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ELEY Tristram John Stewart Husband of Louise, Brother of Crispin, and Son of George and Hilary. Died in his sleep after a fall on a fishing boat off Cairns, North East Australia on 30th November 2008. He was 46years old. A service to celebrate his life will be held at St Lukes Church, Old Shoreham Road, Brighton on Saturday 31st January 2009 at 4pm.
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November 28, 2017
Dear Tristan, I did not know you, but what I do know was that you made Louise very happy. Thank you for that. I am truely sorry that life cut that short. Mark
August 8, 2016
Ciao TJ. Miro P.
August 8, 2016
Miss you terribly and endlessly and wish you were still here with us. Thank you for having been my true and loyal friend and for bringing love and so much laughter into my life.
March 7, 2016
You are still very much in my thoughts, each and every day. I miss you, dear, jolly, lovely friend.
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August 8, 2014
Thank you.
August 8, 2014
From the Maldives
August 8, 2012
It would have been your 50th today! You are still missed and the sound of a bike thundering up a back road, scaring cats, is yearend for.
August 8, 2012
Martin Winstone
January 15, 2012
You're still in my thoughts brother, I continue to miss you, the world is a lesser place for loosing you and I am a better man for knowing you. Thank you Sammy
January 15, 2012
Sam No Brains
August 8, 2011
Remembering and commemorating you on the anniversary of your 7 squared. We still miss your ridiculous sense of fun and trust you are still frolicking!!!Martin
August 8, 2011
Martin Winstone
March 25, 2011
It's been over two years now that you've been gone and the pain does not ease. I know you wouldn't approve of any moping--but I can't help it. Still, as you once told me, all I need to do is think of "some daft thing that you once said or did at when I'm feeling down and have a good laugh. And I do. I am so grateful to you for having filled my life with so many precious moments of mirth, merriment, and warmth. You were an unforgettable and spectacular friend.
March 25, 2011
Carolyn
August 8, 2010
Your birthday remains remembered, like you, never forgatten. Burn up those clouds!!
August 8, 2010
Martin Winstone
April 18, 2010
Asim Mian
January 7, 2010
Kim Easdale
December 4, 2009
Sam no Brains
December 3, 2009
Jodie
December 3, 2009
I'll never forget the day that Lou rang me to tell me you had died, I still can't believe you're gone. Too short your life was, but you lived it on your own terms, often you said to me arr stuff it life's to short. From before light till after dark in London to an office to the Great Barrier Reef, writing articles for fishing magazines stickin it to the banks, Lord Eley, Chucky, Tris, My Friend, My Brother. It's not tragic to die doing what you love' and you always tried to enjoy what you did. My Best mate, I Salute You.
August 10, 2009
As in all years, I am keeping teh tradition of a slightly belated "thinking of you at this time. You are very much missed! Martin
August 10, 2009
Martin Winstone
August 5, 2009
It's been over 20 years since I last spoke with Mr. Eley, but the kindness he showed me during one of my most difficult times has not been forgotten. May his family find strength in his memory.
August 5, 2009
Geleah Free York
August 5, 2009
Debbi LaRocque
May 20, 2009
Luke Tripovich
May 5, 2009
Noreen Lavender
April 25, 2009
Barbarella Lo Monaco
April 9, 2009
Patricia Smith
April 8, 2009
Melanie Farrow
March 16, 2009
Eric Imhoff
March 8, 2009
Mary Dixon
March 6, 2009
ellie nork
March 6, 2009
Mark Reid
March 6, 2009
Tristram, I remember you way back at Varndean Grammar school. You were a real gentleman and I will never forget your terrific rendition of the passage from Toad of Toad hall! I also remember you trying patiently to explain to me,how to make vodka out of potatoes! God bless you Tristram, and rest in peace.
March 6, 2009
Melanie Farrow
February 5, 2009
Jacob Long
February 5, 2009
Don Anderson
February 3, 2009
Clive Williams
February 1, 2009
Dawn Frojen
February 1, 2009
Geoff Ecker
January 29, 2009
Eric Allyn
January 28, 2009
Vicki (Waxman) Kowalski 83-85
January 28, 2009
You were a friend and a "Dad" to all of us at TASIS! We will miss you!! Love, "Doobie or not to Doobie (quote from my yearbook)
January 28, 2009
Sean Fleischmann( Doobie)
January 28, 2009
Janet and Don Greig
January 28, 2009
Hayley Cox
January 28, 2009
Gavin Smith
January 28, 2009
Dani and Gill Pelizzari
January 28, 2009
Jonathan Holtaway, Tasis 88
January 28, 2009
Alexander de Bruin
January 28, 2009
Andrea Cabada Strebin
January 26, 2009
I remember those all night fishing trips,drinking hot coffee laced with whiskey. Always a warm welcome from your mother at home. Evenings spent playing pool and time spent at the Crown& Anchor. And of course all those priceless school day memories. Good memories of a friend with tremendous warm and humour. If only you had caught a smaller fish ...... You will be missed for sure. Ant Cox
January 25, 2009
Eugene Piccinini
January 23, 2009
Hearing this news suddenly makes the days of Varndean Grammar School seem a very long time ago. Rest in peace. Stephen Palcso
January 23, 2009
Stephen Palcso
January 22, 2009
Anne Chapman
January 21, 2009
Susan Brasse Insley
January 20, 2009
Angela Gibson Eddleman
January 17, 2009
Jeff and Maggie Boyle
January 6, 2009
The Eley Family In Spain
January 5, 2009
Michele
January 5, 2009
Diane Heard
January 4, 2009
Philippa Romig
December 19, 2008
Dave Ferrell
December 18, 2008
Patricia Smith
December 17, 2008
Whilst you were my big brother's friend, to me you were always a live spark with a wicked sense of humour. Your loss is felt deeply. Love Sal x
December 16, 2008
Sally Winstone
December 16, 2008
Alene and Dudley
December 15, 2008
It was a long time ago that we were at Stanford Junior School together but I have some happy memories of that time. Rest in peace. Susan Hubbard (and my parents Beryl & John)
December 15, 2008
Susan Hubbard
December 12, 2008
Dawn Wilkins
December 12, 2008
To my Cousin I have fond happy memories of you (always laughing) and a good cook. At least you had had a well travelled life even if it was cut short so cruelly. My thoughts are with you George & Hilary I know you can never get over losing a child. Love Dawn and family.
December 12, 2008
Dawn Wilkins
December 12, 2008
Ali Daryabegi-Gi lani
December 12, 2008
Tristram in Clifton Beach with Darby the Cat. Jan. 2008
December 10, 2008
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December 10, 2008
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December 10, 2008
Chantal
December 10, 2008
Richard
December 9, 2008
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December 9, 2008
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December 9, 2008
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December 9, 2008
Miro Pozzi
December 8, 2008
Susan and Mark Alderson
December 8, 2008
Martin Winstone
December 8, 2008
Tina
December 8, 2008
Anthony Cox
December 7, 2008
Carl and Mel
December 6, 2008
Carolyn
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