Thomas J. Chisholm

1956 - 2020

Thomas J. Chisholm obituary, 1956-2020, EAST GREENWICH, RI

Thomas J. Chisholm

1956 - 2020

Thomas Chisholm Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 12, 2021.

Thomas Joseph Chisholm, 63 of East Greenwich passed away unexpectedly at home On May 3, 2020.


He is survived by his parents, Joseph and Carol Chisholm of East Greenwich, and his sister JoAnn Chisholm-Dueno of Hauula, Hawaii.


Tommy was just a young lad of 9 when he tagged along with his family to Hawaii. His dad, a career Marine had been transferred to a military facility on Oahu and his family settled there for five years, then back to Rhode Island, settling in East Greenwich. JoAnn returned to the Aloha State in 1983 and resides there permanently. Tom stayed in Rhode Island. Thus, the Island connection.


Tom graduated from East Greenwich High School in 1975. He then went on to Hamilton College in Clinton, N. Y. where he graduated with Honors and a BA in Mathematics in 1979


After graduation, he worked at Roger Williams Hospital for a brief period pursuing the possibility of Medical School.  Tom decided to continue with his mathematics career and joined Traveler's Insurance Company in Hartford Ct. as an Actuarial Analyst. He moved to American Universal Insurance Company in 1985 and continued in Actuarial Science, preparing rate indications for Personal Auto and Homeowners. Tom took and passed all 10 of his actuarial exams throughout his career to achieve his highest level in the field and was a much sought after executive in the Insurance industry. 


Tom joined AIPSO filing services in l987 as a Senior Actuarial Analyst. There he was promoted to Director, Rate & Experience Development. He was recruited by Providence Washington Insurance Co. 2000-2005, when the company closed, Tom was immediately recruited by One Beacon and worked there from 2005 to December of 2009.


In March of 2010, Tom accepted a position with NLC Insurance Companies in Connecticut as an AVP & Actuary. He remained there until his untimely passing. 


Tom's avid, enthusiastic and adventurous travel was sparked by a very special class trip to Spain in 1975 during his senior year of high school. He was hooked from then on and he made friends and relationships on that trip that lasted his lifetime. He traveled all over Europe, UK, the Virgin Islands French, British and US, most if not every State in the U.S., but he always came back to East Greenwich. 


He lived his life in a way that embraced others wherever he went.  Tom often invited his new found friends into his circle of family and friends because in his perfect world he wanted them to all know and love each other as he did them. 


Tom often traveled to the Aloha State to visit his sister and would often bring an entourage with him to show off the beautiful Islands and introduce his friends to his Hawaii family. Tom shared a love and appreciation for animals and nature, and was a consistent and generous supporter and sponsor of Hearts For Animals Wellness Center, a nonprofit Animal Sanctuary & Healing center founded by his sister in 2009. 


He ALWAYS insisted on going First Class for travel and accommodations, sharing and often upgrading his companions when it was available. He just recently achieved his goal to be a Mileage Plus Million Miler with United Airlines giving him a lifetime of premier status. Thomas also served on Board of Advisors for the Grand Wailea a 5 Star Resort on Maui since their opening in 1991. 


Tom was known by several names in his circle of friends and family. Thomas, Tommy, Tom, Chiz, TJC, TJC-1, and even Tomas. He will be forever loved and missed by all who knew him. 


A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday, December 4th at 10:00am at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 65 Third St., East Greenwich. 


Visit the memorial Facebook page for stories and pictures.


 https://www.facebook.com/groups/638492040062865


 

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September 17, 2020

Gary Goldstein posted to the memorial.

June 22, 2020

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June 21, 2020

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15 Entries

Gary Goldstein

September 17, 2020

Hey there Tommy! Though time and distance separated us since our days at Hamilton, our friendship endured. I wish you peace in life’s last journey. You will be sorely missed my friend. Condolences to the family. May his memory be a blessing.

Tonya Ferruolo Sullivan

June 22, 2020

My deepest condolences and prayers! He will be greatly missed ! He was truly a kind soul and always fun to be around! His memory will live on through the hearts and lives hes touched ! May the Grace of God be with your family.

Barbara Judd

June 21, 2020

Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs to Carol, Joe and Jo-Anne. I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. Barbara Judd

Dianne Bishoo

June 21, 2020

So very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Dianne Bishop

Paul C. Medici

June 10, 2020

A really gentle soul. Just a good, genuine, and sweet person. Bless you Cousin Tom. Love Paul

Sharon Bates

June 10, 2020

To Tom's family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked for Tom before I moved to FL. Tom was a good boss. Tom was taken much to soon and will be missed. My deepest sympathy

June 10, 2020

My condolences to Tommy's family. Tommy and I had nearby lockers all of our years in EG schools. His passing saddens me, and leaves a void in my heart. Ellen (Boehmke) Atkin

Christine Radau

June 8, 2020

To Tom's family: I'm so sorry for your loss. I knew Tom through business. He was an excellent actuary and a great person. He spoke often of Hawaii and his wonderful family. He was taken much too soon. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Patricia Orr

June 8, 2020

To Family of Tom Chisholm
I am So sorry for your loss. I was a co-worker of Tom during his employment at Aipso. May you cherish many memories of his Love of life and his love of Many travels that offered him enjoyment.

Heikki and Susan Uustal

June 7, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers to family and friends. We will miss your contagious smile and laugh.

Stuart A Cohen

June 6, 2020

Joanne, please accept my condolences and that of the entire Cohen family. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Judy Semones

June 6, 2020

I will miss my friend Tommy. We met when we were 11. He was an amazing person who had a remarkable life.
I feel so lucky to have known him for so many years. He was a generous and kind person with a love for life!
When I think of Tommy I will always think of happy times at the beach, school days, college days, Nautica, and on and on. He was loved very much and will be dearly missed by all that knew him. He will live on in our memories forever. With much love, Judy (Rohrer) Semones

Donny Nicholas

June 6, 2020

Tom it's never easy to say goodbye my friend. I hope you look out for my wife Judy. Please introduce yourself as she will definitely join you in a drink or two. Let her know I miss her. I'm sad we let so many years pass without getting together again buddy. You were always great at socializing at parties or at a bar. Your friendship and advice always meant a lot my friend and seeing all the awesome writeups I have seen . It's not shocking you've left this world a lot less than. You took your incredible smile and personality to another plane. One you don't have to pay for a ride in or worry about getting g first class now you have eternal first class. I'm sure with a million plus miles in the sky you've reached your dream state now. Just know you will always be missed here on earth and there are lots of friends and famity to take care of your loved ones. Until we meet again. My friend, your safe in God's glory and surround by love.
Love ya buddy.

Lisa Ross

June 6, 2020

My heart is heavy with the loss of Tom. I will miss his smile, kind heart, laugh and compassion to everything and everyone.

ROBIN Harrison

June 5, 2020

Tom was the most Selfless person I knew. He always was looking out for everyone else that surrounded him with his smile. There are very few people I know who didn't enjoy Tom's presence. This seems so weird writing something this way about such a wonderful loving man. Tom was always so generous and always so kind to my family and relatives as well as funny with me. I will miss our times together at Dante's on Sunday mornings and I know East Greenwich will not be the same at nautica without your presence. I certainly hope you are at peace and you will surely be missed and forever loved. Sadly,
Robin HarrisNa

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