Urbane Byler

Urbane Byler obituary, Goshen, IN

Urbane Byler

Urbane Byler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 11 to Dec. 12, 2022.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Urbane Byler, 83 of Goshen, Indiana. He died peacefully on December 9, 2022 at Goshen Hospital from complications of Parkinson's disease.

Urbane, born on October 6, 1939, was the oldest of eight children born to the late Bennett and Lena (Hartzler) Byler.

Urbane and Janet (Smucker) married on June 27, 1962, and enjoyed 60 years together. They founded and directed Hill Street Children's Center, in Slatington, Pennsylvania for more than 25 years. They volunteered with Mennonite Central Committee in Honduras and Mexico and with Jubilee Partners in Comer, Georgia. Their home was a landing place for refugees from Central America, Rwanda, Croatia and Burma, along with exchange students, family and friends, and many others who needed a place to stay.

Before his retirement and moving to Goshen, Urbane and Janet were well-known in the Lehigh Valley area (Slatington, PA) for the October pumpkin festival at Byler's Farm. Thousands of children and families enjoyed the educational field trips where they could squeeze milk from a real cow, gather eggs from the henhouse, slide down a haystack slide, and ride to the pumpkin patch to choose a pumpkin to take home.

Urbane was known for creative ideas, commitment to peace and justice, and a great sense of humor. He served on the board of directors of both the Lehigh Carbon Community College and the Northern Lehigh School District. He was actively involved at St. John's Lutheran Church in Slatington, PA, Whitehall Mennonite Church in Egypt, PA, and Benton Mennonite Church in Goshen, IN.

Survivors include his wife Janet (Smucker), four children: Kevin (Julie Howell) of Southbury, CT; Curtis (Karen) of Easton, PA; Jason (Janine) of Kalamazoo, MI; and Casandra (Tom Stinson) of Millersburg, IN along with seven grandchildren: Zachary, Amy, Isaac, Zaquavia and Varselli Byler, Susana and Alfie Stinson; six siblings: Jason (Tillie) of Hesston, KS; Ruby (Russel) Freed of East Lansing, MI, James (Marie) of Belleville, PA; Esther Cullen of Lyndhurst, VA; Susan (Blake) Byler Ortman of Comer, GA and sister-in-law Sherrie Byler of Goshen, IN. He was preceded in death by brothers Jonathan (Sherrie) on October 9, 2022 and Calvin in 1952.

Following a private burial, please join the family for visitation on Tuesday, December 13, from 6 to 8 p.m. and later at a memorial service on December 31 at 4 p.m., both at Benton Mennonite Church. Memorials may be directed to Mennonite Central Committee.

Yoder-Culp Funeral Home is assisting with arrangements.

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December 18, 2022

Carolyn & Tom Albright posted to the memorial.

December 17, 2022

david o Fink posted to the memorial.

December 15, 2022

Brian Martin Burkholder posted to the memorial.

Carolyn & Tom Albright

December 18, 2022

The Albright family grieves with you, Janet & family, at the loss of Urbane--a wonderful friend and mentor to all of us.

david o Fink

December 17, 2022

Janet and family
I will always remember Urban as an outstanding educator at Northwestern. He was a great mentor to the FFA students.

Hay Thanks for the memories!

Brian Martin Burkholder

December 15, 2022

I'm sorry to hear of this loss in your family. It sounds like life was rich for your family and household and that is well worth celebrating. May the legacy of humor, service, nurture and creativity continue in the family tree. I worked with Jason at Amigo Centre and knew Casandra as well. Fine folks!

Rich Handwerk

December 15, 2022

Kindest/Bestest Buddy/NEIGHBOR/Would do Anything for Anyone/Taught me so much about the Farm (life) /Employer (Urbane claimed, I was his #1 Pumpkin Patch Tractor Driver
A story Urbane shared with me : People pulled up along side of his Pumpkin Field. They were filling up their trunk with pumpkins. Urbane heard something later at night and walked up and ask if they needed help loading them up.
I said to him "You did What" He then said to me, if they need the Pumpkins more than the children/teachers to help make there holiday more joyous. I'm glad to help.

Randy & Eileen Andrews

December 15, 2022

Janet & Family,
We were sad to hear of Urbane's passing. We appreciated both of your kindness and compassion during rough times. We couldn't have asked for better neighbors. May God give you peace as you grieve and hope for a brighter tomorrow.
Randy & Eileen Andrews

Tami

December 14, 2022

Janet and Family,
I am sorry to hear the loss of Urbane. He was such kind man to work for, my first job. I loved Hill street so much. Thank you for the fond memories. I am so sorry for your loss. Urbane was one of a kind!
I started at the Center when I was 17.
Sending hugs and lots of prayers.
,
Tami Hoffman Herman

Samantha Meixsell Eck

December 14, 2022

Janet & family,
I am so sad to hear of Urban's passing. I absolutely loved growing up with you two. Between daycare and the farm. Urban had such a gentle soul and so much kindness to share.

Sharon Smith

December 14, 2022

Sending my condolences to the Byler family . May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bette Harting Maiatico

December 13, 2022

The fall season has not been the same for my family since Byler's Farm closed. We started going when my children were toddlers, then I brought my inner city 1st graders and the. My grandchildren! We have missed you both so much and now are saddened to learn Urbane had died. May God comfort you in your grief and may memories keep him close in your heart.

Deb Scheffler-Snyder

December 13, 2022

So sorry to hear of his passing .will always cherish the memories growing up with Mr and Mrs Byler ,going to Bylers farm and even carrying on the tradition by taking my children there My deepest sympathies to your family.

Mike Gellis

December 13, 2022

My condolences to the Byler Family. I have a lot of fond memories from Byler's farm. A lot of my youth was spent swimming in or ice skating on the dam and picking strawberries. May peace be with you.

Laura H. Weaver

December 13, 2022

Dear Janet and Family,
My sympathy to all of you. I always admired both Urbane and you. I first learned to know Urbane when I taught at BMS in 1955-57, and then I learned to know you. We've stayed in contact all these years, and we recently talked on the phone. Sending prayers for you and the family.

Greg and Beth Suderman

December 12, 2022

Janet, Thinking of and praying for you in this sad time.

Jessica Barhight Rehrig

December 12, 2022

Byler Family- my condolences on the passing of Mr. Byler. I have many fond memories of helping out at the farm as a kid and then of taking my own children there. His kindness and generosity are a legacy that lives on in our hearts. Gods blessings and peace to your family at this difficult time.

John, Regina, Jenelle and Troy Perich

December 11, 2022

Dear Janet and Family.
So sorry to hear of Urban's passing. We have so many find memories of you both. Jenelle starting out at your daycare and strawberry and pumpkin picking at the farm. I'm so glad we got to know the both of you and your family.
God bless you all.

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