 5, 2023

Dear Director Clapper and family;
Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Sue. As one of your colleagues at the ODNI - and a neighbor - I had the honor to know Sue and you on a professional and personal basis. Sue was always a leader in the neighborhood and compassionate to all.
Take care; be strong; and know all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Thomas Nurre

April 5, 2023

Dear Jim and extended family...Kitty and I extend our heartfelt condolences. Although we met Sue only once over all the years we have known you, we knew her to be everything described in her end-of-life story...and so much more. Know that we love and appreciate you during this sad time. May Sue rest in peace. Tom & Kitty Nurre

KEN AND BARB MINIHAN

April 3, 2023

Dear Jim and family,
Heartbreaking news. We all benefited by knowing Sue.
She was the epitome of an Air Force wife.
The best to you and the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers....God Bless Ken and Barb

Bill and Joan Nolte

April 2, 2023

Jim and Family: The reference to "managing 23 moves" in 32 years should remind us all of the service and sacrifices of families such as yours. Joan and I will keep you -- all of you -- in our prayers.

Rosemary & David Kitzinger, and children

April 2, 2023

Our family sends our sincere condolences for the loss of such a great woman. We will cherish the memories of getting to know you each through our mutual love of sweet Augusta. Our prayers are with you.

Margie Weber

April 1, 2023

Jim and family. My sincere sadness at learning of Susan's passing. Her mom, Red, Aunt Peggy, Uncle Jack, grewup in LongBranch, NJ, with my Mom, Harriet Burns Weber, distant cousins thru Burns family. Too soon, always.

Mike & Patricia Connell

April 1, 2023

General Clapper, Patricia and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family. I have many memories of my time with Susan, our trip to Europe and the times we were invited to your home. Our thoughts are with you.

Christian Andreasen

March 31, 2023

Dear General Clapper, You have my sincere condolences for your loss of such a wonderful loved one. Sincerely, RADM Chris Andreasen, NOAA ret.

Tim and Judi Clayton

March 31, 2023

I worked for Mr. Clapper for over a decade and I recall with great clarity how he valued Sue's love and how she made the family whole as he served the nation. My condolences

Terry and Carol Ford

March 31, 2023

General Clapper and family, Sadly, we saw Sue's obituary in the 30 March Washington Post. We know what a major roll Sue played. Her love and support enabled you to tackle the tough jobs you shouldered. We can't imagine how hard it is to lose your best friend and soulmate after 67 years of marriage. I wish there was more we could say beyond we are truly sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

Bobbi and Jerry Lenczowski

March 31, 2023

Jim, you were blessed with a remarkable partner. We feel blessed to have been a very small part of Sue's story as she shared her grace and kindness and generosity with all those, who worked with you during your military and civilian careers. You and your family have our prayers of sympathy.

Sarah Botsai

March 31, 2023

To Jim, with deepest condolences to you and your family.

Art & Ev Gomes

March 31, 2023

General Clapper: I am so sorry to hear the passing of your wife Susan. I am glad I had a chance to meet her . . . at the Pentagon of course. I remember you telling her that you were thinking or retiring and she said " . . . no you don't because then you will be home with me." You chuckled. We will pray for her and we will pray for you. God bless.

Keith Squires

March 31, 2023

General Clapper,
Russ let us know of your dear wife’s passing. I was very saddened and appreciated reading this wonderful tribute describing Sue’s great life. I’m grateful to you both for your partnered service in behalf of us all. Keryl and I have you and your dear family in our thoughts and prayers.

JIM SERVENTI

March 30, 2023

General Jim Clapper and Family: Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your Family for the loss of your beloved wife and their Mother. She, with God's Blessing, will rest in Peace. Be strong.

Hank Beebe

March 30, 2023

General Clapper, I'm saddened by your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Robert and Sheila Coffin

March 30, 2023

Our sincerest sympathy to the Clapper family at their loss. Sue was a wonderful woman (a quintessential military wife) with many interests, many friends around the globe, beloved pets and a wonderful family, she will be missed.

Dick Osborne

March 30, 2023

Lt Gen Clapper, Ellen and I are sorry for the loss of Sue. She was your constant mate through your long career. As our paths crossed several times, starting in 1967, I had the pleasure of meeting Sue several times. She was always gracious and cordial. The Lord keep and sustain you as you continue on without Sue at your side.

James and Olga Sullivan

March 30, 2023

We were saddened to read this news today and offer our thoughts and prayers for Sue, Gen Clapper, Jenni, Andy and the extended family. When I was serving as executive officer to then-Col Jim Clapper (1982-83), Sue was always so kind and supportive . When my wife, Olga, was at Walter Reed following surgery in 1995, Sue visited and brought her positive energy and encouragement. Her smile and grace warmed any room she entered. We wish the family quiet moments of peace and comfort during these difficult times. With deep respect, Jim and Olga Sullivan

VERN/SHARON KONDRA

March 30, 2023

So sorry to hear. Our thoughts are with the family.

Tim & Bonnie Glazewski

March 30, 2023

We’re so sorry for your family’s loss. We know that she will be missed, but know that there were so many happy family memories to ease the pain.

Crystal Mroz

March 30, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of Suzie's passing. Our family has been friends since they met in Hawaii in the mid-1970s. While we may have lost touch over the years, Suzie was always a bright light in the world. I have fond memories of our family visiting her parents when they were stationed in Cocoa Beach. We discovered peanut buster parfaits at Dairy Queen and I think of the Clapper family every time I go to Dairy Queen. Sending hugs and prayers to the entire family.

March 30, 2023

LTG Clapper and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Respectfully, Judi Demulling

Martin Giere

March 30, 2023

May God look kindly on Gen Clapper and Sue for their partnership service to our country and our milirary families. Rest well in God's loving arms, Sue.

Kate Hall

March 30, 2023

To the family of Susan Clapper: I am so sorry for your loss. She was a woman of great heart with a steadfast love for her family. I remember a passionate discussion with her about gardening - what vegetables and flowers grow best in Northern Virginia. May you find peace in your grieving. My prayers are with you. Kate Hall

Sally Bosken

March 30, 2023

I’m so very sorry to read this in the paper this morning. I worked with Director Clapper at NGA in Bethesda. He was a kind, caring man. My sympathies to you for the loss of your loving wife.

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