Thomas Harold Fey

Thomas Harold Fey obituary, La Quinta, CA

Thomas Harold Fey

Thomas Fey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 24, 2022.
Tom Fey, also known as the Tennis Guru, passed away peacefully after suffering from two heart attacks at the end of March surrounded by family. The dash of his life started in Everett, WA as the youngest of 2 sisters. He grew up playing many sports including tennis, baseball, golf, and basketball. Once he set his sights on tennis, he began his life's work with a high energy for growing the sport. His quirky and unique personality made him a memorable friend as he traveled the country to work at various clubs and with many organizations. He especially enjoyed teaching tennis to children through his junior programs. In 1977, he found himself in the Coachella Valley working diligently to spread his passion, give back philanthropically, and teach tennis to as many people as possible. In the desert, he met his longtime girlfriend Brooke Shapter and her daughter Natalie. They created a life together that fostered many friendships, Toys for Tots Toy Drives, rescue dogs, travels, Seahawks games, baseball stadiums, and tennis matches. The end of Tom's life was unexpected as he had many more bullet points on his Excel bucket list, but Tom's passionate and can do attitude will be remembered by all who knew him. He never met a stranger and everyone he came in touch with felt special. We will continue to cheer on his Seattle sports teams and raise our Margaritas with each victory. In lieu of flowers, we ask for donations to Dogs for our Brave.

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April 26, 2022

Traci Graves posted to the memorial.

April 22, 2022

Kerry Anderson posted to the memorial.

April 20, 2022

Jean ,Ned,Brandan and Cameron Greenwood posted to the memorial.

Traci Graves

April 26, 2022

He was...is my Uncle and he was the Baby Brother to two Sisters. Karen and Terri. Son of Harold and Eileen Fey. He was a kind and beautiful soul just like his family before him, and I know they are all together again...except for Karen, who is still with us here. I do and will miss you something fierce Uncle Tom. Till I see you again. Love you Traci ~

Kerry Anderson

April 22, 2022

I´m so shocked and saddened about Tom´s passing. I worked with Tom for many tears at the tennis garden and saw him not too long ago. Praying for his family. I´ll miss his happy personality.

Jean ,Ned,Brandan and Cameron Greenwood

April 20, 2022

Sometimes in life you find a special friend, someone who changes your life
just by being part of it. Someone who you laugh until you can't stop.Someone
who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Tom was that to my family. We will miss him .

Jenn O´Donnell

April 19, 2022

Tom was taken way too soon Praying for Brooke and Natalie and his family.

John and Gail Halverson

April 19, 2022

Always giving-no matter the event-a great coach who gave me many new tricks in tennis! Will be missed so much!

Margeret & Mathew Fritz

April 18, 2022

Tom's kindness and generosity to the Special Olympic athletes will always be remembered fondly. He was a very special guy.

Cindy Reyes

April 18, 2022

He was such a great teacher and genuinely nice person. he will be greatly missed.

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