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THOMAS R. McHUGH
1949 - 2019
THOMAS R. McHUGH
1949 - 2019
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THOMAS McHUGH Obituary
Age 69, of Shaler Twp., passed away on September 2, 2019, with his family by his side. Tom was born October 9, 1949, in Pittsburgh. He was the son of the late Virginia and Raymond McHugh. After graduating from Central Catholic, he enlisted in the Marine Corps. After serving our country in the Vietnam War, he attended The University of Pittsburgh, graduating with a Bachelor's Degree, followed by a Master's in Social Work. He is survived by his wife, Linda McHugh (Gerwick); daughter, Emily Spence (McHugh) and Tristan Spence; son, Ryan and Lisa McHugh; son, Conor McHugh and his fiance, Josipa Kukucka. He was the very proud grandfather (Grum) of Maura, Keelin, and Callum Spence. He was preceded in death by his two brothers, Raymond and James McHugh. He will be greatly missed by his dog, Seamus. Those who knew Tom were lucky to know this wise, thoughtful and humble man. He was an amazing husband, father, brother, uncle, brother-in-law, and friend. No Visitation. There will be a Memorial Service on Friday at 4 p.m. at NEELY FUNERAL HOME, 2208 Mt. Royal Blvd., Glenshaw. In lieu of flowers, memorials suggested to Mario Lemieux Foundation, www.mariolemieux.org. Please visit us at neelyfuneralhome.com.
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October 7, 2019
I'm sorry to learn of Tom's passing. I'm sorry for your loss. Several years ago, my son, then a young teen, visited Tom. Tom's words of advice and the defense mechanisms that he taught my son for his situation were priceless to him. Now in his early twenties, my son called to see Tom again but, he could not make an appointment. He's a Pitt student and now has other concerns he'd like advice on. I'm very grateful for the time he had with Tom and will pray for healing for your family. You have my deepest sympathy.
Barb Horrigan
September 6, 2019
My deepest sympathy to you, Linda, and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 5, 2019
I was so very sad to read about Tom. I havent been in touch with him since St.Francis closed , but I have thought of him often as he was such a wonderful , caring co worker. I have very fond memories of all the crazy times we had working on the adolescent unit at St. Francis Hospital. He was such a family man, always talking about Linda & his children. Emily, Ryan, & Conor were the joy of his life and Linda was the love of his life. Such a humble man, taken too soon , will never be forgotten . Rest In Peace with the angels my friend ❤
Kris, Dave & Dan Guenther
September 4, 2019
Linda, Conor & Family,
Dan just text me about your loss. I am so sorry. There were so many great memories with Baseball & Football. I would see him cutting the grass every now & then as I would frequently drive by your house. Tom was such a kind person and we will greatly miss him.
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September 4, 2019
Linda,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May he rest in peace.
Debbie Boyles
September 4, 2019
Linda,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love, Debbie Boyles
September 4, 2019
Tom was a wonderful child therapist. Helped my daughter when medical doctors gave very little hope. Will always be grateful to him. Our sincere condolences to his family.
September 4, 2019
Dear Maggie and family,
I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your brother Tommy. May he Rest In Peace.
Love,
Patty Winters
Mike A.
September 4, 2019
Our family will always remember Tom for the support and guidance he gave us. I am deeply saddened by has passing. I hope that his time in retirement (though all too brief) was rewarding. He and his family will be in our prayers.
Brother Marine
September 4, 2019
Semper Fi Marine. Thank you for your service. R.I.P.
Vince Galloni
September 4, 2019
Ryan and Family, deepest sympathy on your loss.
September 4, 2019
I am so saddened by this news. This man was the only therapist who was able to help my son. Tom connected with my son in a way no one else could. He helped my son fight his demons and made him realize he was a beautiful human being.. with Tom's help, my son had years of a better life. RIP, Tom. Thoughts and prayers go out to his family for the loss of a wonderful man, dedicated to helping others.
Diane Hamley
September 4, 2019
Dear McHugh family,
I was saddened to read of your husband/dad's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts.
Diane Hamley-your 2nd grade teacher
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