Thomas Gray Medders

Thomas Gray Medders

Thomas Medders Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 3, 2006.


Thomas (Tom ) Gray Medders Thomas (Tom) Gray Medders, died suddenly at home on November 15, 2006. Tom was born on September 10, 1953 in San Benito, in the lower Rio Grande Valley to John K. (Ken) Medders, Sr. and Danese Williams Medders. He attended public schools in San Benito and completed his high school education at Windsor Mountain Prep in Lenox, Massachusetts. He received his bachelor degree in business administration from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville and further post baccalaureate study Southern Methodist University Cox School of Business in Dallas. As a youth in the Valley during the 1960's, he spent his time working around the airport, surfing on Padre Island and playing his guitar. During those formative years, he developed his high degree of independence, his generosity, compassion and his contrarian ways. Following his graduation from the university, he was employed by Vetco Oil of Houston and worked on the African continent. On his return to Austin, Tom joined the Water Utility Department of the City of Austin where he worked for the next 22 years, variously as supervisor and technical trainer. Tom worked with the Texas Water Utilities Association, serving as an officer since 1987 and chair of the Central Texas Region in 2000 - 2001 and teaching across the state and annually at the Texas Engineering Extension Services at Texas A&M Unversity each spring. Commendations bestowed by the Association included the Meritorious Service and the Exemplary Services in Education and Training. Tom was always generous with his volunteer time, in city and state political campaigns and delivering Meals on Wheels for the United Action for the Elderly. Mr. Medders was predeceased by his father in 1978. He is survived by his mother, Danese, and brother Ken, Jr., who live in Bryan; his sister, Deborah Medders, of Martha's Vineyard, Massachusetts; a nephew, Carl David Medders, and wife Mary Frances Medders, of Dallas; and fiancé, Norma Guerra, of Austin. A memorial service will be held by the City of Austin on Monday, December 4 from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at the Glen Bell Center, 3907 S. Industrial Dr., Austin, Texas. Funeral arrangements by Angel Funeral Home, Austin. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the United Action for Elderly, Inc. Meals on Wheels Program, 3227 East 5th St., Austin, Texas, 78702 or a humanitarian organizaton of your choice. A memorial service will be held at the Thomae Funeral Home, San Benito on Friday, December 15 from 5:00 p.m. til 7:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family request that donations be made to a humanitarian organization of your choice. Please view this obit at angel funeralhome.com

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December 8, 2006

Mary-Grace Mascorro posted to the memorial.

December 6, 2006

Joe Salinas posted to the memorial.

December 5, 2006

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Mary-Grace Mascorro

December 8, 2006

Tom, My family & I had the honor of knowing you for over 20 years, You were there for us through the good & bad times. Your smile, your voice & your laughter, will always hold a special place in our hearts. There is no replacing your sacrifices & willingness to be with us without question. We will never find another friend like you. We will miss you terribly. We thank "God" for sending you to us. We have been truly blessed for having you in our lives. May you finally have the peace you searched for & so richly deserve. We love you, Tom!

Joe Salinas

December 6, 2006

Ken, Jr & Deborah--My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your cherished memories of Tom help comfort you and get you through this difficult time.
Sincerely Yours,

Cheryl Lasater

December 5, 2006

Cousin Tom, You will always hold a special place in my heart. Rest in peace. Love,

Hector Garcia

December 4, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the entire Medders family.

Debra -- my deepest sympathy for your loss, over the past few years I have often heard of your brother, however I think of you all the time. Please contact me at your convenience, it would be nice to hear from you, reminisce and discuss your endeavors in life. It's been a long time since I've seen you, probably back when you worked at the Sam Houston building.

Ray Bousquet

December 4, 2006

Brother Tom- When God made you he had to get a court order to break the mold just to ensure there would only be one of you. To have known you has enriched my life greatly. I will always look back on those times with great fondness and warmth. May peace follow you.
Ray Bousquet

Bill Healy

December 3, 2006

Dear Tom, You were an example of decency. While some of us talk of social programs, policies, politics or economics, without notice or fanfare, you delivered coats and sleeping bags to the nameless on the street. I need to remember you.

Siobhan Healy

December 3, 2006

Uncle Tom, I will miss you always. I am so glad that we got to spend the time together that we did. You were trully one of a kind and hold a special place in my heart. With love, Siobhan

Linda Yount-Glass

December 3, 2006

Thomas,I will always remember what a wonderful person you were. We had a lot of great memories and I will always cherish them. Rest in peace dear one.

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