Terry Grufman

Terry John Grufman, 68, passed away in the arms of his loving wife on March 14, 2025, at their home in Webb Lake, Wisconsin. Born in St. Paul, Minnesota, Terry lived a life dedicated to family, faith, and service.

Following in his father's footsteps, Terry joined the St. Paul Fire Department on July 9, 1981. As a firefighter, he was known for his strong work ethic, easy-going nature, and legendary fried fish and grilled chicken-earning him the respect of his fire crews and lifelong friendships. He retired on October 5, 2011, as FEO of Ladder 22, his favorite truck. While driving it, he often said with a smile, "I'm living the dream!"

Even after retirement, Terry continued to serve others. He found joy working at Industries, Inc. (now PHASE-Industries), where he mentored and guided young persons with developmental disabilities. His kindness and dedication made him a bright light in the lives of those he helped.

Terry's love for his family was unwavering. He met Judy in 1980 when he picked her up at a bar-a moment that led to 39 blissful years of marriage. Nothing mattered more to him than the safety, health, and well-being of his loved ones. He was immensely proud of his son Samuel and cherished their time together hunting, fishing, and simply enjoying each other's company.

Growing up on St. Paul's East Side with his parents and two brothers, Terry developed a passion for hockey, softball, and the outdoors at an early age. His brothers were his best friends; together with their father, they spent countless years hunting and fishing on their properties in Wisconsin.

Terry is survived by his wife Judy (née Baller); son Samuel; brother Steve (Diane); sister-in-law Patty Grufman; and many more in-laws, nieces, nephews, and friends who will miss him dearly. He was preceded in death by his parents Eugene and Bernadette; brother Greg (Patty); and his faithful dog, Jake.

A celebration of life will be held on May 17, 2025, from 11:30 AM to 2:30 PM at Trinity Woods Catholic Retreat Center in Trego, Wisconsin (N10884 Hoinville Rd., Ph:715-319-3064). Private burial at Evergreen Memorial Gardens in St. Paul. Memorials preferred in lieu of flowers.

Terry loved Jesus and lived by example-selflessly giving to others while embracing every moment with gratitude. His legacy of kindness and devotion will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.