Thomas R. Deja

Thomas R. Deja obituary, Ada, MI

Thomas R. Deja

Thomas Deja Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 14 to Mar. 16, 2024.
Beloved husband, father, uncle, and friend, Thomas R. Deja passed away surrounded by loved ones on Wednesday March 13.

Tom was born in Edmore Michigan and graduated from Edmore High School, class of 1965. He married the love of his life Ann (Witkowski), and they raised three children together. He served in the US Army for three years, was stationed in South Korea and Fort Hood Texas, and was discharged as a sergeant. He graduated from Davenport College and Aquinas College and was employed with the Amway Corporation for 39 years until he retired.

Tom was preceded in death by his wife Ann, his parents Robert and Helen Deja, brother Richard, and father and mother-in-law Ted and Terry Witkowski. He is survived by son Thomas (Jenna) of Oak Park IL, son Sean (Vonda) of Kentwood, daughter Rachell (Dane) Mariage of Walker, sisters-in-law, Karen Deja-Caulkett of Edmore, Jeanette Witkowski of Maryland, Ruth Wyant of Allendale, Elissa Simon of Illinois, brothers-in-law, Mark Witkowski of Holland MI, and John (Kristin) of Holland MI.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St Robert of Newminster Catholic Church, 6477 Ada Dr SE, Ada, MI 49301 on Tuesday, March 19 at 11am, and the family will hold a visitation Monday, March 18, at O'Brien-Eggebeen-Gerst Funeral Home, 3980 Cascade Rd. SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49546 from 6-8pm.

In lieu of flowers please consider donations to San Juan Diego Academy, 1650 Godfrey Ave SW, Wyoming, MI 49509, Humane Society of West Michigan, 3077 Wilson Dr NW, Grand Rapids, MI 49534, Feeding America of West Michigan, 864 W River Center Dr NE, Comstock Park, MI 49321, Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516, Paws for a Cause, 4646 South Division Wayland, MI 49348, or the charity of your choice.

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Jack Archer

March 8, 2025

Hard to believe that its been a year since Tom left this earth to be with his beloved wife Ann.

I truly miss my best friend and Classmate

Jack Archer

March 14, 2024

Tom and I were born 1 month apart and lived within 1 mile of each other and we've been best, truly best friends from the day we first met and originally went to Cedar Lake Public School thru 7th grade when that school closed and we finished our education at Edmore High School Class of 1965.

We have remained in contact all these years and he will be sadly missed by me and my Brother Jerry. The only good thing about his passing is that he will now be with the true love of his life, Ann. She was also a Classmate to us and we lost her way to soon.

Our thoughts and prayer are with the Family at this time and I truely appreciate the fact that Rachell kept me in the loop starting as soon as she knew I was trying to get in touch with Tom.

With all my Respect,

Jack Archer

Beth Setchfield

March 14, 2024

Tom was easy to be around. He was a hard worker and clearly loved his family. Tom was on the Amway retirees board with me and no matter the task, he was willing and able to help. His community mattered and that´s a wonderful legacy to have, one where you love your family, give of yourself to help others and never ask why. Tom was special. Condolences to his family. He will be missed.

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