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ART DEFILIPPO
March 6, 2025
Vanya, Peter Segal and Art Defilippo eating Korean food in Tucson
Lisa Cooper Anderson
March 4, 2025
Farewell and Fare Thee Well, beloved friend. We will miss you more than words can say.

Little Bird
March 4, 2025
It's fair to say that Vanya changed my life, but equally fair to say that Vanya would change the life of anyone he befriended. 
Like many others, I met Vanya at the edges of gatherings of friends. Later, I would take my camp chair and go drive out to the woods after work when he was camping nearby, and we would sit by a campfire, or sometimes in the dark,  chatting or in silence, under the starry sky. I loved his curiosity, intelligence and creativity and the way he would tell me, very frankly, when I was wrong about something. 
Cheers to you, Vanya. The world is better for having had you in it. May the next one be as well.
James Phillips
March 3, 2025
He was a great and caring person. He always had time to listen to you and help you if you needed it.
Cindy Dooling
March 1, 2025
I first heard about Vanya Cooper about 45 years ago when I worked in Pima's computer science lab. He was generous with his knowledge and time, especially when I was working with DEC's VAX/VMS systems. Vanya certainly had the vision for acquiring and securing technical advantages for the College. He loved Maura and had sweet tales to share. I can still hear and see his soft chuckle during humorous moments. No doubt he will be missed by his grandkiddos, too. Rest peacefully.

Mello Dee
March 1, 2025
The first time I met Vanya. He was enjoying the sunset.
Ransom
February 28, 2025
Rest easy friend you earned it.
Melvin & Melanie
February 28, 2025
From others who were left with a great impression after only a couple of visits with Vanya.
We were so grateful for his generosity and friendship to our daughter, Stephanie Birdwel, (Little Bird).
We could tell from just the couple encounters and Stephanie´s stories of him, that he was special.
We were effected by learning of his loss, almost as deeply as people much closer to us.
We feel very sad for the world, his family and all the people he knew, for their loss.
Melvin & Melanie
Meg Verbal Kensington
February 28, 2025
I met Vanya twenty years ago, while volunteering at an arts event. It was a cold night at an outdoor venue, and he was wearing what appeared to be only a fuzzy bathrobe. I was worried he might be in distress, so I approached him to offer a coat. He just laughed, reassured me that he was both warm and sober, and said, "Wanna see something neat?" He then showed me how he´d cleverly sewn himself a cozy (and functional!) costume from *several* fuzzy bathrobes, with an additional layer underneath. He cracked a few jokes, had me rolling with laughter in just a few minutes, and we ended up spending half the night chatting at the edge of the dance floor. 
When I moved away from my hometown, Vanya would still drive hours out of his way to make a "pitstop" in my area on his seasonal roadtrips. We´ve shared so many silly, significant moments - and far too many mugs of late-night coffee. He taught me how to tie my shoes the "right" way at age thirty. He told me the only joke I will ever remember when someone asks if I know any jokes (it is objectively terrible). He convinced me to spend a perfect day on the beach in Mexico picking up other people´s trash - and then made it so fun, I forgot we were even working. He showed me how to fix so, so many things. And in my hardest moments, he never failed to offer a well-placed word of advice (or snarky witticism). 
This space is too small to hold everything that Vanya meant to me - let alone to all of the countless others he´s touched. I know it´s been years since we met, Maura - and that words of condolence don´t really do it justice. I can only say that even though Vanya wasn´t my blood, he always felt like family. The grief triggered by his passing feels immense - but it seems small in comparison to the gratitude I feel for having known him. I´m so thankful to have called him my friend, and I hold that dearly. 
My heart is with you, and your family. Sincerely, Meg
Daniel Lantz Leppert
February 27, 2025
Maura - I met you a couple of weeks ago outside of PCC District Office. I was able to get in touch with a couple of folks who are still on staff here to let them know about Vanya. Michael Stafford said, "Vanya passed? Damn. Good guy." when I let him know the news. 
Thank you for stopping by and am holding you to the light in this time of your grief.
Dan
Peter Segal
February 27, 2025
I only met Vanya once. A friend invited me to have dinner with them at a Korean restaurant. We all talked a bit and shared some stories. Vanya impressed me as a very gentle unassuming person who loved camping and being outdoors. An independent person who was agile with numerous and could fix anything. A quiet sense of humor and appreciation. 
He was an inspiration 
Peter Segal




ART DEFILIPPO
February 27, 2025





Maura Foster
February 26, 2025



Maura Foster
February 26, 2025
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