Thomas Moser

Thomas Moser obituary, Harpswell, ME

Thomas Moser

Thomas Moser Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 7, 2025.
Thomas Francis Moser (1935-2025)

The Moser family is deeply saddened to announce the passing of Thomas Francis Moser, who died peacefully at his home on the coast of Maine, on March 5, 2025, at the age of 90.

Tom was, above all, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. For over 67 years, he shared a remarkable marriage with his childhood sweetheart, Mary Wilson Moser, building a life grounded in love, adventure, and creativity. Together, they raised four sons-Matthew, Andrew, Aaron, and David-in a home where learning came through doing, self-reliance was prized over dependence, and craftsmanship was a way of life. His greatest joy was his ever-growing family, including grandchildren and great-grandchildren, whom he guided with wisdom, humor, and steadfast support.

Born on February 23, 1935, in Chicago, Tom's early years were marked by resilience. Orphaned by the loss of his mother, Sabina, at 14, and his father, Joseph, on his 18th birthday, he forged his own path with determination and ingenuity. Raised in Northbrook, Illinois, he took on roles as a Boy Scout, golf caddy, window dresser, and altar boy, showcasing his enterprising spirit. He remained a loving brother to Joseph Moser of the Chicago area.

Before marrying, Tom served as a military policeman in Greenland. In 1957, at age 22, he wed Mary, the love of his life, and their shared journey began. While earning a degree from SUNY Geneseo, he supported his young family by tuning organs and restoring antiques. During this time, he and Mary built their own home from a Sears kit, crafting it themselves-a testament to their belief in doing rather than delegating. His passion for education led him to teach high school in Michigan and earn a Master of Fine Arts from the University of Michigan. Later, in Cortland, New York, he taught English and earned a doctorate in speech communications, a field that shaped his future endeavors. He also taught in Dhahran, Saudi Arabia, before the family settled in Maine in 1966. There, Tom joined Bates College, preached at a Congregational Church, hosted PBS programs, and coached speech and debate-always blending wisdom with wit.

In 1972, Tom left academia to pursue his true calling: furniture making. With Mary, he founded Thos. Moser Cabinetmakers in a modest grange hall in New Gloucester, Maine. What began as a leap of faith grew into a celebrated enterprise, furnishing homes, libraries, and boardrooms nationwide, earning commissions from five U.S. presidents and two popes. Yet for Tom, the heart of the work was the craft itself-learning through the process and creating objects of lasting value with his own hands.

A lifelong learner and teacher, Tom shared his knowledge generously, whether as an adjunct professor at the University of Pennsylvania, an author, or a board member for organizations like the Maine Maritime Museum, the University of Southern Maine, and MEMIC, where he helped transform workplace safety in Maine. His hands were rarely idle; he restored houses, rebuilt boats, sculpted in bronze, and even crafted pond models-each project a chance to master something new and do it himself. For Tom, this was more than habit-it was a philosophy of improving the world through action.

Tom was a thinker, a creator, and a showman-equally at ease leading design discussions or delighting family with playful antics like Hambone Hambone or an off-key Christmas singalong. He found joy in good conversation, tinkering in his shop, and, most of all, being surrounded by loved ones.

No services are planned at this time. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Thomas Moser Scholarship Fund for the trades: https://www.cmcc.edu/foundation/donate-now/ at the Central Maine Education Foundation, supporting young makers and builders. Tom wanted to nurture the creative spirit, to stand back after a day of hard work and be able to place your hands on your accomplishments.

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May 9, 2025

Antonia Evans posted to the memorial.

April 7, 2025

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March 29, 2025

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Antonia Evans

May 9, 2025

Strange, coincidence moving and just found an" introduction card" that was mailed to my former home that I had saved as I admired his workmanship. Obituary was a delight to read --wonderful life for his family, as I know they miss him, but he's in a safe place. Antonia Evans

Keith Smaldon

April 7, 2025

We had the privilege of living in Parsons Homestead at 146 Cobbs Bridge Road, New Gloucester for 25 years where Tom and Mary raised their family. It will always hold a special place in our hearts
Our condolences to the Moser family
Keith and Janet Smaldon

Eric Schmalz

March 29, 2025

Rest in peace. I was a real fan of his work from the Sunday morning he answered the phone himself when I called to request a catalog per a New York Times ad that I way. I learned then he had attended Palatine High School for a couple years while he lived in Northbrook. He knew of my late father-in-law who had been the Superintendent of the high school district at the time.
He stood by his work and his work was the best. I recently bought one of his flags and think of him every time I look at it.
Rest in Peace.
Eric Schmalz

Karen Lybrand

March 18, 2025

Meeting and getting to know Tom was a highlight of my life. I long admired him when I lived in Alaska, and had catalogs mailed to me. I visited the New Gloucester showroom and signed the guestbook sometime in the 1980s. When I relocated to Maine, I couldn't believe my luck when I was hired to do graphic design at Thos. Moser Cabinetmakers. Tom came to visit on my first day, and asked me pointedly why I did the work that I did. Nobody had ever asked me that before, and it made me think. He was a true individual and left behind a stunning legacy. He certainly left his mark on me. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of this extraordinary man. Love to all.

Karen Lybrand

Michel Moses Collins

March 12, 2025

We have truly lost a great perfectionist and a wonderful person to sell our unique Kane Pa. Black Cherry for many of his creations. I´m honored to own a Gloucester Rocker that was gifted to me - Thank You and rest in peace Tom.

Elizabeth Gyss Johnson

March 9, 2025

Dear Mary,
So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I know it´s been difficult these last few years but you had a remarkable life together.
We were kids together in Northbrook and went to St Norbert´s old School.
Please accept my sincerest condolences.
Betsy Gyss Johnson

Chip martinson

March 8, 2025

So sorry. True legend. Did everything a man is supposed to do. I just met him once, but he was such an influence on me.

Lori Curole

March 8, 2025

I have enjoyed having the opportunity to have known Tom, and although it wasn't for many years, it was evident that Tom enjoyed a full live surrounded by family, friends, and that he touched so many through his craft. On a personal note, Tom made me laugh, and I feel lucky to know this wonderful family. Sending thoughts, prayers, and peace to Mary, and all the Mosers. Lori Curole

Nancy kaye

March 8, 2025

Dear Mary, I was saddened to learn of the loss of your wonderful husband. I know the last few years have been difficult for both of you, but that doesn't lessen the trauma for you and your family. I remember some wonderful times with you both and will cherish the memories. Please accept my profound sympathy. Big hugs. Nancy

Anne Pringle, Portland

March 8, 2025

Our first house, which we bought in 1975 and still live in, was a large rental unit before it was sold as a single family house. The kitchen, with metal cabinets and linoleum countertops, needed to be replaced. With no money but some woodworking experience, my husband had to build new cabinets himself. But he needed more training and confidence, so he took a woodworking course that Tom offered soon after starting his new business. The kitchen cabinets came out great and, unexpectedly, Tom gave us the plans for his pencil bed, which my husband subsequently built... Years later, I served with Tom on the Maine Maritime Museum Board, where his astute analysis of challenges and focused advice was much valued by staff and his fellow Board members. Mary was always at his side for social events, a clear supporter of our Museum team. Tom was a giant in so many ways and will be missed by many. I hope it is some small comfort to Mary and his family to know that many people are thinking of them at this difficult time...

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