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Terry Wander Obituary
Terry dedicated his career to serving the city of St. Cloud, working at the Stearns County Jail and with the city parks department, where he especially enjoyed spending summers outdoors. He was known for his kind and gentle nature, forming friendships with ease and leaving a lasting impression on those around him.
He shared a love of sports and recreation with his partner, Jessica, and together they enjoyed attending Rocks baseball games, Brainerd car races, and bowling in a league with their friends. A generous and selfless person, Terry was a kidney donor to his late brother, Jeff.
Terry was preceded in death by his brother Jeff in 2020. He is survived by his parents, Dave and Joan Wander; his nephew, Connor; and his partner, Jessica.
A visitation will be held on Saturday, April 12, 2025, at 9:00 a.m., followed by an 11:00 a.m. Mass at the Church of St. Mary, 755 E Kraft Dr, Melrose, MN 56352.
In lieu of flowers or other donations, memorial contributions may be made to the Kidney Foundation or Diabetes Foundation in Terry's honor.
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Jessica Vogel
March 23, 2025
I was Terry girlfriend for 6-7 years.we both lived at the same apartment building. I was in Terry´s apartment watching tv shows with him everyday.Terry was a good cook and what he made was always good.I helped him make stuff to eat.me and Terry would clean the kitchen together when we were both done eating.me and Terry bowled on bowling leagues Monday´s 1:00-3:00 and Tuesday´s at 1:00-3:00 and Thursday night league at 7:00-9:00.go to ROX baseball games in the summer and go to car races at brainerd north central speedway on Saturday nights.
Mike Koterba
March 20, 2025
Terry was a quiet, kind, and gentle soul who always met me with a smile. Rest in peace and with Jeff your brother. Together watch over Dave and Joanie.
Jack Wander
March 20, 2025
Terry will be remembered for his kindness, love of sports and his smile. He will be missed.
Jessica Vogel
March 18, 2025
I am Jessica.I was Terry boyfriend.me and Terry were dating 6-7 years.I am sadI miss Terry..
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Kathy and Duane Spandl
March 18, 2025
Our deepest sympathy to our friends Joan and Dave, and to other family and friends of Terry. Duane and Kathy Spandl
Michele Peterson
March 18, 2025
Thoughts, prayers and hugs to Joan, Dave and family. Terry will be greatly missed. Loving thoughts to you all.
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