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Thomas S. Howard
1957 - 2021
Thomas S. Howard
1957 - 2021
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BORN
1957
DIED
2021
Thomas Howard Obituary
Thomas S. Howard passed away unexpectedly on September 21, 2021. Devoted husband of 40 years to Kathryn (Spysinski)
Amazing Father to Ryan and Jessica (Scott) Kebler
Dear brother of Patricia (Bernard) Woytek, Michael (Maureen) Howard, William (Joelle) Howard
Cherished Son-In-Law of the late Richard and Sylvia Spysinski
Tom was born on August 30, 1957 in Texas to the late Thomas and Bettyanne Howard.
He was a proud graduate of St. Norberts College which led him to a successful career in investment banking. During his free time, Tom enjoyed cycling, golfing and boating.
If you couldn’t find him “coaching” his World Champion Chicago White Sox from his couch, he would likely be enjoying an evening in his backyard with his tiki torches and fireplace lit, listening to his music. Where Tom found the most peace was at his lake home in Michigan — watching the sunset from his back deck.
Tom will be greatly missed by all the people whose lives he touched.
Visitation Tuesday, September 28, 2021, from 3:30 - 8 p.m. at Markiewicz Funeral Home, P.C. 108 Illinois St. Lemont. Funeral services Wednesday, September 29, 2021, 9:30 a.m. from the funeral home to SS. Cyril & Methodius Church for Mass at 10 a.m. Burial will take place at Queen of Heaven Cemetery at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, any donations made to the family will be distributed to the charities closest to Tom’s heart.
16 Entries
Michael McAuliffe
March 18, 2022
Deepest sympathy. I went to St. Norbert with Tom and we were in Tau Lambda Upsilon together. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace.
Vanessa Chambliss
October 1, 2021
I am saddened of the news of Mr. Howards passing he was truly a kind hearted person. I enjoyed the conversations we had when I would see him. seeing his smile would just light up with true happiness, I would always ask him how was he doing with a smile and words " You Know Vanessa i am actually having a good day " but i never heard no complaints from him. but know that his life revolved around Mrs. Howard and his children. I thank GOD for meeting and having him in my life you will truly be Missed Mr. Howard now you're Free to do whatever you like.... RIH your friend Vanessa
Shelly Valenti
September 30, 2021
Kathy,
I am so so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family.
Holly Flannery nee Denges
September 29, 2021
Dear Kathy I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Kathy Leipert
September 28, 2021
Dear Kathy, I’m so deeply saddened having to hear of your loss. My heart is breaking for you, Jessica and Ryan. May God be with you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Aaron Sebby
September 28, 2021
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Kathy Bellair
September 27, 2021
Kathy, I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband, Tom. It is never easy to lose your spouse, but so suddenly, compounds the grief. I pray God keeps you wrapped in His arms, so that you are comforted during the days ahead.
I will keep you and Jessica and Ryan, in my prayers.
Katie Brown
September 27, 2021
Jessica,
I am so sorry to hear of this profound loss. I know you and your family will feel this loss deeply, but I am glad you were able to share a happy, beautiful moment with your dad as he walked you towards your new life with your husband. I send my deepest condolences to you and your family in this very sad time. God bless you all!
Karen Smothers
September 27, 2021
Iam so sorry for all of your loss .iam thankful you had such a great father and can cherish his memory forever. You are in my prayers may God bless you all .sending my love
Kris and Joel Ashton
September 27, 2021
Kathy, Jessica and Ryan-
I have no words to accurately describe the level of shock and sadness we are all feeling in Michigan. May we all find comfort in our memories of all the great times we had together. Our hearts go out to all of you. Love you!
Michael La Count
September 27, 2021
Dear Kathy, Jessica, and Ryan
You have my deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Tom will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. I met Tom at Saint Norbert the first week I was there, we became friends right away ,we were room mates thru out our entire college years. We were fraternity brothers, went to Florida for spring break together, and he was a best man at my wedding and we were brothers at heart. Tom was a Bear fan I am a Packer fan, we will let it stay at that. We both enjoyed music and enjoyed life. There was so much I wanted to experience and say to Tom in our now retired years, that now can only be said and felt in my heart and in each of our souls. To the entire Howard family, have strength through each other, from the Lord, and from Tom, he will never leave us. His presence will always be felt in our hearts and pictured in our minds. My deepest condolences.
Michael La Count
Tom and Denise Pruneau
September 26, 2021
We will always remember those fall trips in northern Michigan. You will always hold a special place in our hearts. Just wish we had more time. It was always The Chicago Family, The Pittsburgh Family, and The Detroit Family will always be glued together with Love.
Mark and Moe Grove
September 26, 2021
Dear Kathy, Jess and Ryan,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Clearly too young and taken far too soon. We have great memories of our times together on Paw Paw Lake. The very first visit when he rented the pontoon and came to pick us up at the dock and he dented the boat! He got much better at driving a boat when he purchased his own! Many nights on the deck and playing Sequence with Szrams!
Until we meet again Tom, may the Lord hold you, in the palm of his hand.
Bill Howard
September 25, 2021
I'm going to miss you Tom very much. I was really looking forward to the years ahead and spending more time together. I love you and look forward to seeing you again. Your little brother Bill.
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