Vincent Barry McLorg

Vincent Barry McLorg

Vincent McLorg Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 21, 2008.
Vincent Barry McLorg February 26, 1946 - August 18, 2008 Vincent Barry McLorg died at Moffitt Hospital on the UCSF campus on Monday, Aug. 18, 2008, following an all too short battle with lung cancer diagnosed in May. Vince was born in Ross, CA, and graduated from Sir Francis Drake High School in San Anselmo before joining the U.S. Army in 1965. Vince served in Vietnam as a second lieutenant in 1967, receiving a Bronze Star with a "V" device for valor before being critically wounded in a land mine explosion that caused permanent and debilitating injuries to both his legs. Following his service, Vince completed college at St. Mary's College in Moraga after which he earned his J.D. degree from Hastings College of the Law. After graduation from law school in 1976, Vince joined the firm of Bledsoe, Smith, Cathcart, Boyd, and Eliot where he stayed until 1979 when he, John P. McGlynn, and Larry Lossing formed Lossing, McGlynn & McLorg. That firm later became McGlynn, McLorg & McDowell (dubbed "McLegal" by Herb Caen) and eventually McGlynn, McLorg & Ritchie. Vincent's legal accolades were many. Based on his extensive trial experience, he was voted membership in the American Board of Trial Advocates ("ABOTA"). Vince was likewise honored in 1999 by the San Francisco Trial Lawyers Association as the first recipient of the Edward McFetridge Defense Attorney Award given by the association to a San Francisco attorney who consistently demonstrates qualities of civility, fairness, ethical conduct, integrity and professionalism. The love of Vincent's life was his wife of 42 years, Kathy. Kathy and Vince married shortly before Vince's tour in Vietnam, and Kathy supported Vince during his extended convalescence following his war injuries and while he attended both college and law school. One of Vince's final wishes was that he would have time to take Kathy to their beloved Maui, a wish they happily made come true. Vince had legions of friends dating back to his youth and recently recounted how gratifying it has been for him that he made new friends each decade of his life. The last decade was represented by his motorcycle buddies, a group of some twenty bikers with whom Vince regularly rode on his cherished Harley-Davidson. Vincent was a devoted father and a much loved brother and uncle. Vincent leaves sons, Colin and Kyle; sisters, Frances (Dennis) Selder and Valerie (Bob) Lucas both of La Mesa, CA; brother, Malcolm (Lindsey) McLorg of San Anselmo, and scores of nieces and nephews and grand nieces and nephews who uniformly considered Vincent their favorite uncle. A celebration of Vincent's life will be held in the Livermore Room at the Marin Art and Garden Center in Ross on Thursday, August 28, 2008, 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate any donations to the charity of your choosing.

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September 1, 2008

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September 1, 2008

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August 29, 2008

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Dennis Yniguez

September 1, 2008

I had the good fortune to work for several months with Vince on a land use case. Behind his easy affability was great strength of character. I’m reminded of a quote by Heraclitus:

“The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the full light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny…it is the light that guides your way.”

I would not be surprised to learn that there are quite a few others out there who had the chance to work with Vince, and who were inspired by his approach to law and to life. Thank you, Vince, for a life well-lived.

Ellen and Nelson Schiller

September 1, 2008

We were fortunate to have Vince represent us in a stressful property matter. His integrity, skill, kindness and extraordinary sense of humor will always reside in our memory. We extend our deepest sympathy to his family.

Ralph Robinson

August 29, 2008

McLorg Family,
I had the honor of working with Vince many years at USAA. He was truly one of the most caring and ethical men I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. His leadership skills and the concern he showed for his employees was exemplary. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dan and Cathy Quinn

August 28, 2008

Our sincere condolences to Kathy and family. We treasure the memories of our ADC Hawaii trips with Vince. He was dedicated in his profession (no doubt) but I will miss his genuineness and that smile! Sorry we are unable to make the service.

Cherie Garcia-Day

August 27, 2008

Dear Kathy and family,

Vince will always remain in our hearts as truly one of the nicest, most fun, and charismatic friends. Our Drake class of '63 had so many wonderful and memorable experiences together. Vince stood out as one of our best.

My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Vince was a prince of a guy.

Love, Cherie

Devon Howard

August 26, 2008

Mrs. McLorg, Colin and Kyle--
You all were like a second family to me for many years of my life. Mr. McLorg was a wonderful man, warm and charismatic. I am sure he will be deeply missed by all who have known him. I wish I could be there for the ceremony. All my love, prayers and thoughts are with you. I hope the memorial shines light on all the beauty and greatness Mr. McLorg brought into this world during his life. Love, Devon

Steve Livingston

August 25, 2008

I had the pleasure of working with Vince for several years while at USAA. He was an excellent attorney and a great guy and it was easy to see why he was so well respected by his peers. My condolences to his family.

Diana Humphrey Beals

August 25, 2008

My heartfelt condolences to Kathy, sons and family. I'll always have great memories and a special place in my heart for Vince because he was such a part of my life at Drake. Great times. Goodbye to a sweetheart of a guy.

Barbara Dillon

August 24, 2008

I remember crazy Vince but we called him Barry growing up in San Anselmo, He frequented my parents place, Jeeps. So sorry to hear this. My prayers and thoughts are with Vince's family.

Tony, Bob, Vince, John, Harley - June 1963

Steve Oliva

August 23, 2008

My deepest condolences to all Vince's family. Even 45 years later, I remember Vince's energy, sense of humor, and quick wit at Drake.

Stephen Jaffe

August 23, 2008

I am shocked and sorrowed to learn of Vince's passing. Aside from his skill and passion as a lawyer, he was a genuinely terrific guy. I send my deepest sympathy to Kathy, Colin and Kyle.

John McBride

August 23, 2008

I like to remember Vince that way I knew him during his Drake High days, always smiling, always ready for some fun. Sorry I missed out on his friendship later in life due to my moving away from California. Heart felt condolences to his family.

mike leone

August 22, 2008

I remember Vince as a "terror" and man in motion at Drake ...and driving the adminstators and teachers crazy with all his stunts...always a smile and up for a run down fourth street (cutting the gut as we used to day) or a High Y party event. One of the fun and good guys that's for sure!

John & Rich Catalano

August 22, 2008

Kathy, Colin and Kyle,

Echoing others here, Vince was a class act - always respectful and friendly. He was a terrific supportive friend and wonderful neighbor, too.

Always a smile to share, tooling around with the top down!

Everyone will miss him.

Skip and Mary Ann Granger

August 22, 2008

August 22, 2008
Kathy, Colin and Kyle,
Mary Ann and I are saddened by your loss. Vince was a favorite of all who knew him... a great husband, dad and attorney, and a man who always made everyone smile with his wit and laugh out loud with his humor. We will miss him very much.

Daniela Mehedinti, and daughter, Deanna

August 22, 2008

We are profoundly saddened to hear of Vince’s sudden conclusion/finale. I had the honor to work for Vince a good four years, and I consider that a privilege. When I first applied for a transfer to work for Vince (from USAA, Sacramento) I was warned, more or less jokingly, that Vince was a Veteran and an excellent Trial Lawyer and might be difficult working for him. I took the challenge and all I can tell you today is that I do not know what they were talking about. Kind, knowledgeable, sharing his own experiences and offering opportunities when possible, that’s how I remember Vince, “if you catch my drift.” With utmost respect and admiration I will always have a soft spot for Vince and you, his family.

Kathy, Colin, Kyle and extended family, with deepest sympathy, we will always keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Mike & Diana Britting and Family

August 22, 2008

Kathy, Colin and Kyle,

There is obviously no good time or way to lose someone you love, and we share the sorrow and void that Vincent’s passing brings to everyone who knew and loved him.

Kathy, you and Vince were there for us when we needed guidance through illness; taking our hands and our hearts and leading us through the darkness. We were blessed to have you both in our lives.

We remember family celebrations we have shared, the happy times, and the fun things we have done together over many years and treasure that last evening just a few weeks ago when we had dinner together. We will always remember Vince’s warmth, kindness and sense of humor, shining eyes and warm grin..

It is difficult to accept this new course that his spirit has moved towards, but we believe that in this journey we call life it is just an interval in time until we are all together once again.

Lisa Branin

August 22, 2008

I am deeply saddened to hear of Vince’s illness and passing. I worked in Vince’s office at the Law Offices of Vincent McLorg and admired and respected him. I can still remember him walking by my desk whistling “Fly Me To The Moon” like it was yesterday. The joke was, I would be on BART going home and humming that song which I could not get out of my head for the rest of the night -- then it would start all over again the next day when he walked by again. My sincere condolences to Kathy, Colin, Kyle and Malcom.

anne wirth

August 22, 2008

Kathy, Kyle and Colin,
Please accept the love and sympathy from everyone at SK.
Annie

Byron Atwater

August 21, 2008

Vince, a dear biker buddy. Rides will never be the same, without new "Vincidents" to be shared after a long day's ride. Warm memories of fun times shared will always be in my heart.

Hubert Tung

August 21, 2008

I had the honor & pleasure of working with Vince during the early 90's as he did defense work for us at CSAA. He was counsel on a number of my files. Vince was a class guy, very solid personality, and treated everyone with the utmost respect. I haven't seen him in over 15 years but remember our times together like it was yesterday. My sympathies to his family, he'll be greatly missed.

Dorothy (Anderson) North

August 21, 2008

I am deeply saddened to learn of Vince's death. He was one of the bright lights of Section C at Hastings, Class of '76. Always a smile, a good word, everything in perspective. My sincere condolences to Kathy, their sons, Malcolm, and to all of Vince's family, friends and colleagues.

Joanna Beam

August 21, 2008

Vince was an excellent attorney who did significant work on behalf of the University of California. We are indebted to him and are very sad to learn of his death. We send our condolences to his family. He was a wonderful colleague.

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