Thomas Joseph Killinger

1962 - 2015

Thomas Joseph Killinger

1962 - 2015

BORN

1962

DIED

2015

Thomas Killinger Obituary

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A mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10:30 am Monday, July 20, 2015 at St. Ambrose Catholic Church in Parchment where a visitation will be held prior from 9:30 am for Thomas J. Killinger, Where he practiced his faith for the past 15 years. He died peacefully at his home on the morning of July 13, 2015. He was 52 years old. His wife Jane preceded him in death in February of 2015. Formerly of Hastings, MI, Tom was the 3rd of 4 children, born November 5, 1962 to Bernard L. Killinger and Maxine M (Gurden) Killinger. He graduated from Hastings High School in 1981. In September of 1988, he married Jane DeHollander, of Portage. Jane's parents were James Jacob DeHollander, Sr, and Sally DeHollander. Tom and Jane had one child. Their daughter, Sarah was born in September of 1991. Tom is survived by his daughter Sarah (Ron Vaicekauskas) and surviving siblings are Kathleen M. Shay of Hastings, Timothy J. Killinger of Glenn Allen, VA and Bernard L. Killinger, Jr. (Cindy) of Gloucester, VA. Tom was talented musician and proudly played TAPS at the funeral of his Father-in-law, Jake DeHollander. He was also a long time employee of Flow Serve Corporation in Kalamazoo. When he was a young lad, Tom showed a propensity for computers and data processing, and it was at first a hobby, then a profession as he studied at Western Michigan University and then went to Flow Serve Corporation to apply his skills. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Ambrose parish Children's School Fund. Arrangements by Parchment Redmond Funeral Home, 2300 East "G" Avenue Parchment, MI 49004 (269) 349-7735. www.redmondfuneralhomes.net

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September 24, 2015

Jim Budrow posted to the memorial.

July 27, 2015

Will Clancy posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2015

John Kwon posted to the memorial.

Jim Budrow

September 24, 2015

I enjoyed working and visiting with Tom over the many years he was at Flowserve. I retired about a year ago and was shocked to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prays are with Tom and his family.

Will Clancy

July 27, 2015

Tom was a great guy and and so very helpful and patient with us . He will be missed by family, friends, and all of his coworkers. I'm so sorry for your loss Sarah and will keep you and your family in my prayers. God bless you.

John Kwon

July 22, 2015

I worked closely with Tom for nearly a decade at Flowserve. I am proud to be able to call him a friend, and he was a much esteemed colleague. I learned a great deal from Tom professionally about the IT business. I know he's in a better place and with loved ones that have gone before him. I hope and pray the Lord looks over his and Janes daughter with a watchful eye. It was a pleasure knowing you Mr. Killinger. Till we meet again. :-)

Irene

July 21, 2015

It is hard to put into words the lost all of us feel even though we know you are at heaven's with Jane. We always joked about the Kmart light being on (Msg indicator) to know you were ok and all was well for another day. It's tough to see that light off but comforted in thought that you and Jane are fine now. You are the Gentle Giant Teddy Bear with the heart as big as the Universe and Patience that could fill all the oceans. I will miss you but I will pray the void you left behind will be lessened each day for your Family, Sarah, Your Friends and myself.

Aaron Bennett

July 21, 2015

I worked with Tom for the last 8 years and what a kind person we have lost. Tom was always so giving and selfless. Lifting up his family in prayer.

Lynda Mills

July 17, 2015

My thoughts and prayers be with Sarah and Tom's family. What a great guy who took such good care of Jane..can now be together) RIP Tom)

Peter Wilk

July 17, 2015

Tom was a BIG part of Flowserve IT and will be missed. My sympathy goes out to the family.

Vicki Smith

July 17, 2015

Tom and I worked together for many years. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. He was one of the kindest people I know, and he will be missed by all. My sincere condolences.

Nancy Reilly

July 16, 2015

I worked with Tom at Durametallic/Flowserve for many years and was so sad to hear of his passing. Such a kind, knowledgeable, helpful, talented, and gracious man, who was liked, respected and appreciated by all who knew him. He will be greatly missed by his fellow employees/friends. My heartfelt condolences to his family.

Jeff Brown

July 16, 2015

Tom was a great guy and a true professional. Enjoyed working with him for many years.

Debra Thomas

July 16, 2015

Tom was always the nicest fellow to work with. He will be truly missed by his family at Flowserve.

Joris van de Klundert

July 16, 2015

When the sad news reached me i was shocked. Still cannot believe to have lost such a great colleague. You've helped me so many times. We've lost a amazing guy.

Mike Wald

July 15, 2015

Tom worked for me for many years at Flowserve. He was a great guy and special employee. He will be missed by family, friends, and all of his coworkers and the people he supported. We have lost a kind soul.

Cyndi Opfar

July 15, 2015

I am still in shock that you're gone. I will miss working with you, but most of all I will miss my friend. I will miss giving each other encouragement when things are tough at work or praying for each other's family during difficult times. You were a true friend and were loved and respected by so many. I know how much you missed your your dear wife Jane and I have no doubt that you had a happy reunion with her and your mom. I'm sad at the loss of a great friend, but heaven gained an amazing guy. (Flowserve)

Brenda Ray

July 15, 2015

I am deeply saddened at the loss of my beloved friend Jane's husband, I will miss both of their warm, friendly smiles and sincerely kind words and gentle spirits.
May God bless their beautiful and kind daughter Sarah and her husband I am so sorry for your losses , my deepest sympathy to all who loved Tom (& Jane). Jane & Tom were brilliant highly intelligent people and did much to brighten the world. Brenda & family.

janet brown

July 15, 2015

Now you can be with the love of your life Jane Ann your wife. Rest in peace my dear friend.

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