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Kathryne Rich
June 17, 2021
I often think about Trudy and her kindness..she will always be in my heart and Hawaii memories..she made a difference in our lives and we are the better for knowing her grace..
October 24, 2018
It is with great sadness that I have just read about Trudy. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Trudy was an amazing young woman and classmate at Radford HS. It was such a pleasure to be with her at our 5oth reunion. Love, Linda Bjerkelund Hensley
Frank Tully
September 25, 2018
Dear John and Family, I was saddened to read of Trudy's recent passing. Although we lost track of one another years ago, I have always cherished the friendship we shared in the basement lab at the University of Chicago. Best wishes - Frank
Laurie DeMayo
September 9, 2018
Dear Dr.Schafer, I send my deepest condolences to you and your family at the loss of your dear wife. I pray that the wonderful memories that you share as well as God's deep Love, bring you a Peace and Joy that passes all understanding. God Bless and Keep you always
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Patricia Richards
August 16, 2018
John and family, we just learned this morning of Trudy's passing. I had sent an email asking if she might be able to attend our class reunion at Northwestern this fall. After receiving no reply, I feared to look, and was very sad to read, this memorial. Although we only got together a couple of times over the years, I have fond memories and tremendous respect for Trudy's friendship in college and accomplishments in life. I treasure the memory of our meeting in Napa many years ago and had hoped to see you both again. Our deepest sympathies are with you and family.
Pat Richards and Bill Nichols
Bart Bunce
July 27, 2018
Dr. Schafer, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Schafer. From what I read she was a passionate and dedicated woman who loved family and life. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless you all.
Collleen Higgins
July 26, 2018
Dear John, Ann, Bob and family,
We were so sorry to miss the celebration of wonderful Trudy, but we were out of town. One of our first and favorite 'finds' when moving to Sacramento over 30 years ago was the Schafer family. Bob and Kev loved to make potions and contemplate nature. My mom fell in love with Bob when he picked up the door mat, looked under and exclaimed with joy "Oh, German popup bugs!" We've looked ever since. And that memorable day, Ann, when you were watching the Ikemire's house and the water pipe broke in the bathroom. Somehow we managed to fix it and enjoy the indoor shower to boot. Over the years we loved running into any and all Schafers and Trudy became our personal political/policy guru, always leading with dignity, passion, truth and unbridled enthusiasm. I always felt better after a conversation with Trudy. She and all of you were a source of constant inspiration and joy for us Higgins. We treasured you then and now and hope her abiding joy and light will be a source of comfort to you all going forward. We're in Benicia now, loving it every day. Stop by when you're in the neighborhood. We'd love to see you.
The Higgins Family
Kathy Rich
July 3, 2018
My heart is saddened to read of Trudy's passing...I attended Radford and graduated with her in 1964. Trudy's kindness was a constant during those years of adjustment and trying to "fit in". She always made people feel that they were valued and worthy....she was the brightest scholar and Student Body President admired and respected for her ability to connect ..maybe a smile as you passed her between classes, or an assist with a complicated Algebra problem, always a team leader and mentor to all. Trudy thank you for your grace and dignity..and to your family..please know that Trudy made a difference in many lives..aloha dear sweet lady.
Trudy Porter 1964 Radford High, Honolulu
July 1, 2018
I graduated with Trudy from Radford High School in Honolulu in 1964. She was a special friend and a very special person. I saw her at our 50th reunion in Las Vegas in 2014 and I am so very thankful for that. Thank you for post on Facebook. Trudy, I will always remember you......rest in peace.
STAN SUMNER
July 1, 2018
MY DEAR SWEET HAWAIIAN HS FRIEND.... THE END WAS TOO SOON... ALOHA
Mary Anderson
July 1, 2018
I am so saddened to hear of Trudy's death from pancreatic cancer. I went to our last 2 years of high school and graduated with her from Radford High School. I was able to visit with Trudy at our 50 year high school reunion and she was one of 2 there that I knew right away, her appearance hadn't changed that much as we aged. You are all in my prayers and am so glad someone shared the obituary to Facebook so I could learn more about her life after high school. Am sure she was very proud of all of you. Prayers for peace and strength in the days ahead.
Janice Kurokawa
July 1, 2018
Trudy was our student body president at Redford h.s. In Hawaii. she was so intelligent,kind and thoughtful in high school ,and showed great leadership even then. I have the warmest remembrances of her then and from our fifty year reunion..she will be missed by many.
Cindy Chesbro
June 29, 2018
Dr Schafer Wesley and I are so very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family.
Cindy Chesbro
Humboldt County
June 29, 2018
Dear Dr. Schafer,
I am truly sorry to hear about your wife. I hope that fond memories will give you some comfort during this difficult time. Please take care. Sincerely, Sylvia Honton
Alicia Dienst
June 28, 2018
I knew Trudy when we both worked in the building at 926 J Street, the home of many non-profits. appreciated Ms. Schafer's deliberate and respectful attitude. She was a great advocate for women.
Laura and Glen Rosander
June 27, 2018
Dearest John and Family; Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all. When my husband (Charlie) and Glens wife passed away we both found great comfort in reading Psalm 139:16."Your eyes saw my unformed body, All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." I thank you for the special moments we had together in your home at our Stroke Team Christmas Parties.
Love and Blessings Glen and Laura Rosander ( aka Laura Newman)
Mags Veldman
June 26, 2018
Paul and Les join me in extending our heartfelt condolences to the family. We remember Trudy as a fine woman, caring and compassionate who will be missed by many. She has left a lasting legacy with her work at LWVC and we are pleased the Trudy Schafer Fellowship will honor her leadership. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
I.S
June 25, 2018
May the God of all comfort strengthens you and your family in this time of sorrow. (2 Corinth. 1: 3, 4)
Lyle Reed
June 25, 2018
My sincere condolences to John Schafer and his entire family.
Leslie Joy Douthett Wells
June 24, 2018
I saw Trudy's obituary in this morning's SacBee and, the moment I saw her picture, I knew she had to be a former classmate at Radford High School in Honolulu. She was a junior when I was a freshman and my sister was a senior. Although I had not seen Trudy since 1963, I remember her as being liked by everyone and as smart as a whip! My condolences to her family and friends, I am sure she will be missed by all.
LaChester Green
June 23, 2018
To the family of Trudy, I send my Heart felt condolences. I haven't seen Trudy for awhile, I worked for CTA GR Department on 10th street and it was always a great pleasure to see Trudy come to the meetings. She always had a BIG smile, and was a very nice human being. She treated me like we had known each other all my LIFE. I was just the guy who sat at the front door, and she was always kind to me. I pray that God will bless her family! Memories are the gratitude of the Heart. She was a true LADY! God bless your family sincerely LaChester,
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