VANDY ROSS STILLION

VANDY ROSS STILLION obituary, Henderson, NV

VANDY ROSS STILLION

VANDY STILLION Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 19, 2025.
Vandy Ross Stillion, aged 66, passed away on May 11, 2025, in Henderson, NV. Born on January 8, 1959, Vandy was known for her fiery, sassy spirit combined with a loving, giving, and caring heart. She was a beloved figure both in her personal life and in her professional roles as a Colman key vender and a crossing guard at her grandchildren's school, where she was adored by both kids and parents alike, especially for the special treats she provided during holidays.

Vandy's hobbies and interests painted the picture of a vibrant, active woman deeply connected to her family. She cherished crossword puzzles, fishing trips to Panguitch, crafting, and gardening. Her collection of gnomes and her love for Mexican food and margaritas were well known among her friends and family. Vandy also had a profound love for her puppy, Lily, and enjoyed music, often seen dancing and singing in the car. Her straightforward, no-filter attitude was one of her defining traits, endearing her to some and always keeping her family on their toes.

She leaves behind a loving family, including her daughters Whitney Stillion and Amber DaForno; son Lucas Stillion; sons-in-law Doyle Miller and Pete DaForno; daughter-in-law Natalie Stillion; grandchildren John, Brianna, Kirsten, Ryan, Chase, Carson, and Daniel; and great-grandchildren Ryder and Carter Miller. Vandy was preceded in death by her husband, Daniel Stillion, and her parents, Ross and Addie Goethe, as well as her father-in-law and mother-in-law, Robert and Rosemary Stillion.

A service to celebrate Vandy's life will be held on Friday, June 6th, at 8:40 AM at 1900 Veterans Memorial Dr., Boulder City, NV 89005. Vandy's life was a testament to her robust spirit and generous heart, leaving a lasting impact on everyone she met. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all who knew her.

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June 6, 2025

Dave Stillion posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2025

Kat & Kris Kimura posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2025

Leah Ruppert (Goldberg) posted to the memorial.

Dave Stillion

June 6, 2025

Whitney, Amber, and Luke.....you will always be special to me as the children of my brother Dan and your "very spirited" mom Vandy. Soooo many memories of hanging out and laughing with your Mom and Dad at the BBQ's in the early years to the many Mexican food restauants for Marguitas with Grandpa and Grandma. Your Mom and Dad did what they were supposed to do. They "worked" through the tough times and raised three wonderful kids! And now, you three are raising your own.
That is what family is all about!!
God bless you Vandy and my sincere condolences Whitney, Amber and Luke!

Kat & Kris Kimura

June 6, 2025

Vandy was the light and laughter that filled every room and life she entered. She taught us how much fun every moment could be when you have a sense of humor and allow your light to shine. Vandy and Danny are together now as it seems they were all meant to be. She will be missed and loved always!
Kat & Kris

Leah Ruppert (Goldberg)

June 6, 2025

I am very sorry to hear this. I knew her while I was in High School. Prayers to your family.

Douglas Stillion

June 5, 2025

Our condolences go out to Whitney, Amber, Luke and all their children. Having both parents pass in the last 9 months is quite the adjustment. Our love, hopes and prayers to all of you.

Our best wishes,

Uncle Doug and Debbie

Barabara Podsiadly

June 2, 2025

I'm so very sorry about the loss of Vandy. I know that my cousin Danny loved her to the moon and back. They made a very special family together. Praying for strength and comfort for all of you. I know you will miss her fiercely.
Barbara Podsiadly

Hope

May 20, 2025

Here it is:

Some people bring a spark into your life not with grand gestures, but with the quiet beauty of their presence. Vandy was that kind of light in my dark time; when we both found ourselves in rehab after being hospitalized!

We shared a love for creating things with our hands. We loved making simple things sparkle, with joy and laughter we always painted, created, or glued together new masterpieces! But more than that, we shared silliness, and sharing gummies, sodas and you name it with one another from room to room. Most precious I´d say is that we both had the gift of seeing everyday as something to be celebrated, because it was fragile and momentary! We made sure that everyone felt included and we inspired hope in the lonely patients to help them find color in the most ordinary moments. When Vandy and I met our stories were so similar that she referred to me as her twin! She always had a way of making my life feel fuller, brighter, and more fun.

We knew that creativity isn´t just about crafts - it´s about the way we live, the way we love, and the way we care. Just because I didn´t know her for long I felt the opposite- so I can say from the little time I was blessed to become her Friend and get to know her, she sure lived artfully, generously, joyfully and her Prized Possession was her Family! Vandy approached life with open hands, an open heart, and at times I needed a laugh she gave that mischievous grin. That fact was evident right away as they always visited her and brought lots of things; she knew she was loved! I felt like I too belonged to their family the way they treated me too!

I will miss her laughter, her sparkle, and I wish I could tell her one more time how thankful I am for her Beautiful Friendship; she made my rehab world a more beautiful place with her in it!!!

Vandy may be gone from our sight, but not for a moment from my hearts! I loved her laughter, and I will Forever Cherish all our glue sparkled covered memories through all the things we created that made each day a better one!

I will Always Treasure her friendship
I will Always Treasure her beauty of including me in her world and for sharing her joy with me despite all that she endured!

Until I get to see her again I will keep the glue warm and the sparkle ready for next Beautiful Creation together!

June Rives

May 20, 2025

Vandy is my baby sister. She was such a darling baby. While only 3 years old she contracted rheumatic fever. We did not know if we´d see her again when Mom & Dad took her to Omaha Nebraska to the hospital. After she returned from the hospital she was unable to speak and was so weak. But weeks of all of us teaching her she regained these skills and her strength, from that day forward she was unstoppable. Funny and smart. She had a fierce love for Dan and her children. RIP baby sister. See you soon. June Rives

Cindy Romey

May 20, 2025

What a beautiful message for Vandy from her family. A Mom could ask for nothing more than knowing she is loved and will be missed.

Deb Stillion

May 19, 2025

Vandy, RIP, sister in law,
you were a Free and Outspoken Spirit..... for sure....
Others always knew what was on your mind at any given moment....

One constant, though ,
was your love of your beloved husband, children ,
grand peeps and of course precious those
fur babies!

Your spirit will be remembered forever....

love,
Deb

Whitney

May 19, 2025

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