Susan Dugan Fristoe

1945 - 2019

Susan Dugan Fristoe obituary, 1945-2019, New Orleans, LA

Susan Dugan Fristoe

1945 - 2019

BORN

1945

DIED

2019

Susan Fristoe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 9 to May 12, 2019.
Susan Dugan Fristoe went home to be with the Lord on Sunday, May 5, 2019. If there is one word that could best describe "Suzi," it would be "vibrant." Not just for the colorful attire she was notorious for, but for her flair for life. Suzi was vibrant in absolutely everything she did. She was born in New Orleans in 1945 and loved her hometown and all the celebrations, culture and traditions that come with being a native New Orleanian. She was a huge Saints fan! (That is putting it lightly.) She had season tickets for over 30 years and would be decked out in elaborate black-and-gold outfits for every game. Suzi was a cheerleader in high school at Warren Easton - experience she put to good use in the Superdome, where she would single-handedly lead her section to start the "wave" at every game. She'd then cheer the fans on while watching it circle the dome. Suzi absolutely loved a celebration and turned practically every gathering into just that! She would dress up for every occasion. During holiday time she had a sequined Christmas sweater or festive outfit for the 12 days of Christmas and beyond. Her favorite holiday, of course, was St. Patrick's Day. She loved to embrace her Irish heritage and wore green from head to toe for the entire week leading up to the big day. It was her favorite color, and with her ravishing red hair and sparkling green eyes, it was honestly her best look. Suzi was multi-talented. She was an artist and painted in both oils and acrylics - but always in the brightest and boldest of colors - vibrant. She said it helped her express herself, that brightness and light is what she felt inside. Her personality was bold as well. Suzi exuded confidence. And she always longed to learn something new. The words "I can't do that" were simply not in Suzi's vocabulary! And she loved to encourage others to live their lives the same adventurous way. She had a beautiful singing voice and sang in the choir for years in church. But simply singing was not enough - especially when she was singing about Jesus Christ. She needed to express herself and her love for the Lord by more than simply singing, so years ago she began learning sign language to sign along with the songs. Her signing style was lively, beautiful, vibrant. Suzi was an avid gardener. Many of her most favorite moments were spent in her garden, either working with her hands digging in the dirt or relaxing with her dog Angel, listening to the birds and admiring the beautiful fruits of her hard work. She loved to be surrounded by a variety of plants and colors and particularly enjoyed "rescuing" fledgling plants and bringing them back to life. Her love for her family and countless dear friends was surpassed only by her love for the Lord. She supported and loved those in her family and in her church families in every way she could. She was called "MeMe" by her grandchildren, and later became "MeMe" to some of the children she nurtured and taught in Sunday school and vacation bible school. She loved the opportunity to encourage children to accept and learn the love of Christ - and to express it as vibrantly as they could! Just like she did. Suzi will be remembered as a beautiful, kind and generous woman who lived her life with everything she had. Her wish would be that we all live on in that example. Live life and be vibrant with everything you do. She was preceded in death by her husband, Claud Neal Fristoe, Jr. (Suzi lovingly referred to him as "Fritz"), her parents, Joseph A. Dugan, Sr., Anola Landry Martina and step-father Bartholomew "Bot" Martina, Jr.; older brother, Joseph Dugan, Jr.; and former husband and father of her children, John M. Sable. Suzi is survived by her twin children: Sheri Sable-Campbell (John) and John David Sable (Aimee); six grandchildren: Anna Sable Campbell, John Mandich "Jack" Campbell, II, Grant Joseph Campbell, John Ethan Sable, Liam David Sable and Emma Louise Sable; and a brother, Bartholomew J. "Chip" Martina, III (Cindy). Suzi is also survived by four step-sons, three step-daughters and numerous step-grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She also leaves behind her best friend of over 50 years, Fay Rice (Kenny) and her absolute treasure, her shih tzu Angel. A memorial service will be held Saturday, May 11, 2019, at 11:30 a.m. at First Baptist Church of Covington, 16333 Highway 1085. (In former worship center with portico entrance on Hwy. 1085 side of church.) Visitation will be at the church starting at 10 a.m. Refreshments will be served immediately following in the church Fellowship Hall. Interment will be private at a later date. Suzi's wishes were for her memorial service to be a celebration of her life. So, in pure Suzi fashion, she asked that friends come adorned in hats, as she loved them so, or dressed vibrantly as she loved to do. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Susan Fristoe's name to her beloved Samaritan Center in Mandeville, where she served as a board member for many years. The Samaritan Center: 402 Girod St., Mandeville, LA 70448, (985) 626-4457, www.samcen.org

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May 3, 2021

Ed Henk posted to the memorial.

May 4, 2020

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May 4, 2020

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Ed Henk

May 3, 2021

We always have you in our heart Suzi. Eddie and Sally

Edd Henk

May 4, 2020

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Jennifer Cantrelle

May 11, 2019

I knew Suzi through a mutual friend. What a joy just to be in the same room with her. She seemed to tickle the air around her. I am so very sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to her family.

Son shine gives life.

Eddie Henk

May 11, 2019

Suzi will remain a powerful force in my life forever; she has been the answer to my greatest prayer, the guide to the clearest paths, and a Saint in more ways than one.

Sally Magee Henk

May 11, 2019

Suzi discipled many; the most important job of all. She showed us the way, the, truth and the life. She went out of her way to show you and teach you about Christ and prayed that you would one day know him. She was a prayer warrior. You could count on her, knowing she would pray for you. She always made my son Shane feel special and showed him the importance of helping others, which he has gone on to help so many. She helped me through many years of tribulations. She was mothering to me, which I had never experienced. I will miss that. She went out of her way to get 2 people, that loved the Lord, together, myself and Eddie. We will be forever grateful. Suzi, is now a bright star shining down on us; continually praying for our salvation. Suzi is in heaven; living in paradise. Thank you Suzi.

James Gabriel

May 11, 2019

Please kindly accept my heartfelt sympathy, I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustains you and your family during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1,2.

Cindy Martina

May 10, 2019

My precious sis-in-law shared a story with me regarding what took place after she taught a Bible study class one Sunday morning. Suzi was so upbeat, thinking,... "Wow, I really got thru to some of those children today",..then after the class, she heard a little girl run up to her mother and say, ..."Mommy, Mommy, the Fancy Lady had 12 bracelets on today". From then on, the Fancy Lady was her new nickname. Rest in peace you beautiful Fancy Lady. I will miss you forever.

May 9, 2019

Susie will be well missed. I did not know her long but spent good times on trips and times with her grammar school friends. Thank you Susie for good memories
Carolyn Condon

Tony Zucconi

May 9, 2019

For the short time we knew you, we fell in love with you.
God has received a new angel. Our Condolences.

Tony & Maureen Zucconi

Carol Maschler

May 9, 2019

Sheri, what an absolutely beautiful tribute to your mom! I never had the pleasure of meeting her but a pleasure it certainly would have been! Thank you for sharing a bit about her with us. She is resting in the arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Love , peace and prayers to you and your family.

May 9, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

May 9, 2019

Precious Suzi... she is now free and alive with her Father in heaven. We are so very thankful for her life and impact on so many souls. She loved well and had such a servant-heart. She will surely be missed and her legacy of grace will live on through so many who she touched. Our condolences and prayers go out for the family. In Christ, Laura and Seamus Loman

Katherine Baxley

May 9, 2019

Suzi first came into my life when I was a little girl of 4, still reeling over the loss of my granny. Here was a new grandmother, a "step-grandmother" for me. She never felt any less than a real grandmother to me. Seen through the heart of a child, Suzi was pure magic and fun. I have countless wonderful childhood memories steeped in Suzi. Holidays and several weeks each summer were spent in a charmed loving atmosphere. Suzi had the ability to spend time with a child and just BE...just have fun and dance and sing and make art and play and wish and imagine. Tea parties! Dance parties! Fashion shows! Everything was a reason to celebrate. She introduced me to The Sound of Music and then blasted the soundtrack through the house and let me spin around dancing. I now sing those very same songs to my daughters at bedtime. She often put music on for me and asked that I carefully listen to the lyrics for a message from her - I think music was an effective means of communicating for her because it emotionally elevated the message. She made kitschy personalized clothes for my cousins and I - the joys of puffy paint and glitter! She taught me to sew and gave me my first sewing box. I wrapped presents for her every Christmas Eve - Suzi remembered everyone but was always running low on time so I would wrap dozens of presents while she prepped for Christmas morning and my grandpa started a fire so that the three of us could sit and drink hot chocolate together before bed.

Suzi was a girly-girl to the core and loved fashion and makeup. We had so much fun dressing up together for Easter and other holidays. She'd painstakingly put my hair in sponge-curlers every Saturday night before Easter Sunday. She stressed the importance of moisturizing and protecting your skin from the sun - anyone who knew her will remember her absolutely gorgeous skin.

She was a true grandma to me - she allowed me a space to be myself without judgment (though I did get a raised eyebrow over the nose ring and some chiding for not visiting enough as I got older!) and just always loved me. I just felt that she would always be there for me and I am truly shocked she is gone. I thought we had so many more years. I remember her now as she will always be in memory - lovely, smiling, happy and ready to wring as much happiness and enjoyment out of life as possible.

I had just graduated from college and was at Grandpa and Suzi's house. We were searching the garage together for dishes for my first apartment. She disappeared and soon I heard music coming from the living room. I heard her voice when she called to me "This one is for you KK." Then Karen Carpenter was singing to me..."Listen to the melody cause my love is in there hiding. I love you in a place where there's no space or time. I love you for my life, You are friend of mine. And when my life is over, remember when we were together. We were alone and I was singing this song for you." I'll always remember.

Denise de Brueys

May 9, 2019

I will miss Suzi so much and am a better person for having known her. She will not be forgotten.

SUEANN

May 9, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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