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Thomas Joseph Ingenito
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Thomas Ingenito Obituary
age 57, of Woodbridge, died Monday, March 21, 2005 in Yale New Haven Hospital after a short illness. Mr. Ingenito was born on October 14, 1947 in Stamford, CT., a son of Joseph James and Jill (Diotalevi) Ingenito of Virginia. He grew up in Stamford and served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. He was the owner of Precision Electronic Assembly, Inc. in Milford. Thomas was a loving father and grandfather. Thomas is survived by his loving parents; Joseph James and Jill (Diotalevi) Ingenito of Virginia, his devoted children; Brett Ingenito of Newtown, Teri Ingenito-Dombrowski and her husband, Ted, of Southbury, Kelley Ingenito of Brookfield, 4 cherished grandchildren; Kayla Green, Brenna, Aaron and Kelsea Ingenito, and his sister; Roberta Ingenito of Atlanta, GA. A Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, March 24, 2005, at 10:00 am in St. Stephen's Church, 6948 Main Street, Route 25, in Trumbull. Interment with Military Honors will follow in Mountain Grove Cemetery, Easton, located on Harvester Road in Easton. Family and friends may call at the Spadaccino Community Funeral Home, 315 Monroe Turnpike, Route 111, in Monroe on Wednesday, March 23, 2005 from 4:00 pm until 8:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society, 372 Danbury Road, Wilton, CT
06897. See www.spadfh.com for more information.
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Greg Alen
July 16, 2005
The years have flown by, eleven years have passed since the pleasure of Tom's freindship was bestowed on me. The laughter the tears the anger and the fear, it was always the same Tom was always there. The brotherhood will last for ever, until we meet again my freind
Morgan Carroll
June 30, 2005
Nine planets round the sun
Only one does the sun embrace
Upon this watered one
So much we take for granted (DJM)
Rest in peace Tommy.
Justine Simone
May 19, 2005
To Teri, Brett and Kelly, my heartfelt condolences to each of you. I share your pain. Toms passing has left a gaping hole in my heart. I will never forget the many years of friendship and love. I always hoped he'd "Save The Best For Last"....well maybe it will be someday in the great beyond!
I am so glad I heard about his illness in time to speak to him on the phone from Florida. Because I didn't make it back in time to see him.
God Bless Your Soul Tom...now you have found the peace you were always seeking. I'll love ya forever, my Bud! Justine
Patti k
May 1, 2005
My sympathies to the famiily. It had been long since you have been gone. The drama still goes on in the Millionaire Room. I just wished that they had a lot of class as you did. We miss you!
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Marti P.
April 30, 2005
Tom's Family ....
Please know that your dad is missed deeply and that he made an impact on the lives of many people, during in his short stay on this earth.
Tom's friendship was a gift that I will always cherish. He was a good soul and a good friend and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about him and miss him.
I've lost both of my parents and I wish I had the magic words to make your pain disappear, but there is no such word. Each day, will get easier, but the hole in your heart will never go away... We just learn to accept our world without him.
My love to each of you,
Marti aka YoYo aka YoBabieYoo
Karen Eufemia
April 27, 2005
My beloved Cuz, my life will always be better for knowing and loving you. You and your mom have always been two of my most favorite people. I missed seeing you and will miss you always. I love you for who you are and exactly the way you are. You are the best. Someday we will dance together in the sky. My deepest sympathy to the rest of his and my family. I will love and miss him always. Cuz, Karen
Benny Zolluccio
April 26, 2005
" SEND IN THE CLOWNS"
YES, TOMMY MY BELOVED AND WELL LOVED NEPHEW. WAS AND WILL ALWAYS BE A CLOWN.
HE WAS FUNNY, WITTY,CHARMING,SARCASITC. BUT, WAS LOVED BY ALL HE KNEW.
AS HE WAS A CLOWN ON EARTH . WITH HIS FUNNY ANTICS, SO SHALL HE BE A CLOWN UP IN HEAVEN,WHERE AS ALWAYS,HE CAN MAKE FOLKS LAUGH ALL THE TIME.
WHY??? THE CLOWN THING. WELL, TOMMY LOVED CLOWNS. AND AT HIS BEUTIFUL WELL MANICRED HOME HE KEPT MANY. WHICH INCLUDED STATUES, PICTURES ETC.
SO MY BELOVED NEPHEW MAY YOU FOREVER REST IN PEACE. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED AND LOVED FOREVER.
LOVE, ALWAYS,
AUNT BENNY
P.S YOUR COUSIN SCOTT, KARENS SON. ALWAYS THOUGHT YOU WERE THE GREATEST. AND HE TOO WILL MISS YOU VERY MUCH.
Benny Zolluccio
April 14, 2005
Hey, Cuz.
we want you and yours to know. that you. our dear cousin. the funny, happy go-lucky guy. will be missed so very, very much.
may the PEACE of the LORD be with you always and forever.
love,
your cousins:
Karen Eufemia
Eileen Greco
James Gallagher
Liam (Lee) Gallagher
Diana Walsh
April 1, 2005
Tom, the depth of your spirit was the most special thing about you. You touched and inspired me and I will miss your quirky ways.
Doug Van Dusen
March 31, 2005
TJING; I finally figured out what that screen name means. (initials). I met tom in Trumbul CT a few years ago at a AOL party. His first words to me were "your almost as good looking as I am". I thought that was outragously funny. Over the years most of our conversations were about fishing and women. I must say Tom had a zest for both, wich we both had in common. He lived and he lived well. We were talking about getting together one day for a fishing trip. I am sad that we wont be going on that trip but you will be with me in thought and spirit Tom. God Bless.
Carol
March 30, 2005
I never met Tom in person ,but over the years have had many laughs with him. He will be greatly missed. To Toms family, my prayers are with you during this sad time. May God Bless you all.
Carol
Debbie Walinski
March 29, 2005
Dearest Tom, so full of life and vigor. I will miss his exciting personality and numerous stories about his lifes experiences. His zest for life was never ending. Through thick and thin, Tom possessed magic and always maintained his sense of humor.
OUR NEW BABY
March 29, 2005
Maf
March 29, 2005
The Ingenito family & friends:
May this poem comfort you in some small way,
SAFELY HOME
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt to dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still:
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth-
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home:
Oh' the rapture of that meeting,
Oh' the joy to see you come!
"May the Lord bless you and keep you: May He make His face shine upon you, and be gracious to you: May the Lord lift up His countenance upon you, and give you peace." (Num.6:24-26)
Dear Ingenito Family,
Please know that my prayers are with you as you go through this most difficult time. Tom was a good guy, and he will be missed and remembered by many. God Bless you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Beverly
March 29, 2005
Over the past 10 years the laughter and good times shared with Tom were endless. Tom touched everyone's lives with his wit, humor and his caring personal side too. Tom was a good friend who knew how to live life. Sleep with angels my friend. Peace be with you.
Judy Adams
March 29, 2005
We were so sat to hear of your loss.
May the Lord help you in this time of need.
Sugaaa
March 29, 2005
In Deepest Sympathy ~ with heartfelt prayers to the parents and children of TJ & to his many, many friends ... I am so sorry for your loss ~ May he rest in peace as he watches over you.
Wanda Harrah
March 28, 2005
Tom,
You will be truly missed, walk with God and continue to enjoy life. With a heavy heart we had to let you go but you will never be forgotten.
Wanda Harrah
Trish
March 28, 2005
Sorry to hear this shocking news. Godspeed recovery to Toms' family and may Tom's spirit soar in our memories and hearts. ~Trish
Patricia oLIVERI
March 27, 2005
God bless a man and his -the love hes given the joy he has spread -I for one will always remember him with love
Louise Honcharik
March 26, 2005
I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of Tom.....He will be missed by many of us in the Ct. Over 40 chat room. Prayers with you all. God Bless.......
Christian
March 24, 2005
In my brief interactions with you Tom, he impressed me with his intellect, he made me laugh with his irrreverent wit, he made me smile with his observations and challenged me to think deeply about issues I might never ponder.
People like this are refreshing to the tired, inspirational to the disillusioned and encouraging to the insecure. Cheers to you, Tom. You did what so few of us get to do - realize in us and in others the potential that lies within. Your impact on others'lives will live on in all of us.
Michael Yoffe
March 24, 2005
My condolences to Tom's family from a high school friend.
Clarice
March 24, 2005
To Tom's family,
My deepest sympathy to you all, he was a man with a quick smile and wit to match. May you find comfort in the fact he was cared about by many.
Bob
March 24, 2005
Like many of us who have signed this guest book we came to know Tom as an on line friend with a great sense of humor and a zest for life. I came to know Tom in person and found he was all that and more, bright and generous and wise and gentle. He loved his family deeply and thought of them in every act he took.
Tom and I were also the same age, and we often reflected on how the common experiences of our generation allowed us to understand and relate to each other quickly. I will miss him greatly.
Debra Young
March 24, 2005
THAT MAN IS A SUCCESS
who has lived well,
laughed often and loved much;
who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children;
who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
who leaves the world better
than he found it,
whether by an improved poppy,
a perfect poem or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation
of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.
Robert Louis Stevenson
(Tom, "Fair Winds a Following Seas")
Bob
March 24, 2005
Tom, I'm getting ready to say something and i know you are watching.
Tonight I was thinking about that trip to the casino we never took.
Or the diving trip we wont get to take.
It occurs to me how I walk down the streets, seeing without seeing, hearing without hearing.
Some people say the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Tom, I think you proved them wrong - you mastered both. You looked and saw, you heard and listened. You cared. You made me laugh.
Its pretty clear to me that when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
And It seems to me you have lived your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
I am gonna miss you bud.
Bill
March 24, 2005
I didnt know Tom but I know he was loved in the room. Chat on dude!
Teri ( Daughter) Ingenito
March 23, 2005
When I was little, my dad's hands seemed as if they could hold the world. If I measured my palm against his, I couldn't help but marvel at the difference. To me, they were so big, so strong. How could a daughter feel anything but safe with hands like that to guide her? He was the first guy to ever love me. First to sweep me off my feet or plant those scratchy whisker kisses gently on my cheek. First man to take me seriously. The first friend I ever had. When I was a little girl I loved you so much for you were as strong and smart as you could be. No matter what the problem was, I knew you'd make it all ok. You always were what "hero" meant to me. And looking back I'm grateful now for all the things you did, the plans you put on hold or rearranged. I always felt that you would be a friend I'd have forever. You should know today, Dad, nothing's changed. We can't know why some things happen, but we can know that love and beautiful memories outlast the pain of grief. And we can know that there's a place inside the heart where love lives always and where nothing beautiful can ever be forgotten. If there is anything I have learned it is that nothing beautiful and amazing in this world is ever really lost. Those I cherish will always live on in memory. " I Love You Daddy"
Valerie C
March 23, 2005
I offer my sincere condolences to Tom's Family. Tom was a wonderful guy and full of wit and humor. He will be sorely missed.
See ya when I get there Tom, muahh......
Giovanna Rosamaria
March 23, 2005
We treaure the beautiful memories and forever carry the warmth of your love in our hearts.Thank you Ingenito Family for sharing Tom with us. He was "Simply The Best".
Janice
March 23, 2005
MAY YOUR TRIP TO HEAVEN BE SPEEDY AND A HOST OF ANGELS SURROUND YOUR LOVED ONES HERE WHO MORN YOUR PASSING....... YOU WILL BE WITH US FOREVER...
Jolene West
March 23, 2005
Tom thank you for being a wonderful friend. You will be missed every day. The way you touched other lives and made a difference to all who knew you and cared about you. The care you gave to so many of us was really special.
Kathleen Chatel
March 23, 2005
Although I did not know Tom as long as most of his online friends, and never did meet him in person, his friendship for just a few months will be cherished in my mind, and heart always.
His clever humor in the chat room, mixed with his intelligent conversation in private, is what made him unique!
Our friendship took off because we both shared having sons in the military whom had served in Iraq. His excitement was exhilarating that Brett was coming home soon.
Tom was easy to talk to, and was a great listener, but never ceased to share his life expericences ie: talker too. LOL His honesty was profound in his words, and how he lived his life.
I will miss him, but mostly I will miss knowing him longer. Sheesh..just when I found someone I could truly be myself with, and have a sincere friendship without expectations..he leaves me!
I am very fortunate to have known him, not just of him.
Tom is one whom will live on in our thoughts, hearts, and words..this I am sure of.
With Great Fondness,
Kathleen aka Miintherightroom <3
Brooke
March 23, 2005
Dear Family and Friends of Tom,
Life offers us the simplest blessings through the people we meet. A part of Tom will dwell in all of us as we continue in days ahead. His laughter and wit will resonate, his honesty will linger, and his compassion will ring. All of us who grew to know Tom couldn't help but embrace his spirit. We are better because of him !
My deepest, most heartfelt condolences in these difficult days.
Lauri
March 23, 2005
Tom...I'm totally shocked to hear of your loss...I'm so sad that I never had the pleasure of meeting you...but when we were on-line...I felt like I knew you already...you were a wonderful dear man...May you rest in eternal peace and God Bless your family...you will be very deeply missed my friend...Lots of Love...Hugs & Kisses...Lauri...xoxo
C.O.L.E.
March 23, 2005
God didn't promise
Sun without rain.
Joy without sorrow,
Peace without pain.
But God promised
Strength for the day,
Rest for the labor,
Light for the way,
Grace for the trials,
Help from above,
Unfailing sympathy,
Undying love.
To The Family of Thomas Joseph Ingenito:
Although Tom may be gone from this earthly place and moved into his eternal home, be comforted in knowing that the memory of his smile, laugh, hug, and touch, will forever light a room, thrill a soul, and heal your pain.
God Bless You
Elizabeth
March 23, 2005
Tom was a lovely, lovely man and a fabulous flirt. Heaven is gaining a charming man who will no doubt be as enormously popular there as here.
My heartfelt condolences to his family in their time of sorrow.
Bill Rolin
March 23, 2005
It is with a saddened heart to learn of your passing. The Heavens will inherit one classy guy. May your family find peace in knowing how much you touched others lives. God's speed Tom, see you again some day.
Bill
Richard Dawson
March 23, 2005
Tom you will be greatly missed with your humor and class, may you be touching the face of god now.
Rick Dawson
MOM & DAD INGENITO
March 23, 2005
TO OUR SON TOMMY:
AND HE WILL RAISE YOU UP ON EAGLE'S WINGS
BEAR YOU ON THE BREATH OF DAWN
MAKE YOU TO SHINE LIKE THE SUN
AND KEEP YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND.
EACH TIME I HEAR THIS SONG, I WILL BE THINKING OF YOU. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. JESUS WILL KEEP YOU SAFE,I KNOW. WE LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH. WE WILL BE WITH YOU SHORTLY.
MOM AND DAD.
Anthony Mitarotondo
March 23, 2005
I didn't know Thomas. I'm the same age, actually our birthdays are only two weeks apart mine being October 1, 1947. I also served in Vietnam and in that kinship I offer his family my sincere condolences. In the time-honored tradition of all our veteran brothers and sisters I salute you and may you rest in the arms of Jesus forever.
Mike Mastrianni
March 23, 2005
My deepest condolances to Tom's family and children. Karen and I knew Tom for almost 30 years, since we met at Pitney Bowes. Your sense of humor and great personality will be greatly missed. Peace, old friend.
Julie Robertino
March 23, 2005
Tommy I did not know you though you went to school with my daughter Marie. Its your Mom that I have known for many years. You meant so much to her and everyone who knew you. Now that you are in heaven please say Hi to my hysband Sammy. He is missed as you will be.
Jeanne Coffman
March 23, 2005
Tom you will be greatly missed by all. Your kind,funny,loving ways made our days alot brighter..
Love Ya-Jeanne
Lissa Correale
March 23, 2005
Not ever meeting Tom in person I still felt I knew him just as well in a chat. He always made me laugh and others and had the best sense of humor. He is the "Laughter ANGEL" in heaven and is going to be missed dearly. My deepest condolences to Tom's family and all his very close friends and "the Boa", I know he his flying around the Milly Room and watching over all of us and still laughing at our simple jokes! I can hear him.....ahahahahahahaha Love and Kisses Tomster!
Julie Johnson
March 23, 2005
If there is anything I would want you to know, it would be first that I loved you and second that I thank you. I thank you for always being there when I needed you. Your unconditional love and support will never be forgotten. I will always long to hear your booming voice yelling "KID" everytime I called. I will forever miss those beautiful blue eyes smiling back every time I saw you. May you be forever in the presence of God's Angels. Until we meet again. Love, KID
Lin Loflin-Miller
March 23, 2005
Tom was special to all of us in many special and private ways. He was a good friend, always willing to listen and to help anyone he could. Of all the Mil for F gang, I think he will be missed the most.
God bless him and be with his family at this time.
The Ingenito Fa,mily
March 23, 2005
To all of you, from all of us. In this time full of sorrow and grief, words can not express the pain. We do however, find comfort in the words, thoughts and prayers expressed by all of you. Thank you for taking the time to remember and revere the man we all came to know in different ways, but bonded to him the same in love. Sincerely, The Ingenito Family
Donna K Olson
March 23, 2005
Tom ~ you will live eternally in the hearts of many, you are an honored and respected gentleman! May God Bless your family and friends as he brings peace to their lives in this time of sorrow and loss! You will be missed by all.
Bill & Pam Romaniello
March 23, 2005
To the Ingenito Families
May Tom rest in peace. Our sincerest sympathies to you and your
families.
gina lorefice
March 23, 2005
TJ U STUD U u will be very missed and tho i never met u in person i felt like i knew u as a fun friend****
Althalea Bodner
March 23, 2005
It is said that people enter our lives for many reasons. Some come and go, while others leave footprints on your heart. I haven't been in the rooms much lately. I have missed a lot of folks. Tom's passing will be greatly missed. Tom always cracked me up. He will be missed by all,his real life family and the one here On AOL. May the Lord Bless you all and hold you tight, in this sorrowful hour.
Althalea
Linda Tiedeman
March 23, 2005
My deepest condolances to all of you. There are no words I could write that can heal your sorrow , and pain. I can only pray that your bereavement for the loss of your father, family member , and friend be brief, and that you heal in your own time. I hope that you find peace to replace the sadness you may now feel.I loved Thomas dearly. He was a wonderful man. I feel privileged to have known him. I think he was the most amazing person,but,he was also a character. I smile just thinking about him.He made an impression in my heart that will last forever. To the children,,your father was a good man,, and he did his share of boasting ;) I hope when times get difficult you think of him and remember to lean on one another. God be with you all always. Your in my prayers. GODSPEED
Special prayers for you Brett you be careful and drop me a note so I can send ya care packages to pass out. Sincerely, Linda
The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home
March 23, 2005
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
JILL & JOE INGENITO
March 23, 2005
TOMMY.OUR SON; NO SOONER HAD YOU PASSED OVER, WE MOURN THE LOSS OF A WONDERFUL SON, A WONDERFUL FATHER OF THREE WONDERFUL CHILDREN. WE, AS YOUR PARENTS ARE PROUD OF YOU AND OF YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS DURING YOUR VERY SHORT TIME ON THIS EARTH. WE BOTH KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE, AND LIKE DADDY ALWAYS TOLD YOU, "GIVE "EM" HELL."
I KNOW THAT LIKE HERE ON EARTH, YOU WILL BE THE LIFE OF THE PARTY. KEEP 'EM LAUGHING AND CONTINUE WITH YOUR EXTRA ORDINARY PERSONALITY.
MAY YOU FIND PEACE AND HAPPINESS AND WE WILL BE WITH YOU SHORTLY.
WE LOVE YOU DEARLY. TERI HAS DONE A MAGNIFICENT JOB CARING FOR YOU AND HAS LOST HER "KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOUR." YOU ARE LOVED BY ALL.
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE, DEAR WONDERFUL AON.
MOM & AND DAD INGENITO
Yvette &Steve M
March 22, 2005
Tom We are going to miss you!!!!!
Sometimes in my heart
or when I hear your name
I think of the day I lost you
there still is so much pain.
You were my only love
and also my best friend.
With you I choose to be with
my life I wanted to spend.
I really have to thank you
for giving me your love.
For guiding and advising me
and placing me above.
God choose you to be His angel
now, you watch me from above.
He had better plans for you
but still I feel your love.
You were a great teacher
I'll remember you forever.
Somewhere in another place,
we will be back together.
Yve & Steve M ( Austin, Tx)
Jeanne St.Onge
March 22, 2005
Tom-You will be intensely missed by many online. I will always remember a loving,kind fair man who was strong in character and soul. Please find peace in heaven hold us all a seat.
Love you Always, Jeanne
Sam Parisi
March 22, 2005
My deepest sympathy to Tom's family, may he rest in peace.
dina ohanian-wright
March 22, 2005
Tom~I am hoping that you are smiling down on all of us now as a beautiful agngel, just as you smiled on us when you were here. Your laugh is the best thing I can remember about you. Though there are many other wonderful things, like that beautiful smile that could light up a room. I will miss you so much. You were just a constant for me, someone who was just always there. I know you are still with us all. I will look forward to seeing you again someday. Keeping you in my heart! DinaLou
Ana
March 22, 2005
My condolences and deepest sympathies to Tom's family may he rest in peace
Scott SingleAzGuy
March 22, 2005
God bless Tom, his family and all of his friends. I will be honest and say that I never knew Tom in person.. But from everything I did know about him he was a great man. I am sorry for the loss his family and his very good friends are feeling.. God bless him.
Maggie
March 22, 2005
While I never got to actually meet Tom in person, the happiness and wit he shared in the chatroom I virtually met him in will remain with me always. To his family, I know you have lost someone very special and my heart and prayers are with you in this time of loss.
Mike & Cheryl
March 22, 2005
Tom we will miss you very much,We absolutely loved the many years of laughter we shared online, you will NOT be forgotten......our condolences to your family.
Terry Johnson
March 22, 2005
Tom, you and I never did get to meet for lunch when you came to Virginia, but I know that you and I will have lunch in heaven together. You always made me laugh and now you can make the angels laugh in heaven. God must need you up there with him. I will miss you. Much love, Terry
Donna Olson
March 22, 2005
Tom touched many a life with his one-of-a-kind brand of humor, passion for life, generosity and compassion for people who genuinely needed him. I cannot think of Tom and not smile. I will always remember the smiles. Thank you, Tom.
Ross Gage
March 22, 2005
To the Family and Friends of Tom. It is with a heavy heart I say good bye to one of the nicest guys I have had the pleasure to know. I met Tom the first time 9 years ago in Las Vegas. And i knew from the minute I met him he was one of the special ones that graced this earth.
He will be greatly missed by many, And many will never know of the pleasure of him in their lives. The Earth is a little sadder without his presence.
Tom, I know you are listening, hey Buddy, Keep the Boa away from the angels!! < inside joke > Love ya bud!!
Loretta Lavanco
March 22, 2005
Dear Tom,
I always thought you were a special person. I loved your warm sense of humor, your affectionate nature, your sense of humor and your generous spirit. I smiled every time I thought of you. Now I know I am not alone in being entranced by your charisma. The world is a sadder place without you but heaven has gained one hell of angel.
Peace, my friend. See you later.
Cate Eldridge
March 22, 2005
My dear friend Tom..
You will be remembered always..so i will not say goodbye..Just save us all a place up there with you so one day we can all laugh together again. Your wonderful sense of humor & the never ending support you so freely gave touched so many lives. You will be remembered with great admiration...In this crazy world it was a priviledge to call you a friend, and I will fondly remember all the fun in ny, las vegas, boston and ct since meeting you nearly 9 yrs ago. You will be so dearly missed my friend.
For Tom's family I wish for you to find comfort in knowing how much so many loved him. May Gods grace bring you peace, may the love of friends and family comfort you, and may each time you see a star in the evening sky, know Tom's light and spirit are continuing to shine.
With Loving thoughts
Debra Bebrin
March 22, 2005
You Have Meant So Much
It’s hard to think in the past
I’m now too selfish for that
We both knew our friendship would last
Our brains connected the day we met.
We were both the others conscience
In many ways we thought alike
If things happen that I am not sure of, I may seek your advice
Hopefully I will not make any choices you dislike
Your smile always warmed our hearts
Your laugh would resonate a room
I would gives hugs and anything
To have you well, here, in your crayon “costume”
You have been a part of my family
This weekend Nikki apologized for kicking you in the shin
Although this happened ten years ago when she was a little imp
She talked about the Mercedes ride and all her memories with that usual devilish grin
We were all there holding your hand
You knew Michelle was scared
Billy, Paul and I were proud to know a man so grand
We talked for hours about all that we had shared
Thank you to all of your family
For sharing your time with us
Wonderful, gracious and all that they could be
They carried on with dignity while knowing your distress
You know a piece of our hearts are with you
You will never be forgotten
I will always check on your kids to see what they are up to
Your “presence” in us will always live on…
Love Paul, Deb, Nikki, Billy and Michelle
3/21/05
Stephen Feingold
March 22, 2005
It saddens me that Tom passed.
My thoughts are with him and his family.
With Love,
Stephen
Rommel B.
March 22, 2005
Farewell my friend. May your new journey in eternal life shine as it did here on earth. I will surely miss your wit, your humor, your charm, but most of all I shall miss just you. May God wrap his loving arms around your family and comfort them during this time of great sorrow. ((((Tom)))) Love ya
JoAnn Malczyk
March 22, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to Toms family. All of his friends will miss him and will always remember the way he made us smile.
Smartie King
March 22, 2005
.May you all have peace in your hearts
We have all lost a very precious one, he will be missed here on earth. (((((TingTing))))......Baci/baci
Jana DuLaney
March 22, 2005
Tom was a gentle soul and I am proud to have called him my friend.
I will miss him.
My deepest prayers and thoughts are with his family.
God Bless You All
tony
March 22, 2005
Tom, be at peace brother, those of us who stay and miss you, will never forget you.
tony
FRAN BATTISTA
March 22, 2005
TO THE INGENITO FAMILY GOD GAVE US A GIFT OF HAVING TOM IN OUR LIVES...WE WERE ALL TOUCHED BY AN ANGEL....HE NOW SITS IN HEAVEN...GIVING ADVICE,MAKING EVERYONE LAUGH,AND HELPING ANYONE HE CAN.....AN ANGEL TOUCHED ME IT WAS MY BEST FRIEND TOM.I'LL CHERISH THOSE MEMORIES FOREVER.....ANGEL BLESSING FOR ALL THOSE WHO TOUCHED TOM'S LIFE.....FRAN BATTISTA
Sergio
March 22, 2005
My deepest sympathy to the friends and family of Tom.
Randie S
March 22, 2005
My heartfelt sympathy to Tom's family. Tom was clearly a man of values who could be respected, enjoyed and appreciated by all. May the memories each of you have of your son, father, grandfather comfort you in your loss. Tom will live forever in the hearts of those who love him.
Y. Kathleen
March 22, 2005
you have left us at high noon
moving swiftly along a winding road
rushing to greet the setting sun
a thousand tears line your path
heartbroken
we grieve your departure
"Mystery upon mystery
The gateway of the manifold secrets"
So long Tom
[email protected]
Pattie
March 22, 2005
One of the brightest STARS of the Millionaires Lounge has been lost, you were a friend to many and just a funny guy to all. Your jokes and humor will be sadly missed. Rest peacefully and may God Bless.
Pattie (CHANELNO5BLONDE)
Tommy M
March 22, 2005
Tom, you will be missed by all. May God Bless you, and hopefully you will have AOL in heaven to talk to us all with.
The Staff of The Sofran Group
March 22, 2005
Our deepest condolences to the family at this difficult time.
Gail
March 22, 2005
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to Tom's friends and family. May your memories keep Tom, who was so loved and admired by so many close to you in spirit and thought and always in your heart,
today and forever.
Petra Janich
March 22, 2005
To Tom's Family and Friends
I am glad I had the chance to get to know him, even though it was only from online. He was a wonderful person and friend and will be heavily missed.
May you rest in peace peace.
With Love
Joe O
March 22, 2005
My deepest sympathy to TJ's family & Friends for your loss. TJ was always a gentleman and will be greatly missed by all he touched.
katherine
March 22, 2005
You are held in gentle thought and prayer ..
warmly..
Judy Boudreaux
March 22, 2005
Tom was always a pleasure to chat with. For his family & children-know he brought a lot of joy to everyone. My deepest sympathies to all of you & please find some peace knowing he is free from pain & always watching over you..never far away..and with the angels.
MARCY ROTTMAN
March 22, 2005
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. YOU WILL ALWAY BE REMEMBERED FOR YOUR GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR IN THE MILLIONAIRES LOUNGE. YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED BY ALL.
Jackie and Gene Lithgow
March 22, 2005
It has been a privilege for us to know Tom and his parents. He brought the gift of laughter to all who were around him. Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers continue to go out to all of his family.
Cheri (Vix) Gray
March 22, 2005
Tom, you will be truly missed! Your wit, humor, sincerity, your kind words to those in need. It's comforting to know we all have you as "our angel" watching over us now. My love, respects, and heart goes out to your family and ALL your many friends. I will keep you all in my prayers! And I want you to know, how proud he was of his family! Rest now Tom, our angel. Love you, Cheri
Sherri Shumski
March 22, 2005
What a sweet,dear man Tom was.Its hard to think of him as was.We drank his Polish vodka, and laughed.My prayers are with him and his family now.Be happy and peacefull my friend.We will never forget you.
lenny navyseal
March 22, 2005
May you rest in peace bud,our prayer's are with you and your's always.
You'r memory will be with all of us always and forever.Sleep with the angels my friend for you're work here is done.
always
Lenny
Brenda
March 22, 2005
Tom, I know that you have found the glory. I know there is not more pain, just beauty. I was graced with our meeting. I was honored. You were truly a gentleman. Dearly missed. Rest in peace.
March 22, 2005
My husband and I would like to extend our deepest condolences to Tom's family. I had the good fortune of knowing Tom when he oversaw all operations at CEI (Westport Precision). As Viet Nam veterans, Tom and my husband instinctively, shared a camaraderie that all those who served could understand. Tom will be fondly remembered and sadly missed.
Jan & Bob Forgette
faith
March 22, 2005
your presence will be so missed...you never failed to make me laugh...i pray for Gods comforting arms to be wrapped around your dear family for strength...
Kathy Ingraham
March 22, 2005
Tom will be missed by many my deepest sympanthy goes out to his family Tom was always a dear freind and adored by me I happy we had time to love and laugh together
We made our peace ,,,,,,He was one of the most caring men I ever knew he loved his family dearly
He will always be in my thoughts My prayers go out to his family
God bless
Bill Romaniello
March 22, 2005
Tom...being your business partner for 13 years, but more importantly your friend for 20 years, I was very familiar with your strong will, the will to succeed in any endeavor, and your perseverence...but in my eyes I will best remember you as a loving , caring, father who was there for his children 24/7/365 and as a friend I could count on at any time. God bless you on your next journey.
MARI STATOME
March 22, 2005
TO TERI,BRETT,KELLY AND TED... I AM SO SORRY FOR YR LOSS. YOUR DAD WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED IN MY HEART. HE WAS A BLAST AND FUN! I FEEL FOR ALL OF YOU...MAY GOD HOLD HIS ARMS AROUND EACH OF YOU...AND COMFORT YOU ALL AT THIS TIME...TOM, I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH AND YOU WILL BE MISSED.
MARI, YOUR FRIEND FROM VIRGINIA!!!!
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