Thomas Balliet

Thomas Balliet obituary, Cary, NC

Thomas Balliet

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Thomas Balliet Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 19, 2025.
Thomas Freeman Balliet, 68, passed away on August 14, 2025, in Cary, North Carolina. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, and brother, Tom lived a full and vibrant life marked by professional achievement and deep family bonds.

Born on October 4, 1956, in Kingston, Pennsylvania, Tom was the son of Gloria and Milton Balliet. He was a college football player awarded a full scholarship at Duke University where he studied business and economics.

Tom built an impressive legacy in sales over the course of 40 years. He began his career selling Xerox copiers and steadily advanced through the ranks to become a Global Salesman for Hewlett Packard. His dedication to his craft and his ability to connect with people earned him respect throughout the industry.

Beyond his professional accomplishments, Tom found joy in life's many adventures. He had a passion for traveling and exploring new places. A lifelong sports enthusiast and classic rock music fan, he also cherished time spent with his family-especially his grandchildren-who brought him immense pride and happiness.

Tom is survived by his beloved wife of 45 years, Gayle Lemly Balliet; daughter Brianna Molyneaux (Jeff); sons Matthew Balliet (Megan) and Jonathan Balliet; grandchildren Madison, Hayes, Julian, and Elizabeth; sister Vickie Pasternack (Jim); brother Calvin Balliet (Genine); and his beloved dog Bear.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Gloria and Milton Balliet.

Tom's memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him best. May his legacy bring comfort to all who mourn his passing.

A visitation will be held 10:00 am on Sunday, August 24, 2025 at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home, 200 SE Maynard Rd, Cary. A funeral service will follow at 11:00 am at the same location. A private burial will precede afterwards for Tom's immediate family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tom's honor to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital and/or ASPCA.

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Brown-Wynne Funeral Home

200 Southeast Maynard Road, Cary, NC 27511

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Aug

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Service

11:00 a.m.

Brown-Wynne Funeral Home

200 Southeast Maynard Road, Cary, NC 27511

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