Terry Blaine

Terry Blaine obituary, Westchester, IL

Terry Blaine

Terry Blaine Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 17, 2013.
Terry Blaine, age 69 passed away on July 16, 2013 at Loyola Hospital in Maywood, Illinois. He fought a brave year-long battle against brain cancer and lung cancer. He is preceded in death by his parents Howard and Lucille, and his sister Bette. He is survived by his wife Kathy, two daughters Kelly and Stacy, and his sister Barbara Adams, Mother-in-law Donna Lund and sister-in-law Kristin Lund and nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be held Wednesday, July 24, 2013 from 10-11am. Service will be held at 11am. Chapel Hill Garden West Funeral Home 17W201 Roosevelt Road, Oakbrook Terrace IL. 60181.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the American Cancer Society, Stand Up To Cancer, or donate to the charity of your choice.

For more information, call 630-941-5860, or visit chapelhillgardenwestfuneralhome.com.

Terry Blaine was a wonderful man with a warm and friendly personality. He was gentle, and he loved life. He was analytical and observant, with an ability to be simultaneously spontaneous and keenly perceptive. Terry was modest, quiet, and reserved. When Terry said something, you knew he meant it.

Terry was born to Howard and Lucille in 1943. He was raised in both Cicero and Westchester, Illinois, and he grew up with two older sisters, Barbara and Bette. Even as a small child, Terry wanted to understand what was right and what was wrong in any given situation. As Terry grew older, he realized the importance of being treated fairly, and in return, he treated everyone around him the same way. Despite his reserved nature, he maintained and enjoyed lifelong friendships.

During his childhood, family and friends viewed Terry as a quiet and reserved person with an easy- going demeanor. A great deal of Terry's free time was spent learning how and why the things around him worked. He was an active child who loved being outdoors and enjoyed nature. He played many sports, and he was a Boy Scout. Terry loved animals and his favorite pet was Duchess, a black Cocker Spaniel. They were best friends for 13 years. He could often be found at the local swimming pool, the local movie theater, or the grocery store's soda fountain with his best friend, Paul Harshbarger.

Terry had a curious nature while he was in school. He relished the task of scrutinizing problems, investigating all of the options, and then solving them. He enjoyed tackling a project and working it straight through to its conclusion. Experience was Terry's best teacher. He graduated from Proviso West High School in 1961 as a member of the school's first graduating class. He played football, tennis, and basketball, and was a member of the Letterman's Club.

Terry completed almost 3 years of college before he was drafted by the army. He attended both Wright Junior College and the University of Illinois, where he participated in gymnastics. Terry was an analytical and an independent thinker, qualities that allowed him to develop and implement effective strategies and techniques to meet any challenges. He was an Army Veteran, and he understood his duty to serve his country and the importance of getting a job done. He served in the Army from 1967 to 1971, and was stationed for a time in Germany where he worked as a helicopter mechanic.

On August 16, 1969, Terry exchanged wedding vows with Kathy Ann Lund at St. John's Lutheran Church of Bellwood, IL. As their family grew, Terry was easily able to adapt to the changes and challenges of parenthood. Terry was blessed with two daughters, Kelly and Stacy. Terry was a strong, clear communicator who excelled at eliminating confusion by making matters crystal clear to all those involved. Rarely did he have to count past "5".

In his work life, Terry was the kind of person who had no difficulty in taking on a project and seeing it through to its completion. He excelled at dealing with those pesky details that can derail some people, and once he understood exactly why he was working on a project, he could plow full steam ahead. He built a career as a Mechanical Engineer at Borg Warner Automotive, where he was employed for 37 years. He proved that it's not a college degree that makes a man successful at what he does. He had good relationships with his co-workers, and he retired from Borg Warner in 2006.

Terry was an asset to any organization he joined. He was a man of action who would rather tackle a job than spend time chatting about irrelevant things. He worked well on committees and excelled at focusing on the important details without getting bogged down by the unnecessary parts of an assignment. He was an active member of the Proviso West Parent Teacher Organization (PTO), and served as its first president when the organization was revived after 25 years of inactivity.

Even though his circle of friends was somewhat small, it was a strong and loyal group. While growing up, some of his best friends were Paul Harshbarger and George Hallberg. Later in life he became friends with Roger Paveza, and still remained friends with Paul Harshbarger and his brother John Harshbarger. These friends rounded out his golf foursome, and he continued to golf during his battle with cancer, even enjoying rounds last December and as late as the end of May.

His favorite pursuits were bowling, golfing, motorcycling, playing cards, reading, and tinkering with things in the garage. He was a regular Mr. Fix-It who could always find some way to fix anything, and he rarely read any instructions. Terry was also something of a sports fan and enjoyed following his favorite teams. Tops on his list to watch were football, basketball, golfing, more football, and more football. He and his wife were also members of the Honda Goldwing motorcycle club (Road Riders association), and enjoyed several long road trips.

Terry appreciated the occasions when he was able to travel and get away on a vacation. He enjoyed learning about different locales and was open to exploring new and different places. Favorite vacation spots included trips out west to Colorado (a few by car, one by motorcycle), to Cancun, Mexico, several trips to Nashville, TN and to Kentucky.

Terry lived in the house next door to the home where he grew up on Portsmouth Ave. His father held the esteemed title of "Block Head", or head of the block, and after his passing, that title carried over to Terry. He was always willing, and wouldn't hesitate, to go out of his way to assist his neighbors when they needed help. Many ladies on the block relied on his handyman skills.

Terry passed away on July 16, 2013 at Loyola Hospital in Maywood, Illinois. He fought a brave year-long battle against both brain and lung cancers. He is survived by his wife Kathy and two daughters Kelly and Stacy, his sister Barbara Adams, Mother-in-law Donna Lund and sister-in-law Kristin Lund, and nieces and nephews (John Adams, Jeanne Stimek, Janet Adams, Jennifer Fragassi, Shannon Jensen, and Blaine Cormaney). Terry's wish was to be cremated, and services were held at Chapel Hill Gardens West.

Terry was the type of person who would show others his feelings through his actions. He was practical and realistic but was able to be flexible when the need arose. He had a curiosity about the things around him and tried to experience life directly rather than sit back and talk about it. The experiences he treasured most were those he shared with his loved ones. He was a dedicated family man who adored his family and never failed to support them. Terry Blaine will be greatly missed, but will never be far from the hearts he touched.

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August 1, 2013

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July 29, 2013

Geoff and Gale Vaupell posted to the memorial.

July 26, 2013

Mark McCleary posted to the memorial.

August 1, 2013

Stacy, I'm so sorry to hear of your father's death.....he certainly fought a good battle. I remember when he would come to Nashville and help all the neighbors. He was a wonderful, thoughtful person.
Miss you. Love and sympathy to you, your mom, and Kelly

Margie Hutchison (Nashville, TN)

Geoff and Gale Vaupell

July 29, 2013

Dear Kathy, Kelly and Stacy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Terry will be greatly missed.

Mark McCleary

July 26, 2013

Hi, Kelly. I am so sorry for your loss. I have some idea of what it was like for the past year. Hang on to the memories. I have a motto that I keep below the picture of our wedding that reads, "When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure."
Mr. McCleary

Karrie (Vaupell) Waszkowski

July 26, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathy, Stacy & Kelly. Terry was a wonderful man that always looked out for everyone. Sending extra hugs your way.

John,Debbie,Britany,Jake,Jason Adams

July 24, 2013

I always looked up to Uncle Terry, he always had a logical solution to a problem you were having.
I will miss him dearly but he will always have a place in our hearts.

Angela Burdi Trejo

July 24, 2013

So sorry for your family's loss. May all your past memories provide you comfort.

Tulicia Edwards

July 24, 2013

I'm so sorry for your lose. May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. Keeping you all in my prayers

jennifer fragassi

July 23, 2013

Sorry i can't be there but you are in my prayers and he was a great uncle and i will never forget him love jennifer

Lori, Dominic & family Janusky

July 23, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Praying for you. Hugs to all from all of us

Roger and Kathy Paveza

July 23, 2013

Dear Kathy, Kelly and Stacy,
On July 16th the world lost a good, gentle and loving man. Though we grieve that we can no longer enjoy Terry's physical presence, we can celebrate a life that was well-lived. Terry deeply loved his wife and two daughters, he was a great friend, and a dedicated community advocate. We take comfort in the wonderful memories of our dear friend. He will be missed.

Kristy Spann

July 23, 2013

Stacy and Kelly (and family), so sorry to hear of your father's passing. What wonderful daughters you have been to take such loving care of your father (and mother) during his battle over the past year. I am sure he loved you all very much. You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. May God give you comfort and peace now knowing that he is no longer in pain. Love to you all. Love, the Spanns (Kristy, John IV and John V)

Paul & Anita Harshbarger

July 22, 2013

Dear Kathy, Kelly and Stacy,
May your memories bring you comfort at this time of sorrow. Terry will be greatly missed - on the golf course, bowling, playing cards or just visiting. He was Paul's "other" brother, and we are both deeply saddened by his passing. We forever will hold him dear to our hearts.

John Knoll

July 21, 2013

Kathy, Kelly and Stacy,
So very sorry to hear of Terry's passing. I can't believe that we shared many work experiences at BW for 37 years...the time flew by. We no longer live in the area so will not be able to attend the memorial service, but please know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you as you work through this challenging time of your lives.

Barbara Adams

July 20, 2013

To Kathy , kelly& Stacy. I so sorry for your lose. My prayers are with you. Love you always, I will miss him.

July 20, 2013

Kathy, Kelly, and Stacy, I am so sorry for your loss. Terry was a great man and will be greatly missed. He is in heaven now, holding his parents' and sister's hands. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Adams

July 20, 2013

To my brother even though we fought when we were kids, I still loved you. Now you have gone to heaven, you will always be in my heart. I love you always.

Barbara Adams

July 19, 2013

To my Brother I know we fought a lot when we were kids,but I sill loved you. You will always be in my heart. Love you always.

Robert Lee

July 19, 2013

My deepest condolences in Terry's passing . I worked with him for many years at Borg Warner and always found him so easy to get along with. May God bless and keep his family during this time of grief.

Maliha Hassan

July 19, 2013

Very sad to know the news. I had worked closely with Terry for several years at Borg Warner. He tought me the sprag manufacturing at Borg. His good memories will be with all of us who knew him. My condolences to his family and may God bless his family in this time of sorrow.

July 19, 2013

Kathy,
I am deeply saddened by Terry's passing. He was a very good and personal friend of mine at BW for over 30 years. Only golfed together once but was looking forward to doing it again this summer. My heart goes out to you and the girls.
Jack Havranek

lauren caudle

July 19, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear about Terry's brave fight and the battle he tried to win. Kathy, I worked with and knew Terry for over 20 at BW. I'll always remember how proud he was of Stacy and Kelly and how fondly he talked of them both. Terry was always a positive person and had a sweet and kind spirit. Please except my condolences and deepest sympathy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace, comfort and love be with you and your family always.

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