Thomas H. Weaver

1934 - 2010

Thomas H. Weaver obituary, 1934-2010

Thomas H. Weaver

1934 - 2010

BORN

1934

DIED

2010

Thomas Weaver Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 14, 2010.
Thomas (Tommy) Henry Weaver, 75, passed from this world February 13, 2010 after a brief period of declining health. Tommy's wife, Lou Weaver, and the Weaver family would like to thank the good people at Pitt County Memorial Hospital who provided excellent care for Tommy during his last days.

A Memorial service will be held at the Mitchell Funeral Home located at 7209 Glenwood Avenue in Raleigh, NC Tuesday, February 16 at 11:00 am. Visitation and reception will follow. Friends and neighbors are welcome.

Tommy was born in Durham, NC on March 20, 1934, to the late Walter William Weaver and Lottie Brewer Weaver. Tommy's dad was a newspaper man, who moved the family many times during Tommy's childhood, mostly in Virginia and North Carolina. Tommy said he went to 23 schools during his school years. This afforded Tommy the opportunity to make new friends and explore new places, a skill that served him well in life. Growing up, he and his twin brother Billy spent much time hunting, fishing, and trapping. Tommy always loved to be outdoors and kept this up throughout his many years.

Tommy graduated from Hopewell High School in Hopewell, Virginia, in 1952. He went into the US Army Reserves and served at Ft. Jackson, SC. After his honorable discharge, he returned to Durham and entered Duke University to study engineering. The press of life trumped college so Tommy left Duke to begin his work career. Tommy married Merle Crouch in 1955, they had two children, Susan Lynn was born in 1959 and Walter Glen in 1961.
Tommy worked at Pritchard Paint and Glass in Raleigh for 23 years. Tommy and Lougenia Pulley got married in 1974 in Raleigh. They met at Pritchard's. Lou left Pritchards to work at Flythe Construction as a compromise to create marital bliss. After leaving Pritchard's, Tommy and Lou started their own business, Weaver Glass and Storefront in 1980. The business was closed in 1991 and they retired to Harker's Island. In 1996, they moved to their permanent home in Gloucester, near Harker's Island, NC. Tommy was always working on the house, boats, docks, gardens, garages, pump house or other project at their home.

Tommy had many passions throughout his life, including, bird hunting, fishing, scuba diving, treasure hunting, storytelling. But his great love was boat racing. He began racing outboards in 1951 while living on the James River in Hopewell VA. During his long career as a hydroplane boat builder and racer, Tommy was a great competitor; he won hundreds of races during his 40 years of active racing. His 850 hydroplane "Playtime" was a force on the east coast for many years. Other drivers complained that when Tommy showed up they were usually running for second place. In the 1980's he began racing in the 145 hydroplane class, teaming with his brother, Bob on numerous boats. They ran second and third in the 1990 National Championships and won the National and World Championships in 1992. Along the way they set several world records in the class.

In 1968 Tommy teamed with the Optimist Club of Raleigh to found the Tarheel Regatta on Lake Wheeler. This race became one of the most widely acclaimed powerboat races in the US. It was a divisional or national championship event for many years. This race ran for over 30 years and routinely drew boats from all over the US and Canada. Many racers remarked that this was the best run event in the country.
Tommy is survived by Lou Weaver, his loving wife of 36 years, his daughter Susan Weaver Prince and husband Andy of Garner, son, Glen of Raleigh, his step-daughter, Denise Perry Parker and husband Neal of Raleigh, his grandchildren Stephanie McLawhorn, Matt, and Ricky of Garner, grandchild, Conner McLawhorn and step-grandchildren, Emily and Jackson of Raleigh. He is also survived by his twin brother Billy of Williamsburg, his sister Carolyn Bobbitt of Cana, VA, sister Martha Powell of Cary, brother Bobby of Raleigh, and brother David N. Myrtle Beach, SC. and also a large extended family.

Lou, Tommy's wife, friend, and confidant, shared his love of fishing and laughter. Theirs was a great partnership. Tommy was blessed with a loving family and many friends and acquaintances through the years. He always had a smile and never met a stranger.

Memorial contributions should be made to the American Power Boat Association (APBA) at PO Box 377, Eastpointe, MI 48021-0377 or to Pitt County Memorial Hospital, Department of Neurology, PO Box 6028, Greenville, NC 27835-6028.
Condolences can be made to the family at www.mitchellatRMP.com

Arrangements under the direction of Mitchell Funeral Home at Raleigh Memorial Park, Raleigh, NC.

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February 26, 2010

Buddy Rose posted to the memorial.

February 18, 2010

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February 17, 2010

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Buddy Rose

February 26, 2010

While I didn't know you or Mr. Tommy very well, my husband Did know tommy rather well and my son, Jon Rose and his family lived across the driveway from you. My husband has always spoken so highly of Tommy - what a friendly, outgoing and helpful person he was. My son Jon says (& wife Cathy)that he could have never had a better neighbor than Tommy Weaver - plus he was always so good to and patient wth the boys, Mikey and Ryan (especially rambuncious Mikey) as they were growing up. That "end of the road" will never, I'm sure, ever be quite the same without him there. The few times I was around Tommy, I noticed how easy going and kind he was. Many other men who frequent our small boat basin business here on the island ...knew Tommy and felt the same way about him ....especially Donald Guthrie who developed a close friendship with Tommy before he (Donald) died. Tommy was truly one of those SPECIAL people. According to Jon & Cathy he was such a help to you around the house; for a woman who works, having a man who helps is a real blessing. Wishing you God's help during the months ahead.
Leslie (Buddy) & Ann Rose, Harkers Island

February 18, 2010

I am very sad upon hearing the news of Mr. Tommy's passing. He was truly a gentleman and great friend.

Myrna Willis former cashier at Billys on Harkers Island.

February 17, 2010

Mama Lou I want you to konow you are in my heart and thoughts and I pray each day will ease your pain and that your presciuos memories will see you through.
Sincerely thinking of you.
Shelia Cook
Swansboro,NC

Roddy Jones

February 17, 2010

To The Family of Tommy Weaver,

It was my pleasure to work with Tommy for his entire career at Pritchard's. He was honest and straight forward in all our dealings and always made my day brighter. He was an example of setting high standards in the workplace. I always enjoyed his boat stories ---- it scared me to hear about them.

I know you'll miss the great man. I'm sorry our paths split but you don't forget quality. My condolences and prayers go out to the entire family. Just remember the great memories ---- "he did it his way"!

Roddy Jones
Davidson and Jones Construction Company

February 16, 2010

Lougenia, Raymond and I were sorry to read about your husband's death. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Raymond and Judy (Young) James, Raleigh, NC 27609

Joe Chapman

February 16, 2010

Lou, Bobby and Glen
We offer our deepest sympathy. We did not even know Tommy was ill. We will try to get by and see you soon. Joe and Ruby Chapman

Bill & Laurel Patrick & Family

February 16, 2010

We will miss Tommys friendly smile and laugh as we were part time neighbors of his the last 5 years. He always offered a helping hand whenever we were around along with a good story.

Linda Smith

February 15, 2010

Lou,
We will miss Mr. Tommie, he was such a great person and could always make us laugh. He loved life and seemed to make the most of each day.
Lou, you are in our thoughts during this time of great loss.
We pray that God will comfort you as only he can during this time.
Love and Prayers,
Rob, Linda & Katie Smith, Otway, North Carolina

Don Melillo

February 15, 2010

As you go through life one has many memories. One of those that I will cherish forever is knowing Tommy. He always brought a smile to all that he met. My heart goes out to all of you during this time.

George & Barbara Kennedy&Family

February 15, 2010

The Kennedy Family will always remember Tommy for all the great times we had racing together, he was a man that always had something to make you laugh. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. He will never be forgotten.

Sam Foster

February 15, 2010

Dear Lou and family,
I am so saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. He was a friend to me and everyone he met and he never met a stranger. I remember the great times we had through the Estimators Association. I remember the great time we had driving the beverage cart at one of the golf tournaments, I'm sure you do too. He was loved and he will be missed but the memories will never fade. May our Lord give you comfort, strength and peace during this time of loss. In His service--Sam Foster

Durward Wilson

February 15, 2010

We are deeply saddened by your loss. May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time.

Durward, Diane, DJ Jr. and Valerie Wilson

Noel Paul

February 15, 2010

He had a great southern draw & smile thats all you got when racing him , he always raced me clean & hard.

Mark/Rhoda StJohn

February 14, 2010

Rhoda and Mark will miss Tommy more than words can say.

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