Thomas Epps Chaney

Thomas Epps Chaney obituary, Kinston, NC

Thomas Epps Chaney

Thomas Chaney Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 29, 2025.
Thomas Epps Chaney, 90, passed away peacefully on June 28, 2025, surrounded by his loving family at home. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, Tom lived a life grounded in faith, family, and service.

Tom was born on January 13, 1935, in Victoria, VA, and grew up in South Boston, VA. Tom served his country with pride and honor in the Marine Corps, where he was stationed in the US and Japan in the G2 top secret offices. Tom earned a degree in business from Virginia Tech in 1962. Tom had a 37-year career as the head of the accounting department at Hampton Industries, from which he retired in 2001. Tom enjoyed exercise and was an avid jogger. He was a devoted member of the Kinston Community Recreation Center and his church, Spilman Memorial Baptist, where he sang in the church choir and served on many committees.

Above all else, Tom was a family man. He married his high school sweetheart, Rosa Ann Osborne Chaney, on March 17th, 1962. They spent 63 years together building a life full of enduring love, joy, and unwavering devotion. Tom is survived by his wife; son, Thomas Hogan Chaney and wife Kay; and his daughter, Sandra Chaney Drum. He is survived by his four cherished grandchildren: Summer Drum Ali and husband Bilal, Erin Chaney Merritt and husband Parker, Sailor Alexis Drum, and Tanner Reefe Drum. He was especially proud to be a great-grandfather to Paul Parker Merritt V.

Tom is preceded in death by his beloved son, Roddy Ray Chaney; his parents, Mamie Garland Epps Chaney and John Richard Chaney Sr.; and his siblings, William Maynard Chaney, Mildred Garland Hogan, Dorothy Frances Cowan, John Richard Chaney Jr., and Barbara Jean Hodges.

Tom will be remembered for his sharp wit and joyful, booming laugh, which filled every room he entered; his beautiful singing voice, which rivaled Frank Sinatra; his fondness for sweet treats and old Western films; and his spirited collection of Virginia Tech apparel.

A service to celebrate Tom's life will be held at Spilman Memorial Baptist Church in Kinston on Saturday, July 12th at 2pm, with visitation to follow.

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June 30, 2025

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Melinda Peeden LPN

June 30, 2025

It was an honor to be able to take care of Mr Tom during the past few months. I loved all my visits with you guys. I will miss our 10 o´clock hour appointments and his laughter. Prayers for the entire family, he was a wonderful man with a great heart. With love, Melinda LPN

Bob Gaddis

June 30, 2025

Tom was such dear friend. We sat beside each other in the Spilman choir bass section. When we moved to Greenville 8 years ago, we kept in touch by telephone. I will miss his warm, enthusiastic attitude and his gentle Virgina accent. Condolences to Rosa Ann and the family.

Emile Artus

June 29, 2025

I worked with Tom for his last 14 years at Hampton. He was truly one of a kind. Always knew how to brighten things up with humor or a wacky quip, and was always helping me keep my perspective where it should have been. Although we'd lived far from one another for the last 23 years, I did get a chance to visit him in 2018, when this pic was taken. His memory will live on gloriously in me and in all who knew him.

Adam Cannon

June 29, 2025

Being able to meet him was a great blessing and was enough to make an impact on me for the the rest of my life. I have never met someone who within just a few minutes I knew they were a good somebody until I met this man. My heart goes out to the family and you will be in my prayers. If you all ever need anything at all, please don't hesitate to reach out.

Adam Cannon

Wilton burgess

June 29, 2025

So sorry great guy lots of fun

Cyñthia Croom

June 29, 2025

Sending my condolences and prayers to you and your family!!!! Much love to Sandy in your time sorrow.

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