Thomas Edward Bentley, Jr.

Thomas Edward Bentley, Jr. obituary, Poncha Springs, CO

Thomas Edward Bentley, Jr.

Thomas Edward Bentley, Jr. Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 24, 2025.
Thomas Edward Bentley, Jr

October 31, 1949 - May 21, 2025

Thomas Edward "Tom" Bentley, Jr. of Poncha Springs, Colorado, passed away on Wednesday, May 21, 2025 at Memorial Central Hospital in Colorado Springs, CO following a brief illness. He was 75 years old.

Tom was born on October 31, 1949 in Gideon, Missouri, the eldest son of Thomas Edward Bentley, Sr. and Josephine (Vance) Bentley. His life was shaped early on by the deep sense of purpose, determination and grit that comes from a family legacy of farming.

Tom graduated from high school in Hughes, Arkansas, in 1967, and attended Hendrix College in Conway, Arkansas, where he earned a bachelor's degree in business and economics and subsequently pursued a professional career in finance and accounting.

It was also at Hendrix where he met the love of his life, Deborah (Cook) Bentley. They were married on May 6, 1972 and together forged a beautiful partnership that lasted more than 53 years, and ultimately brought them to Colorado to achieve their lifelong dream of living among the aspen and with mountains in perpetual view.

Tom was proud to serve his country as a member of the Arkansas Army National Guard. He retired as a Captain after more than 20 years of honorable service and was privileged to serve alongside the fine men of the 206th Field Artillery, 39th Brigade.

Anyone who had the privilege of knowing Tom knows that he had great passion for his family, his friends, and for making the most out of the one precious life we have all been given. In addition to camping among the most beautiful places on this earth, Tom loved great food, soulful music, a respectable campfire, and the peace of an oceanside. But perhaps most of all, Tom loved a good story told, and his loved ones will treasure the laughs and memories borne out of this passion.

Tom was preceded in death by his parents Ed and Josephine, and his brother James Vance Bentley.

Those left to cherish Tom's memory are his loving wife, Debbie, and their children Thomas Edward (Ward) Bentley III and Rebecca (Maher) Bentley of Midland, MI; Christopher Bryant Bentley and Marna (McEuen) Bentley of Charlottesville, VA, and his grandson, Cade Bryant Bentley. Also treasuring Tom's memory are his loyal brother John Michael Bentley and wife Charlotte (Harris) Bentley; and a host of nieces, nephews and friends who became family over the many rich years of Tom's life.

The family will hold a private memorial service at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the those wanting to honor Tom's legacy are encouraged to consider contributions to Ark Valley Humane Society in Buena Vista, CO; First Presbyterian Church in Salida, CO; or the American Cancer Society.

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May 30, 2025

Pam Trent posted to the memorial.

May 28, 2025

Glenda Baker posted to the memorial.

May 28, 2025

Bliss R. Spillar III, Vicker Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, Lima Peru posted to the memorial.

Pam Trent

May 30, 2025

I am so sad to hear this news. We had some great times camping, sitting on the back porch sipping our favorite beverage and watching our children play. Debbie in the kitchen making us dinner and not to forget the fabulous cheesecakes that we indudged in. Guys, I am shocked and so very sorry. I love you all

Glenda Baker

May 28, 2025

Deb, I just saw this post about Tom and I lost my breath. I have many awesome memories of Tom and you. Tom made work fun and you always opened your home to us crazy bankers. We always had fun. I so sorry that you lost Tom but he will always be remembered.

Bliss R. Spillar III, Vicker Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, Lima Peru

May 28, 2025

Debbie, Ward, Chris, may the Lord hold you close during this time of loss. Tom was a man of many talents. I know he will be missed by you and all who knew him. Rev. Bliss Spillar III, Lima Peru

Cheryl Park

May 28, 2025

My former husband, Robert Baker, was Tom´s Econ professor at Hendrix, and we were good friends with Deb and him. Tom brought fresh lima beans to us from his family farm, and I´ve never found any as good as those were. Love you, Deb. Cheryl Baker Park

Beth Perdue

May 28, 2025

Sending you my deepest condolences, Debbie. Tom was a good, good man.

Susan Zwiebel

May 28, 2025

I am so sorry for you, and your family´s, loss. Tom was a great guy and an awesome barbecuer. I´m not sure that´s a word but he was the best! I´m shocked and saddened. Hugs to you all!

Carol Cook

May 28, 2025

So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. God bless you all. Carol and Tom Cook

Jamie Saucier

May 26, 2025

Sometimes there's a man.

Ward and I were friends in high school and roommates in college. Tom and Deb always treated me with the kindness and fellowship one shows a member of the family.

I thought I was grown then. But, looking back, I was just a kid. How fortunate I was to come into Tom Bentley's orbit as I struggled to figure out how to be a man in the world. He was someone of honesty, integrity, and fortitude. As solid as the concrete around the fence posts he and Ward and Chris and I set one spring at their old house in Baton Rouge. As reliable as the cold beer he'd press into my hand with a story and a smile. As true as a camp fire on a brisk mountain night.

Tom, I'm going to get together soon with Mr. George Dickel of Tennessee, in your honor. I'd like you to tell me just one more story. It doesn't matter what it's about. I'll listen real close, even if I've heard it before.

Robert Luper

May 25, 2025

My condolences to Debbie and the kids. Tom was an awesome guy and fine artillery officer. There were few people in the Arkansas National Guard that you could say that everyone liked , Tom was one of those. Never worked with a finer officer.
He´s now looking down on the Rockies instead of up. Well done Tom.

Marilyn Webb

May 25, 2025

My sympathy extends to the family. Reading this brought back a host of treasured memories.

Rick Hamby

May 24, 2025

My heart is heavy with the passing of a special friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to Deb, the Bentley family, and friends.
Tom, when I receive the final March Order command, we shall meet again, dip our mugs into the grog and share a drink of artillery punch, at Fiddlers Green. There I will regal in the stories like only you can tell, at Fiddlers Green. Never Give Up!

Jesse Traschen

May 24, 2025

One of the most vivid and beautiful memories I have of Tom is of him and Debbie dancing on the patio at Whine in Midland, Michigan. So much joy and love and some great dancing!
-Jesse Traschen

Herb Lawrence

May 24, 2025

Tom you will truly be missed by those of us who served with you in the 5/206 FA At national guard

Steve Young

May 24, 2025

The Buckley SFB military Retiree Activities Office (RAO) would like to offer our sincere condolences and our gratitude for Capt Bentley's service to our country in the Army. If you would like help with any matters related to casualty assistance, Defense Finance & Accounting Service, Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP), Veterans Affairs (VA), etc. you can contact our office on Buckley SFB at 720-847-6693 or [email protected]. The RAO is staffed by volunteers, all military retirees themselves, and our sole purpose is to provide assistance to any military retirees and surviving spouses/family members with anything related to their military service and/or benefits, in particular during difficult times such as this. We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Steve Young
Lt Col, USAF, Ret
Director, Buckley SFB RAO

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