Thomas Alan Gorsuch

Thomas Alan Gorsuch obituary, St. Louis, MO

Thomas Alan Gorsuch

Thomas Gorsuch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 17, 2024.
Thomas Alan Gorsuch, Chicago, IL

On April 16, 2024, Tom passed away peacefully surrounded by his family. He was born on May 30, 1937 in Rochester, NY. He is survived by his three children, Matt (Leigh) Gorsuch, Molly (Rolf) Anderson, Piper (Theo) Wedemeyer, his grandchildren Luke and Kate Anderson, Payton and Sienna Gorsuch, Marlowe Wedemeyer, his first wife Pamela Fox, second wife Ellen McCaffrey, and his sister, Sister Fran Gorsuch. He was preceded in death by his parents, Eugene and Marion, brothers John, David, Carl and Paul, and sisters Jeanne Sayer and Mary Pelton.

Tom grew up working as a bus boy and waiter, learning the restaurant/bar industry hands-on. After graduating high school, he joined the U.S. Army at the training center at Fort Dix, New Jersey, then drove straight to California with his best friend Freddy White and found success as a bartender. His fate changed when he met a Chicago cop who convinced them to move to Chicago in 1963 and open bars, and the rest is history. He was very driven, a self-made go-getter, carving out a successful career in the bar/restaurant business. Tom owned over 30 establishments in Chicago from the late 60's until the time of his death, notably Mother's, She-Nannigan's (the first establishment in the U.S. to hire female bartenders), and the original Little Nell in Aspen.

He was inducted into the Bartenders Hall of Fame in 1995 and then created a second successful career working as a commercial real estate broker for the past 30 years, while continuing his passion for opening and operating new bars. He was a wonderful father, grandfather, and friend; he loved spending time with his family and exercising daily (biking, yoga, rollerblading on the lakefront). Tom had a hobby for buying cars, owning close to 50 over time. He was always the sharpest dressed man in the room and had a huge sweet tooth for chocolate cake, carrot cake, ice cream, cookies, etc.

"Tommy," as his friends called him, was very light-hearted, funny, intelligent, quick and witty. He had a unique zest for life, a very strong will-power, he was constantly "on-the-go" and had "the best" sense of humor. He loved joking around, watching movies, laughing, music (notably Bob Seger and Johnny Cash), and most of all he loved having fun! Tom had many friends, he never met a stranger, and always treated everyone he worked with fairly with his big heart. He was a true "force of nature" and will be greatly missed. A private celebration of life will be held for family and friends in Chicago.

In lieu of flowers, Tom would want us all to lift a glass and toast to his wonderful life and live all the days of our lives to the fullest! Cheers!

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June 11, 2024

Dimitri Constantin posted to the memorial.

June 10, 2024

Jordan posted to the memorial.

June 10, 2024

Dimitri Constantin posted to the memorial.

Dimitri Constantin

June 11, 2024

Jordan

June 10, 2024

Tom was a close colleague and friend of mine that will be missed dearly. He'd come into the office everyday with a smile on his face! We all stuck by his side until the end and may he now rest in peace :) Until we meet again TG

Dimitri Constantin

June 10, 2024

I was truly saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Having spent years working for him and later as a partner to some of the most successful bars and restaurants in Chicago and Aspen Colorado we parted our ways but he remained in my heart as a big brother and friend. I loved the times we spent together and his family exploring
Utah and skiing the mountains if Colorado. To all his family my deepest condolences.
Rest in pease Tom.

steve edelson

June 6, 2024

Rest in peace
A life well lived

PATRICK OLIVER CONNELLY

June 6, 2024

Tommy was the genuine
article. Many a time, drink & enlightening conversation. He gave leadership & encouragement to many.
Thank you for your time & great memories. RIP

Jim Vecchitto

June 5, 2024

Worked at Mother's in the mid 70's, and again in the early 80's.. great guy to work for..

James F. Hauskins

June 5, 2024

Fond memories of Tommy while working at Barnaby's and the Sitzmark in the early days of the Rush St. revolution and talked with him In Aspen later. Great guy and sincerest condolences sent.

Kathleen Mcnamara

June 4, 2024

When I worked at Remingtons and came in for work and announced it was my 21st birthday George got so mad and Tom just said Congratulations.

Marty Welfeld

June 4, 2024

Tom and I met in the early summer of 1965 as he was working on opening his first bar The Rally Alley with his partner Jay Emerich. We just clicked immediately and became close friends. Before we both married, Tuesday night was our "Date Night" when we had dinner together for years. We had lots of fun in those years, learned some things and more or less laughed all the time. I was able to visit Tom in Chicago last summer and we had a great time. I´m in Australia right now and can´t make it to the memorial. Wish I could. It takes a lifetime to become old friends and Tom was surely one of mine. Deepest condolences to all friends and family, a great one is gone!

Tom Sheridan

June 4, 2024

Tom Sheridan

June 4, 2024

I spent many years working for him and always admired his ability to open great places that were fun to work at and hang out at. He was one of the greats of Rush St. I mean everyone I meet knows Mother's made famous from the 1986 movie "About Last Night" starring Rob Lowe, Demi Moore, and Jim Belushi. I am proud that I was one of the main bartenders there in 1971.

Christine Cernicky - Fricano

June 3, 2024

I worked at Clark St. Cafe and remembering Tommy , Elle & Piper came in. First meeting him, I thought I'd be nervous, but he quickly made me feel at ease! Then came Remingtons and sometimes at Dearborn Social Club. He called me " Kid" and we always had some funny exchanges! Such a success story and now it's truly ~ the End of an Era. All my love & condolences to the entire family, he will be Greatly missed.
Christine ( Chrissie )

Linda Matlow

June 3, 2024

I'm so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I have great memories of working at
She-Nannigan´s in the mid 1970s. It was one of my first jobs when I was young. I'll always remember Tom as kind, helpful, and a person that gave great advice. My condolences to his family and friends. RIP, Tom.

Kate Anderson

May 29, 2024

taking me to Starbucks in the morning

Jim Rittenberg

May 21, 2024

Tom was always a step ahead of others I. The Industry. I learned. Lot from him. He was always willing to share his knowledge. Tom was one of the good guys.

Ian Lesch

May 18, 2024

Dear Molly and Matt....I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. He was always so nice to me and I have fond memories of going out to his bars...some of my best memories from highschool and college.

J Burton Reynolds

May 18, 2024

Having met some 30 years ago as a bartender at PJ Clarke's and hanging in the den of Division St., I found Tom to always be engaging in the now and always a gentleman. He was a class act.

Molly Anderson

May 17, 2024

To all friends and family,
Please do not send flowers or make any donations on this page, Tom would want you to go out and toast to him with a cold beer or cocktail!

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