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Whitney Stringfellow
September 18, 2007
I went to school and worked with both these great people through their sports as I was a student athletic trainer at Provo High. I also went to school and have known Eti's brother, Ikani, since we were both in the 5th grade. I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss and how even though it may be painful at this time, it shall be for "just a moment".
Karen Thurgood
September 17, 2007
Dear Samani and Valgardson Families,
I had the opportunity of teaching both of these fine people in 9th grade at Provo High. They were both so full of life with such fun personalities. I am so sorry to hear of the loss you have suffered. May God be with you as you go through this most difficult time and until you meet again.
Ann L. Bigelow
September 15, 2007
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to the Samani family. Eti was in my first grade class at Franklin Elementary (Miss Larsen). He always held a special place in my heart because he was such a sweet pure young boy. I was shocked and saddened to hear about the accident but I am certain he and his wife are in God's hands. Please accept my sincere sympathy and best wishes at this difficult time.
NOE RODRIGUEZ
September 13, 2007
my love and my prayers are with all of you ,in this hard times of life,We all know of the plan of God for us and I just want to express my condolences, and my love for both families, I know Etikeni samani, we were bless to serve in the california oakland mission.
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David Garcia
September 13, 2007
Samani Family:
I didn´t have the oportunity to know etikeni, i was roomate with his brother in oakland as a missionary, so i love the samani´s fam because i know that u are a wonderful family.
I just want to say sorry for this loss and u guys will be in my prayer´s
We know etikeni and his wife are in a special place teaching the gospel...
Blessings to the samani´s family
Timothy Weyhreter
September 13, 2007
I know that God has a purpose for everyone this in this life and the next. My love goes out to the Samani Family. Tim Weyhreter
Patty Reynolds and family
September 13, 2007
words cannot express the sorrow for your loss. Our heartfelt appreciation for your son's service in the California Oakland Mission and our sadness to hear of this tragedy. Our love and prayers are extended to your family at this time.
Samani Family Totauola & Talite
September 12, 2007
The loss of Etikeni and Trichelle Samani to the road accident on 3rd September 2007 deeply touch the heart and soul of the Samani Family.
The Samani Family are also touched by the spirit of love, support, condolences and prayers provided by all the relatives, Trichelle's parents family and relatives, friends, co-workers, saints and neighbours during this very difficult time. The Samani Family therefore likes to express their sincere gratitude and thankfulness to each and everyone who have contributed to easing the paint of loosing two such young and loveable people.
With much love and
'Ofa lahi atu from Totauola, Talite, Viliami, 'Ikani,Nolan, Weston, Silongo Jr, Talanoa, Mepa, Samu, 'Elenoa, Matiu, Siosi, Tu'ivai, Pita, Haini and Katoa
Sepi Vave
September 12, 2007
Eti & Trichelle
Words cannot express what I feel in my heart for these two. I literally grew up with these two beautiful human beings. I've known eti since primary and trichelle since junior high. I am in new zealand now and to hear of the tragedy that has occured saddens me deeply.Over the two days that I've taken off to think of these two I've come to know that only the lord knows whats in store for eti and trichelle. I was not able to be there to give my love to both families but I hope and pray that they both feel my love and support. I remember my sophmore year when eti and I traded backpacks and even though he had a cheap one and I had the expensive Jan Sport one we managed to switch backpacks that whole year. I remember trichelle at my first basketball tryout and how she would joke around with me about how I had no basketball shorts so I had to try out in my tight jeans..lol... They both made me laugh and now they've both made me cry, but we are so blessed to know that heavenly father loves us and these trials are given to us so that we can overcome them become stronger people because of it. These two were true leaders and great examples that we should always remember. over here in new zealand its temple week, there are many people here who are praying for everyone out there who is dealing with this, brothers and sisters we must endure to the end. I love you all so very much and miss everyone so dearly I wish I could wrap my arms around all my friends and families who are having a hard time with this. I love you guys!!!
Sepi
David and Carrie Gause
September 10, 2007
Dear David and Michelle,
It has been a long time since we have seen you, but I frequently think of all the good times we had growing up together! I had no idea about your beautiful daughter and her husband. I learned from my Dad today about this horrible tragedy. I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you and that I pray for peace in your heart. I know that the Lord loves us and cares for us. I will never understand a tragedy such as this.
Please know that we will be thinking and praying for you and your extended families. I love ya forever.
David and Carrie Gause
jenika iongi
September 10, 2007
To both Eti and Trichelle's family.
My deepest love and condelences go out to you in this sensitive and trying time.
My heart is humbled and filled with gratitude, to know that I atleast knew Eti and is related to him. I'm sorry I was not able to be there in person to show my love and support. I heard of the tragic news, while I'm here in Samoa.
Just know that I was there in spirit and hope that Heavenly Father will continue to bless your family. I love you guys. Muah.
Mason & Emily (Alexander) Cook
September 10, 2007
Valgardsons,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are such a wonderful family, and Trischelle was and is such a strong and amazing spirit. May the Lord be with you in your time of grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cortney Abenroth
September 9, 2007
Valgardsens:
I was blessed to have coached Trichelle in basketball and taught her freshman English class. I was saddened to hear of the tragedy that took her too early in life. I remember her bright smile and love of the game of basketball. My prayers are with you and her husband's family. May the spirit strengthen you and may you live so as to make your reunion sweet and your family eternal...
AJ Robinson
September 9, 2007
Nolan & Weston,
So sad to hear of your loss. I have no words of comfort for you, but want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers along with the Valgardson family. Knowing how great you both are I am certain that 'Eti was likewise.
Your little bro on the field & my family
annonymous
September 8, 2007
This tragedy that has taken place has hurt me so. The other man {Alec} that was in this accident was my friend. I know how much he will be missed and can only imagine the same for you. I will keep you all in my prayers. And know that having faith in our Heavenly Father we will all see our loved ones some day may Gods graciouse hand be with you all threw this difficult time.
Bruce and Rose Rieske
September 8, 2007
Eti was a good friend to our son, Mathias. I will always remember how he befriended him at Dixon. I will also remember the hard work he and his family put into helping us with our home.Our prayers are with both families at this time.
Makenna Daniels
September 8, 2007
Trichelle was a close friend of my sister and my family. We loved her very much a will miss her greatly. She would always wear her Basketball shorts and flip flops everywhere she went, even in the depth of winter. That's just who Trichelle was. We love her so much!
Luisa Saluni
September 8, 2007
Samani FAmily,
Our hearts go out to you at this time of grief. We love you very much and may the good lord continue to comfort your family at this time. Be strong and remember, Families are Forever!
Much Love,
The Saluni Family
Matt Hogan
September 8, 2007
Eti was a brother to me back in the day and I wouldn't be who I am today if he hadn't been there to pick me up when I fell. I consider you all family and love you so. Keep the love.
Kashif Red Thunder
September 8, 2007
Dear Samani Family:
I had the privilege of serving with 'Etikeni on my mission and he was a great missionary. I send my condolences to both families. Remember that they are in a better place.
Karen Bramble
September 8, 2007
Love you guys so much.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
SA Morgan
September 8, 2007
Dearest Valgardson and Samani Families
May the Lord bless you and give you His peace in the many difficult days to come. My prayers and love to you all.
Bill and Pam Berneau
September 8, 2007
There is nothing that anyone can say without the spirit of the Lord that can bring you peace at this time. From experience, I know that though this time is the most difficult a parent or sibling will ever go through alone, together, as a couple and a family, with the Lord by your side, there can be peace, calm and comfort.
Pray, pause and listen, He does not expect you to go through this loss alone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. May you find comfort in the arms of each other and in His arms.
Shannon Howard Parsons
September 7, 2007
I went to school from elementary school on with Trichelle and was friends with Eti at Provo High. They were both amazing people that had many friends. I've never heard a bad thing said about either of them. I hope their families can be consoled that they are at least together still. Much love and sympathy.
DeeAnn Dangerfield Stone
September 7, 2007
David & Michelle,
I was hoping to talk to you tonight, Friday, Sept 7, at the service to personally express my sympathies to you, but there so many people there! It was amazing to see the love that all those hundreds of people had for you, your daughter, and son-in-law.
With my own mother's passing last month, I have felt assured that she is with my father and brother, and is happy. We have the hope, too, that Trichelle and Eti are happy and will be able to make this eternal journey together with each other, although their time on earth was so short. They must have been a couple of pretty special people.
Janalee VanWagoner Vidolin
September 7, 2007
To
the families of these wonderful people,
I am very sorry for the loss of your dear loved ones. They were both
very sweet and caring people. Although I was never extremely close to
either, through Provo High, they had a way of making people feel loved
and special. My fondest memories of Trichelle were in middle school in
P.E. class. She was such a great athlete and played with such a spirit
of fairness to all. She truely has a place in my heart and is in my
memories. Words can never make the family heal but only the help of the
Lord. I pray for your family that peace may be in your hearts.
Ashley Johnson
September 7, 2007
I'm so sorry for both families loses. I grew up with Eti have alot of great memories from elementry school and summer nights. My heart goes out to both families my the lord be with you at this time. Eti and Trichelle you will both be greatly missed. We love you!
Kim Lunceford Mulder
September 7, 2007
Oh Tursh, I'm going to miss you so much. You were such a good friend and always made me laugh. I'm glad we have so many funny yet random memories together of playing pranks or playing ball. It won't be the same without you! I love you and my prayers are with you, Eti, and your families.
Annie Vanisi
September 7, 2007
We were shocked to hear of this tragedy on Monday. We grieve with the family at this time, for the loss of the potential that Eti and Trichelle both posessed. No words can make up for this loss. With our deepest sympathy and love, The Vanisi Family
Jason Hermansen
September 7, 2007
Eti and family, thank you for blessing me with your pressance as a friend and fello team mate on the field. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. You will both be missed dearly.
Devri Naulu
September 7, 2007
Samani Famili,
We are deeply sorry for the loss of your family, I pray the lord is close with you at this time of need. We love you and your family dearly, ofa lahi atu!!!
Maka,Devri,Aanya,Keilani,Katalina,Lavinia,Leia,Elaiasi,and little baby.
Mark Allen
September 7, 2007
My prayers are continually with you.
Kim Slider Shepherd
September 7, 2007
I am so sorry about your loss. I went to school with Trichelle. She was always very kind and caring.
HeidiAnn Miller Jolley
September 7, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of this tradgedy. Trichelle and i went to school together and she was such a loving person. I am just amazed that her life was taken so soon. I am so truely sorry
Pauline Ashby
September 7, 2007
Michelle and Family and also Alyson, Marlayne, and Joni former and current School Crossing Guards and your families as well as to Eti's family, I send you my deepest condolences and my heart felt thoughts.
Sincerely,
Pauline Ashby
Crossing Guard Supervisor
Provo City Police Department
Manda Shaw
September 7, 2007
Trichelle one of my best friends in the world, Eti like my big brother, I will miss you guys!! I love you both very much! Thank you for always being here for me.
Milissa Burns
September 7, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. I will always remember Trichelle as being a sweet kind hearted little girl, she was always very polite and sweet. She will be missed.
Linn and Ellie Belnap
September 7, 2007
Michelle and Family,
I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers continually. My heart is flooded with memories of Trichelle and Ellie on and off the court. What a beautiful spirit. She was such a great friend to Ellie. Her hugs for me, the light in her eyes, and her brught smile would always brighten my day. Ellie sent me this message from Latvia and I wanted to share it with you.
"I can't believe it. It is so sudden. I love trichelle so much, she was always very close to me and such a bright light in my life. I
couldn't help but smile when i was around her. There is nothing I can say to her
family that will make it any better, but tell them that I love them all and will be praying for them. And tell them how much trichelle meant to me, I consider her one of my dearest friends. I'm so sad that i can't be there. "
Ellie Belnap
Lolohea Family
September 7, 2007
May God bless and comfort you during this time of need. They will be truely missed by many. May we all find peace in this phrase; "Families Are Forever".
xanadu toelupe
September 6, 2007
i am so sorry for your loss i know his family....!
Tyler Pino
September 6, 2007
Eti was a loving friend and all around good person who will be missed by me and many others, I am sorry that I never got to know his wife Trichelle. I am sure she was the same to both familes you are all in my prayers.
Toalei and Liu Toelupe
September 6, 2007
Bro. and Sis. Totauola Samani,
Our prayers are with you at this trying time with the loss of your beloved children. May the loving memories of your sweet son and his wife live on in your hearts to remind you of their short time here on earth. May our Heavenly Father's loving arms comfort you and lighten the pain that you're enduring for the loss of your children.
Ofa lahi atu,
Lorraine Adams
September 6, 2007
David and Michelle:
I am so sorry to hear about the tragedy that took your dear daughter and her sweet husband from you family. Trichelle always gave 100% in everything she did. Provo High's softball team was a better team because she was part of it. There is comfort in knowing that she and Eti are together in the arms of our Heavenly Father. The tears shed here on earth will only be second to the ones you shed when you will be reunited again. My prayers are with your family and the Samani family. With sincere love, Lorraine Adams
Linn and Ellie Belnap
September 6, 2007
Michelle and Family.
I am so sorry. You are continually in my thoughts and prayers. My heart is flooded with memories of Trichelle and Ellie on and off the court. What a beautiful spirit, She touched the lives of so very many. She was such a great friend to Ellie. She would always brighten my day with the light in her eyes and the smile on her face. Ellie wrote me this note from Latvia and I wanted to share it with you.
"I can't believe it. It is so sudden. I love Trichelle so much, she was always very close to me and such a bright light in my life. I
couldn't help but smile when i was around her. There is nothing I can say to her family that will make it any better, but tell them that I love them all and will be praying for them. And tell them how much Trichelle meant to me, I consider her one of my dearest friends. I'm so sad that i can't be there. " Ellie Belnap
Ron Lowell
September 6, 2007
I knew Trichelle during her glory days at Provo High, where I watched her and her basketball team (including our twin daughters Kristi and Kari) dominate!
My most profound sympathy for your loss (and the loss of 'Etikeni) is extended.
Jeremiah Duersch
September 6, 2007
My prayers and faith are for your comfort at this time of loss. I was one of two people first on the scene and wanted nothing more than to help Eti and Trichelle. I tried the best I knew how and I am sorry that I was incapable of helping them remain on this earth. But please know, that at the time of the accident, and every day since, I have felt a love for those two. I don't know what to say, other than, I loved your son and daughter and tried my best. You are in the deepest prayers of my heart.
Their obituary was very touching and has brought me a much needed peace. I too echo your farewell, "God's speed, Trichelle and Eti, until we meet again".
With deepest love,
Jeremiah Duersch
Pelenaise Lavemai
September 6, 2007
'Eti and Trichelle will be greatly missed. Words cannot express the many ways they have touched our hearts and blessed our lives. Each was their own individual, together they were united as one. May your souls rest in the peace and love of the Lord. Please send our greetings to those who have gone before us. As it states in your obituary ... "God speed, Trichelle and 'Eti, until we meet again." We send our love and heartfelt condolences to the Samani and Valgardson families.
Ofa lahi atu,
Sona and Pele Lavemai
Austin P
September 6, 2007
Etikeni was a great couch assist in foot ball at American Leadership Acadamy we will miss the great job he did Trichelle was a lucky lady we will miss them
Austin P
The Hiatt Family
September 6, 2007
We were painfully saddened to hear of your huge loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with both families at this time of sorrow.
We love you Martha!
September 6, 2007
Michelle,Dave and family
We are saddened by your loss. Please know that our prayers are with you.
Orin and Tina Howell
Amanda and Zak Fellenz
Chris Kabeary
September 6, 2007
Eti was a good friend. We played football together at Provo High and graduated together in 2003. He will be missed.
Alisen Child
September 6, 2007
I never personally met Eti or Trichelle, but my fiancee went to high school with Eti.. The stories of fun that I hear from my fiancee makes me wish that I could have met them both. Thank God himself that they shared thier last moments together and neither one of them had to feel the pain of losing thier loved one. I give my deepest condolances to Both Eti and Trichelle's family, and Dustin and I are so very sorry that this tragedy has occured. Although I never met them, They will live on through all of our memories. With Love, Dustin and Alisen Child.
American Leadership Academy Football Team
September 6, 2007
I am the mother of an American Leadership Academy football player. Just know that you have a wonderful son, and that our prayers are with you at this time. Know that these boys have now dedicated their athletic abilities to their wonderful coach. Each and every game this season will be dedicated to Coach Eti. Go Eagles in honor of Coach Eti. You know that he would want you to do your very best. Kick the ball a little farther, catch the ball a little better, comfort each other a little more this season.
Brittany Marden
September 6, 2007
I loved Eti I went to Dixon and Provo High with him. He was such a sweet guy! I am so sorry for your loss of both Trichelle and Eti. They will be truly missed. I will be praying for you all at this hard time.
Brittany Smith Marden
Jessica Van Buren Collings
September 6, 2007
Trichelle and Eti-
You will both be greatly missed. Trichelle-your friendship is something I have and always will cherish-to all of our basketball memories. You were my "knee-buddy" as we liked to say! I love you
Love Jess Van Buren
Bart & Ruthie Dangerfield
September 6, 2007
David & Michelle,
I cannot tell you how our hearts are broken for you at this time! We love you and have been praying for your comfort at this trying and difficult time.
While this tragic accident seems so random and senseless, we pray that, in time, you will see the Lord's purposes and love in all of our difficulties and trials. I was so honored and touched to have Michelle come to my mother's viewing last month and I pray that you experience the same comfort and support I felt from you at that time.
While my experience was very different (with my Mom having lived a full life and was prepared and even anxious to pass through the veil), I hope you can feel the same joy I did when, instead of reflecting on what I will be missing in my life going forward, but rather look with gratitude and joy on the blessings that Trichelle and Etikeni have already brought you both.
Don't ever forget: We love you and cherish our friendship forever!
Jessica Jones
September 6, 2007
Dear families,
Eti and Trichelle were two very loved people and they will be missed dearly.You are in my prayers.I pray comfort and peace is with you. Love,Jessica N.Jones
The Montoya's
September 6, 2007
Our condolences are with the families of this beautiful couple. Eti and Trichelle were so outgoing and so friendly. We will miss them dearly.
Fevanga Family
September 6, 2007
To the Samani Family,
There's no words to explain the feeling of loosing a loved one especially when it's your own child. May the hands of the Almighty give you peace and comfort at this time of sadness. Our condolences goes out to your family and God bless you ALL! 'Ofa Lahi Atu!! Oso, Tapaita, Jr, Nuku & 'Ana
Anthony & Rachel Thomas
September 6, 2007
Uncle David & Aunt Michelle, Josh & Ashley, Jeremy & Rachel, Kyle & Tyler:
I am so deeply saddened by your loss. When I heard this morning, I could not believe it. It gives us that gentle reminder that life is short, to always remeber to tell those in our lives we love them. To lose a child in such manner is a trajedy, but to know she went right to our father in heaven's arms, with our family members right behind him. That pain of losing a child is so great, as I can attest. Take solace in our heavenly father. You all have many family and friends that love you and will bolster you through this time of need. We will all return to one another some day, until then know my heart aches for your loss, but is also very comforted by knowing the plan of salvation and eternal life. I love each of you, and our family wishes you all the best.
With all our love,
Anthony & Rachel Thomas, Mackenzie, Talyor and Jarrett
Paul & Vermine Haws & FAMILY
September 6, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Suzette Carter
September 6, 2007
Trichelle will be greatly missed. She was a loving friend and confidant. We will miss her beautiful smile and her infectious laugh. We had fun at work, at times, too much fun. When you were around Trichelle, it made you want to be a better person. She loved everyone unconditionally, and it showed in all of her actions. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time.
We love you, Trichelle, and will miss you dearly.
Until we meet again,
Your Friends at BJ Plumbing Supply
CHUCK AND JESSICA NORTON
September 6, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
lisa wilkinson
September 6, 2007
We are deeply saddened by the loss of ETi and Trichelle, they were beautiful poeple inside and out.. Our hearts go out to their family..
The Ozunas
Sherryn Ray
September 6, 2007
David , Michelle and Boys, It is impossible to understand the grief you are going through, we know. Just know that our prayers are with you. Millie adored Trichelle! She gave her friendship and kindness always.
Sam & Sherryn Ray & Family
Judy Seegmiller
September 6, 2007
David/Michelle and family... my heart goes out to you along with my prayers. May you find peace in knowing Trichelle & Etikeni are whole and together and that you will see them again. I'm grateful you had them on this earth and they were able to touch your lives for good. May you find peace in this other birth we call death. God bless my friends.
Troy Taysom
September 6, 2007
Eti worked for me for a short time while he was in High School and was a fine young man. I'm so sorry for the loss of these two young people. May God bless both of your families.
Larry Mota
September 6, 2007
Etikeni & Trichelle,
You are both in our prayers, as well as the rest of the family. We don't know the answers to the questions we have, but we will when we meet again. Nothing good could ever come from such a tragic loss. We are just grateful you were able to spend your last moments with your family at the reunion this weekend. Neither Labor Day or family reunions will ever be the same. You will be deeply missed.
Watch over your family and loved ones, and be near when they need your love and guidance.
We Love You
The Mota's
Jason Cassette
September 6, 2007
David and Michelle Valgardson:
I have been thinking about all of you during this difficult time. Sorry to hear about your loss. With sympathy and prayers
Bryan Dangerfield
September 6, 2007
David and Michelle:
Our collective prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Although I did not know your daughter Trichelle, my family has been blessed by your great example and your kindness. May those blessings come back to you a hundred times.
God Bless You,
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