Tom Hayes Obituary
Born and raised in Kankakee, IL to Thomas Eugene (Gene) Hayes, and Mary Lois (Cassady) Hayes.
Tom was preceded in death by his Mother, Father, Brothers Mike Hayes and Terry Hayes. Tom is survived by his sisters: Kathi (John) Franklin, Lexington, IL, Julie (Doug) Simpkins, Bourbonnais, IL. Nieces: Kimberly Hayes, Jackie (Andrew) Collado, Alexandra (Noah) Shuell, Nephews: Brent (Liz) Franklin, Greg (Marie) Hayes, Matthew Franklin, Victor B. Cadle, Noah Franklin and Jack (Sydney) Franklin. Twelve Great nieces and nephews, Violet, Honnalee, Bell, Leila, John, Brody, Caliana, Braden, Caleb, Declan, Amelia and Maxwell. He also leaves many wonderful friends.
Tom Graduated from Eastridge HS, attended Southern Illinois University and was a veteran of the US Navy Nuclear Power Program. He retired from United Way of Greater Milwaukee.
Tom always told us if there is space in his obituary to place this poem.
"Surprise in Heaven"
I dreamt death came the other night. And Heaven's gate swung wide. An angel with a halo bright. Ushered me inside. And there! To my astonishment, Stood folks I'd judged and labeled As "quite unfit", "of little worth", And "spiritually disabled". Indignant words rose to my lips, But never were set free. For every face showed stunned surprise-Not one expected ME!
(Author Unknown)
Per Tom's wishes there will be a private family service.
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