Timothy Scheidt

Timothy Scheidt obituary, San Diego, CA

Timothy Scheidt

Timothy Scheidt Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 25, 2024.
In Loving Memory of Timothy S. Scheidt

June 8, 1958 – November 14, 2024

Timothy S. Scheidt, a beloved son, father, grandfather, brother, friend, and educator, passed away peacefully on November 14, 2024, surrounded by the love of his family and friends after a courageous battle with cancer. His life was a testament to kindness, creativity and dedication to purpose, leaving an indelible mark on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

Born June 8th, 1958 in Lansing Michigan, Tim was the third of four children born to Roger and Beverly Scheidt. He grew up in Williamston and attended Williamston High School, where his passion for deep analytical thought and athletics were developed from an early age. During his formative years, Tim took great pride in playing basketball for his high school team, the Hornets, where he fostered many lifelong friendships. He went on to pursue higher education, attending Northern Michigan University and ultimately earning both a Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies and Master of Science in Educational Administration and Supervision from National University.

Above all else, Tim cherished his family. His greatest joy came from spending time with those he loved, creating treasured memories and sharing his unwavering support when needed most. Tim shared a noteworthy bond with his parents, visiting often and making routine his weekly video calls to connect face to face. His devotion to his mother, Beverly, was evident in the small yet profound gestures, such as regularly sending her flowers-a tradition that brought them both great joy. Tim was very much his fathers son sharing Roger's commanding presence and expansive heart.

Tim's pride for his children was without question, celebrating their accomplishments and supporting their unique individualities. Tim was the kind of father who would do anything for his children, always offering support, thoughtful guidance, and a listening ear whenever needed. He especially adored his grandchildren, often expressing how fortunate he was to witness their growth and joy.

Tim also held very dear his relationships with his three brothers: Mike, Terry and Steve. Throughout the years the brothers would annually convene on "brother weekend" to keep connected and stay engaged in relationship with one another. In recent years as travel had become more restricted, these bonds were kept up through weekly "Brother Zoom" calls where laughter, memories, and love were shared across many miles.

Tim truly valued his relationship with his long-term girlfriend, Michele Mabry, whose lighthearted nature, adventurous spirit and loving companionship brought immense joy to his life.

At his core, Tim was a passionate educator whose career spanned over 40 years. He served as a teacher, principal, district administrator and Adjunct Professor of Educational Leadership at National University, influencing countless students and colleagues with his innovative ideas and steadfast dedication to learning. Through his company, GSP Publishing, he brought math to life with creative programs such as Fantasy Baseball and NBA Math Hoops, combining his love of sports and mathematics to engage students across the country.

Tim's love of writing was another defining aspect of his life. Whether through professional projects or creative works, he expressed himself with clarity and heart. One of his most cherished accomplishments was authoring Finding Solace at the Kensington Cafe, a poignant reflection of his imagination and spirit. While Tim's life held great purpose from his various work endeavors, he was no stranger to indulging in "life's little pleasures" such as beautifully singing along to his traditional "Scheidt Music" with a piping hot cup of black coffee in hand.

In 2018, Tim's life took on a new mission after his daughter, Nicole, suffered a traumatic brain injury. His commitment to his daughter was paramount throughout the last 6 years. While this accident was a major source of pain for him, he took that tragedy and devoted countless hours not only to his daughter but to the brain injury community as a whole. This type of passion, communication and energy was a key tenant of his character, throughout any cause Tim found to be of importance. As a member of the San Diego Brain Injury Foundation Board, he brought creativity, empathy, and entrepreneurial spirit, working tirelessly to improve the lives of survivors and their families.

Tim was also a lifelong sports enthusiast with a deep love for Michigan State University basketball, cheering passionately for the Spartans every season. He was a devoted fan of the Detroit Lions and Detroit Tigers, always supporting his hometown teams. Baseball was particularly dear to Tim's heart. From coaching his son's little league teams to using the sport as a catalyst to teach statistics it was clear that baseball was his sport.

To his friends, Tim was a source of laughter, wisdom, and unwavering support. He cultivated deep, lifelong friendships through his unique ability to listen, empathize, and celebrate others.

Even in the face of illness, Tim approached life with gratitude, courage, and grace. He never missed an opportunity to express his gratitude for those that cared for him. The love and support of his family and friends brought him strength and peace, allowing him to continue teaching and inspiring until his final days.

Tim is survived by his loving mother, Beverly; his children: Nikki, Sam, Michelle (Mike), and Rob (Mandie); his brothers: Michael (Laurel), Terry (Kiki), and Steve (Fran); his cherished grandchildren: Alex, Nico, Matthew, Zachary and Theo, as well as many nieces and nephews he loved dearly. He is preceded in death by his father, Roger Scheidt. Tim's legacy lives on in the many lives he touched and the love he shared so freely.

Celebration of Life Details:

1) A Celebration of Life will be held in San Diego in January 2025. Further details of the celebration are to come.

2) A Celebration of Life for those in Michigan will be held in early December 2024. Further details of the celebration are to come.

Contributions in Tim's memory may be made to the San Diego Brain Injury Foundation at www.sdbif.org.

Tim's life was a reminder of the power of love, learning, and connection. He will be

deeply missed but forever celebrated for the joy and impact he brought to the world.

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February 15, 2025

Ann Trescott posted to the memorial.

January 18, 2025

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January 18, 2025

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Ann Trescott

February 15, 2025

Oh, I´m so sad to hear this news. Tim´s dedication to supporting and empowering students through fun, engaging programs was truly ingenious. We used his programs in San Diego County for many years (and they may still be in use today). I know my students loved using statistics to build their fantasy baseball teams, competing with classmates and other students across the county for the best team in San Diego.

Tim was one of those rare individuals who truly walked the talk, creating meaningful, positive change for so many students. I will forever be grateful for his support, intelligence, and creativity in enriching the lives of hundreds, if not thousands, of children. He was a true visionary, and we need more educators like Tim.

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Asia (Joanna) Lem

January 18, 2025

Dear Tim's Family and Loved Ones,

We would like to express our sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved Son, Father, Brother, Grandfather, Partner and Friend. As this beautifully written obituary attests, he was a truly special man and we felt heartbroken to learn of his passing. I first met Tim in San Diego after Nikki´s tragic accident. Although I deeply wish that the circumstances of our meeting were different, I felt grateful to have met him and inspired by his warmth, love and dedication to his daughter and his entire family, by his curiosity, thoughtfulness and attentiveness to everyone he was speaking with.

We are very sad that Tim is no longer with us on this physical plane and we will miss him. At the same time we celebrate his rich, full, life and all the love and kindness he has shown all of us as well as his countless creative, intellectual, educational contributions and achievements. What a legacy he leaves behind! His life and love are an inspiration, and we are forever grateful to have known him a little bit.

Please accept all our love and heartfelt condolences in this difficult time.

Asia, Bruno, Artus and Liam

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Christine Handell Paulino

December 27, 2024

WOW!!! During my childhood years, my family (the Handell's) and Tim's family maintained a close friendship. Though we only lived in Williamston for about 2 years, our families got together several times a year for picnics or Sunday cookouts. My sister (Kathy), Tim's brother (Terry), and I (Chris) would 'play' together because we are all very close in age...the song "Hang Down Your Head, Tom Dooley" was the background to much of the time we spent together:):):) I truly regret having lost contact with the Scheidt family. Rest in peace, sweet Timmy. Both of my sons are in heaven with you....Keith and I will make a donation to the American Cancer Society in Timmy's name.

Jaclyn spitz

December 19, 2024

I met Tim at Sharp´s radiation treatment waiting room. My dad was getting a very similar treatment as Tim and they had a similar radiation schedule. I was blessed to get to know him a little through this time. He spoke about his family often (and lit up while doing so) and we spoke about the challenges of cancer. In our talks, he always remained so positive and he really helped me try to remain positive for my dad as well. He extended offers to be someone my dad could talk to, which I really appreciated. I enjoyed when I saw him seated in the waiting room because I knew I would get a dose of positive energy. I always admired his outlook on the journey of fighting cancer and I am so sorry to learn of his passing. He was a genuinely nice man, who seemed to genuinely care about my dad-someone he barely knew- and I´ll forever be grateful for our talks during that challenging time. May he rest in peace. Much love goes out to his family and friends.

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Marianna Pinto

December 9, 2024

I was Tim´s neighbor for 14 years. We would always say hi or wave to each other, and on occasion, had coffee and talked about life. He had a beautiful presence about him. He was positive, grateful and appreciative of life. He was always interested in hearing about my life, and I his. His friends and family were definitely on the top of his list. His dedication of visiting Nikki every day was so admirabable! He loved his coffee and would go every day at around the same time to pick up a cup from Starbucks. He did so many different things like writing a book about the Kensington Cafe, acting in a play that I, my mum and Michelle went to see him many years ago. Very impressive! I could go on and on. I miss him every day as I look out the window and realise he´s not there any more. It is so empty and you are extremely missed Tim. Thanks for being an amazing neighbor! Wishing we had had more time together! I will keep the lessons you taught me about what was important in life in my heart! Thank you!

Sue Turner

December 6, 2024

Tim and I attended Williamston schools together. We shared a strong connection as we were born on the same date06-08-1958. I called him bro, he called me sis. Maybe it was the shared birthdate, but we shared a lot of personal traits as well. Our prankster personality´s raised many a teachers eyebrow. All in good fun! Williamston was a fabulous place to grow up and I was very envious of Tim when he made the bold move to the west coast. How proud I am of his accomplishments, the best one being a father. The world will not be the same without his smile. I will raise a glass in his honor every June 8 ! Sending sympathy Sue Turner

Tom McDonald

December 4, 2024

"Sadness washes over me ... my heart is empty and beating slower! My friend is gone! "

Tim was a giant of a presence in our professional circle. With patience and kindness, he added much to our group. As the guru of resolutions for the conundrums and dead ends that litter our leadership landscapes, his wisdom and intuition brought possibilities and progress to many a discussion of better practice for schools and learning communities. The void that is left by his passing will long reign over our leadership team. We will remember and value his contribution on into many tomorrows. We were all better men and women having known him and worked with him.
Rest in peace my dear friend. We will miss you!

Darlene Entwisle

December 2, 2024

I used to visit Tim at his home to chat and hang out .. on one visit he said to me with all heart ..
" I wanted to let you know how happy I am that your son Michael is with Michelle " also he said " thank you so much for taking such care with the grandkids "
He said I have been wanting to thank you and tell you how much I love your son ... he teared up as I did .. it was a special moment...
Tim was one of the sweetest people and I am blessed and honored I knew him and had many holidays and soccer games , so many memories..
will forever miss you Tim

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