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Thomas Kelly Obituary
Middletown - Thomas H. Kelly, 69, passed away Monday, May 13, 2019. He was born in Jersey City and has resided in Middletown, New Jersey for the last 38 years. Tom was a graduate of Saint Peter's College with a B.S. in Economics.
Tom was the Athletic Coordinator at St. Mary's Parish in New Monmouth for numerous years. He enjoyed coaching his children in several sports and never missed a game or an event. He loved the beach and as many of his friends will attest, was an impressive bodysurfer. Tom was a dedicated family man, but most of all loved spending time with his grandchildren. They were his pride and joy.
Tom is predeceased by his father Harry Kelly. He is survived by his beloved wife Arlene of 48 years, his loving children and their spouses: Lauren and Michael Slavik and Brian and Adriana Kelly. Also surviving are his grandchildren: Riley, Abby and Michael Slavik and Luca Thomas Kelly, his dear mother Emma Kelly, and his sister Eileen Flak.
A life celebration will be held from 2:00 to 6:00 pm Sunday, May 19th at the John E. Day Funeral Home (85 Riverside Ave. Red Bank, NJ). A Mass of Christian burial will be held at 10:30 am Monday, May 20th at St. Mary's Chapel (26 Leonardville Rd. New Monmouth, NJ) and an entombment immediately following at Holmdel Cemetery (900 Holmdel Rd, Holmdel, NJ).
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Tom's name are greatly appreciated to either of the following local charities: www.zynergyretirement.com/zynergy-cares/thomas-kelly/ or www.ParkingforPetesSake.org
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Lisa F Attix
August 23, 2019
To Eileen, Arlene, Lauren, Brian and Family,
I am deeply saddened to learn of Tom's passing. I met all of you while working for Dr. Flak, many years ago. One thing was always evident, the love Tom had for his family. Not just Arlene and the kids, but Eileen/ Greg and his wonderful parents. You were all woven together by blood and marriage. Lauren and Brian, you were such cute, precocious children and held the attention of all who met you. Tom and Arlene were doting parents who love you dearly. Having known the love they have for both of you, I can only imagine how much your children mean to them. How my heart breaks not only for all of you, but most especially for all the grandchildren left at very young ages without their grandfather, Tom. From personal memories and stories kept alive by all of you I hope the little ones will always know and feel how much he loved them. So much personal loss within the family in such a short time. I hope you will give yourselves the time to focus on many happy moments shared and allow them to sustain you through this sad time. Hold tight to the "babies" and surround them with all that is good. Feel Tom's love neverending, as he is always with you. Reach for him often and feel his love and guidance even from afar. My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers to all of you, as you face life's new journey.
Mark J.Belanger
May 19, 2019
To Arlene,Mrs. Kelly,Children,and Grandchildren; Judy And I were deeply saddened to hear of your loss of Tommy. He was a dear friend all through St.Anne's,St. Michael's,and St. Peter's. Always a gentleman,and a lot of fun to be with. He will be missed by all those that knew him. Our sincerest condolences to all of you and your families.Our prayers are with you. God rest his soul. Love to all, Mark&Judy Belanger.
May 17, 2019
Mrs Kelly, Lauren and Brian, all our love and thoughts are with you. The Reilly Family - Larry, MaryAnn, Lauren and Erin
Carol Stansbury
May 17, 2019
Arlene & family,
My deepest sympathies & prayers go with you at this sad time.
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May 16, 2019
To Arlene, Lauren, and Brian: My heart is reaching out to you all for the loss you are suffering. I hope your many happy memories will help you through this dark time, and please know that my prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Linda C. Hurley, RN (CCMCO)
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