Wesley Thomas Hughes

1955 - 2013

Wesley Thomas Hughes obituary, 1955-2013, Plantation, FL

Wesley Thomas Hughes

1955 - 2013

BORN

1955

DIED

2013

Wesley Hughes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 18, 2013.
On Thursday, April 18, 2013, W. Thomas Hughes, age 58, finally lost his courageous battle with cancer. He passed away peacefully at Westside Regional Medical Center in Plantation, Florida, with loved ones by his side. Survivors include his partner of 33-plus years, James Thurman; his sister-in-law, Francine Thurman; and his aunt, Joyce Pruitt
Thomas was born on February 6, 1955, in Anderson, South Carolina, where he was raised by his grandmother, Miss Tolley, whom he loved dearly. After graduation from high school, Thomas moved to Jacksonville, Florida, where he attended and graduated from the Stenotype Institute of Jacksonville Beach. He worked as a court reporter in various venues, including Jacksonville, Florida; Columbia, S.C., and Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. He had been a reporter for Veritext out of Miami, Florida, from September 2007 to April 10, 2013, when he reported his final deposition. Thomas was very dedicated to the court-reporting profession. It was his true passion. He had been a member of the National Court Reporters Association since 1978. He was a past member of the NCRA Speed Contest Committee, Realtime Contest Committee, and Testing Verification Committee. He served as the Official Reporter for the 1997 NCRA Convention in Orlando, Florida. He was also a Past Chief Examiner for the RPR/RMR/CRR Examinations. Thomas had been a member of the Florida Court Reporters Association since 1979. He had served as Southern Director, Secretary, Vice-President, President-Elect and President (2007-2008). He implemented the FCRA Realtime Speed Contest in 2007.Thomas held the following reporting certifications of which he was extremely proud: RPR, RMR, RDR, CRR, and FPR. His specialty was Realtime Reporting which he had been performing since 1993.As a young adult, Thomas loved boating and water sports and had actually won several national awards for water-skiing. As an older adult, he enjoyed going boating with his good friends Teresa and Wayne Durando. As a matter of fact, very recently, when his dear friend Teresa asked him if there was anything at all he would like to do, he replied that he wanted to go out on the boat one more time with them.Thomas's favorite hobby was cooking (and eating) gourmet food. He had several shelves in his kitchen filled with cookbooks. He loved his beautiful home, and nothing made him happier than entertaining his good friends there. Even toward the end, when he was so ill that he barely had any appetite at all, he still enjoyed laying on the sofa and watching various cooking shows on TV.
In his den at home, Thomas had a gorgeous piano which he loved to play. In fact, for those of you reading this who are friends with him on Facebook, I would encourage you to view the video of him playing the piano which was posted. It is guaranteed to leave a huge smile on your face. While you are watching it, keep in mind that he never had a piano lesson as a child and he could not read a single note of music. He played everything by ear. If there was a particular song that he wanted to be able to play, he would simply practice it until he perfected it.
Thomas enjoyed watching movies, especially "golden oldies." He watched Gone with the Wind so many times that he could actually recite every line of dialogue word for word. He loved a good one-liner, and he particularly liked the following quotes from Steel Magnolias: "Honey, time marches on, and eventually you realize it is marching across your face." "Well, you know what they say: If you don't have anything nice to say about anybody, come sit by me!" Another line that he often repeated from that movie was, "The only thing that separates us from the animals is our ability to accessorize."
There was nothing in this world, though, that Thomas loved and adored more than his "babies." Those of you who knew him personally know that I am referring to his many cats; his pet squirrel, Tiny; and his raccoon, Rocky. They brought him immeasurable pleasure throughout his life and especially during his illness.
Thomas will be remembered, most certainly, for being a real character. He was funny, and he was brimming with Southern charm. He was a wonderful friend and mentor to many. Since being diagnosed with cancer this past August, he fought the good fight, but ultimately he lost the battle. In going through some of his things today, I found the "Message from the President" article he wrote upon becoming president of FCRA. In it, he said, "I am declaring the theme for the next year for all of us is 'BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE.'" I think those are very wise words for all of us to live by, whether professionally or personally.
No services have been scheduled at this time.
Memorial contributions are welcome for the Humane Society of Broward County, www.humanebroward.com, and/or the American Cancer Society, www.cancer.org/donate.

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April 13, 2019

Francine Thurman posted to the memorial.

April 13, 2019

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February 6, 2014

Donna Kanabay posted to the memorial.

I still miss you deeply and think about you every day.

Francine Thurman

April 13, 2019

Thomas & Fran, Fran's 50th

Francine Thurman

April 13, 2019

Dearest Thomas,
I just miss you, plain and simple. I miss your presence in my life. I miss you always being there for me. I miss my best friend.

Donna Kanabay

February 6, 2014

Fran: Thomas must have tapped me on the shoulder just the other day. I was sitting on my couch, reading, and suddenly I couldn't stop thinking about him. It got so strong that I had to get up and go watch his memorial video. So I was stunned to see your birthday message to him this morning!

Francine Thurman

February 5, 2014

February 6, 2014

Dearest Thomas,

Happy Birthday, my friend. I'm so glad you were born because you brightened my life and filled it with joy. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I am constantly remembering things that you said or did. I still find myself wanting to share something funny with you or wanting to call you to gossip about someone or something. You may be out of sight, but you are definitely not out of mind.

“It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone.”

jt

September 13, 2013

A letter from The President Of The United States saying he was saddened to learn of Thomas's passing

July 28, 2013

Dear James, I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Thomas one time, at last year's FCRA convention. In that half-hour conversation, he spoke with me so warmly I was instantly at ease. He made me feel like I was the only person in the room, and that I was the guest of honor. He made such an impression on me with his charismatic graciousness, he was one of the first people I was looking forward to seeing again at this year's convention. I was only with him for a conversation, and MY heart was saddened that I couldn't see him again. I can't begin to imagine the depth of YOUR pain. Please take comfort in the fact that when you finally say goodbye to THESE three dimensions and awaken in another, HIS beautiful blue eyes will be the first you'll see! You are in my heart and prayers! Sharon Pell Velazco

jt

July 27, 2013

Thomas, you would have been so proud of the memorial held for you during the July 20th FCRA convention held in Orlando. Donna Kanabay put together one of the most beautiful tributes to someone that I have ever seen . The FCRA also awarded you the most prestigious award that they give. The Emily Mann Distinguished Service Award for 2013 was presnted to you for all the valuable contributions you have made to the Florida Court Reporters Association during the many years you served. Everyone said that you will remain in their heart and thoughts forever.

Teresa Durando

June 5, 2013

Not a day goes by, Dear Friend, that I don't think of you, only now, with the passage of time, it more often brings a smile rather than a tear. I think that's a testament to your spirit and wit. Sometimes I just break out in laughter at our hijinks and YOUR mischievous behavior! You will live forever in my mind.

James Thurman

May 17, 2013

1980 was a year known for many events. Jimmy Carter was President, Mount Saint Helen erupted, Ted Turner established CNN. The movie of the year was Star Wars , Members Only jackets were all the rage in fashion, Michael Jackson released The Thriller, and a gallon of gas was $1.19. The world population was 4,434,682,000 people. It was also the year that I meet and fell in love with Wesley Thomas Hughes . He was a young man of 25 with a head of hair that made everyone envious, a mustache that was always perfectly groomed, blue eyes that no ocean could match and true one of a kind personality and wit that could only be of Thomas. I was truly blessed to have been part of Thomas's life for 33 years. We lived in South Carolina and Florida together. We purchased two great homes and enjoyed entertaining with all our great friends together. We loved all the many pets we had together. The great memories we had together play over and over in my head and bring comfort. The gift of love that Thomas provided will never wear out or grow old . Someone who meant so much to me will continue to live on in my everyday life. I now await the time that we will be together for eternity.

Fran a/k/a Glitzy a/k/a Blythe

May 17, 2013

There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart.

I miss you, UP.

Pat Weiner

May 12, 2013

Thomas, I didn't know you very well, but the short time I did you were such a great person, always smiling, always laughing. My last memory of you is on April 4th in the Ft.Lauderdale office. You were peeking in my room to say hello and I was trying to understand my witness and so intent on looking at her I almost missed seeing you. After it was over I went out to find you and you had already left. I felt so bad that I wasn't able to say hi and speak to you that day, not knowing it was going to be the last time I'd see you. Rest in peace, my friend. You will be missed.

Lori Law

May 10, 2013

thinking about all of the fun times I had with Thomas. Conventions, sleepovers at each other's houses. I'm sure you have every angel laughing by your side! I love you and miss you. Lori

Julianna Sudler

May 1, 2013

Thomas, may the angles of God comfort you on your journey, and you are missed on this side. I miss the times Fran and I are watching Dancing with the Stars, as well as other TV shows and we're going back and forth on the telephone with our hysterical opinions. Your fashion sense will be missed, your work ethics, smile, and just you being you. May you rest in peace. God bless you.

Tamara Tirlokhi

April 29, 2013

Thomas I will miss you, I remember how you would always bring me a muffin anytime you were working here in the Ft. Lauderdale office and i will share my saltine crackers with you, Then you will tell me a quick joke and say see you later hon , laugh and go back to your room...OHHH you will be miss, rest in peace my friend.

Judy Everman

April 28, 2013

Such memories we all have, Thomas, at FCRA conventions and then when you and I worked together. Things were always interesting around you! I will treasure the memories we created together. You will be sorely missed.

Ellen Salenger

April 27, 2013

One of the highlights of going to an FCRA convention was knowing that Thomas would be there, always smiling, always hilarious. I will always remember trying to stop someone from trying to gong my daughter, Susie, when she was singing in a Gong Show. I really didn't mean to knock the guy to the floor, but I heard Thomas yell "Ellen tackled him."
You will be missed so much. Rest in peace, my friend.

Beverly James

April 27, 2013

Thomas, I've been thinking about you every day since you've gone. I really miss our lively discussions about our crazy career, your humorous anecdotes and stories and southern ways. You've been a great friend, a wonderful colleague and I will miss you forever. I truly believe you are in a better place, but you were taken from us much too soon.

Bobby Stern

April 27, 2013

Thomas was one of my dearest friends. I will always remember his quick wit and zest for life. I will think of him every time I see Steel Magnolias or Driving Miss Daisy. I will forever cherish the fond memories of my times with he and JT. We've been neighbors for twelve years, but friends for twice that. He was brave until the end, and I will miss him terribly.

Sara Jane Hall Craft

April 26, 2013

I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to J.T. and his family. Thomas is my second cousin. I will always remember Thomas and my Aunt Dot (his Grandmother) coming to my Mother's (Aunt Sara) house for Christmas. It was so much fun. Thomas was the life of the party and kept us laughing hysterically all day. I'm sure there is a great reunion going on in Heaven.

Rick Sojak

April 26, 2013

I had the pleasure of doing my first video playback at trial on a rather large case in which Thomas was the court reporter. I was only 18 years old and extremely nervous as I had to perform live editing in front of the entire courtroom. As I was going over the redactions during a recess, Thomas was, of course, right there giving me some pointers. He succeeded in comforting me in what- for me- was a tense situation and then he sarcastically said to me. "Don't worry, you'll do fine. The worst that could happen is a mistrial." I, of course, asked "what is a mistrial?"

I will miss you Thomas. Thank you for being so thoughtful and witty. You will always be in my thoughts. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones.

Helen Anderson

April 25, 2013

Thomas helped me get my first job. He could really make you laugh. He will truly be missed by all of his contemporaries

Lance Steinbeisser

April 25, 2013

I actually witness Thomas walk into his last depo. His attorneys asked me if I was there for his depo and I said no -- and in walked Thomas. His depo actually occupied the conference room I was supposed to be in, and was going to run longer than expected (imagine that}, so I had to go into my witness/doctor's office to take my depo. Only met Thomas once but heard many good things about him -- and I am always impressed when I meet someone who is into my profession as much as he was. My condolences to his partner, family and friends...

Karon Strickland

April 25, 2013

Thomas was my first cousin and my best friend growing up. We loved to go to the lake house and stay weeks at a time. We would ski most of the time. He was funny and we would get in trouble sometimes, but mama dot would always catch us and sometimes we would get a spanking. I always told Thomas it was his fault! I loved Thomas with all my heart. And will miss talking to him and sending him funny messages.RIP Thomas!

Cindy Griffis

April 25, 2013

I would not be where I am in my court reporting career if Thomas would not have recommended me for his replacement in his position as a Deputy Official in Jacksonville, Florida. He was one of the first people I would look for when attending any seminars or conventions, during the day, and spending time with him in the evenings. I have always been in awe of his outstanding abilities in his career, and his love for life and love of friends. I will truly miss him and he will stay in my thoughts forever.
Cindy Griffis, Jacksonville, FL

Bobbie Umstead

April 25, 2013

Thomas was a true friend of mine while attending court reporting school at the Stenotype Institute of Jacksonville Beach back in the late '70s. He was always happy and fun to be around both at school and not at school while we were partying. Years later, I always looked forward to seeing him at all the conventions. He acted as though we saw each other daily just like we did years ago. I will always miss seeing you and your happy face at every upcoming convention to come.

Sandi Estevez

April 25, 2013

Thomas was one of the first reporters to welcome me with open arms when I joined FCRA. He was also on the nominating committee when I first joined the Board and used to tell me every time I saw him, You're going to be a great president one day soon. I loved his enthusiasm for the profession and the love and support he showed his colleagues.

Thomas, you will be missed. Thanks so much for all the laughs and the support you gave me the last five years.

Susie Salenger Smith

April 25, 2013

Thomas will be greatly missed by all. Once you became his friend, which was effortless, you were his friend forever. The conventions will not be the same without him. His passing is a great loss to everyone, especially the court reporting community. He was wonderfully funny and just a joy to be around all the time. Heaven is lucky to have him...

Sheree Cater

April 25, 2013

I will forever cherish fond memories of Thomas. I always looked forward to attending court reporting events when I knew he would be there. I fell in love with his personality the moment we met. To say he had an outgoing and contagious personality would be an understatement. I loved watching him show off his talent at the piano. Oh, the faces he would make and the sense of bashfulness, but he would eat up the attention. I forgive you, Thomas, for not taking me for a ride in that convertible!
Sending comfort to his loved ones.
Sheree Cater

Sheree Cater

April 25, 2013

I will forever cherish fond memories of Thomas. I always looked forward to attending court reporting events when I knew he would be there. I fell in love with his personality the moment we met. To say he had an outgoing and contagious personality would be an understatement. I loved watching him show off his talent at the piano. Oh, the faces he would make and the sense of bashfulness, but he would eat up the attention. I forgive you, Thomas, for not taking me for a ride in that convertible! Sending comfort to his loved ones.
Sheree Cater

Marie Splane

April 24, 2013

Thomas was very talented, a great reporter and a great friend. I will never forget the twinkle he always had in his eye. I love you, Thomas. Rest in peace. "In my Father's house are many rooms...I am going there to prepare a place for you...I will come back and take you with me that you also may be where I am..." John 14

Harriet Hall

April 24, 2013

My condolences to James and the immediate family. I am Thomas's cousin. We had alot of fun together as children. We all went our separate ways as adults. I have thought of Thomas often throughout the years. He was truly a gentle spirit. I will never forget the fun we had as children. RIP my sweet cousin.

Paulita Kundid

April 23, 2013

Thomas had a hysterical sense of humor delivered in a southern charming way. He was kind...thoughtful...loving and will be greatly missed both
personally and professionally.

Paula Laws

April 23, 2013

JT & Family,
Thomas is gone too soon. He was very special to me and to so many. He was a friend. His laugh will be missed. He was such a talented court reporter and person. RIP, Thomas.

Francine Thurman

April 23, 2013

Thomas, first you were an acquaintance, then my friend, then my mentor and then my best friend/brother/confidante. We had many wonderful conversations and shared many tears and much laughter. I only hope that I was able to bring you some measure of comfort throughout your illness. It's never easy to lose a loved one, and to lose someone as young as you with such a zest for life is a real tragedy for those of us who knew you.

I am quite sure you are having a ball with your grandmother, my grandmother and my mother right now. All of you were real characters! I know at nighttime, when I look toward heaven, the stars will be shining much brighter because you are there, playing the piano (not a harp).

I love you. Until we meet again, my dear, dear friend...

Candy Thurman

April 22, 2013

This one's for you Thomas, for all the good times we shared as you opened your heart and home to me. For your love and compassion given freely to all those around you, and all the music we made together with Clarabelle. I was the one who couldn't carry a tune but felt your music and the love in your heart. I will always miss you, but you remain in my heart forever.

My deepest sympathy goes out to Jimmy who is left behind to care for all your family. To Fran who was always there for you and to all of those who like me will miss the music you made in our hearts.

Kimberly Fontalvo

April 22, 2013

Thomas and I became friends so quickly. He had a perspective that was uniquely his own -- and he never held back. He really made me laugh.

I will miss you, Miss Daisy. Until we meet again...

Randi Garcia

April 22, 2013

Thomas was an asset to the court reporting profession, and I was lucky to have known him. He will truly be missed by everyone.

Gayl Hardeman

April 22, 2013

From Buddy, Ocala

Gayl Hardeman

April 22, 2013

Thomas, I miss you and the love and light you showered on us all. I am so sorry that disease took you and your talents from us. Please give Mike a hug for me when you see him. We both appreciated your friendship and joie de vive. You leave us enriched by knowing you. God bless you, Thomas.

Cindi Hartman

April 22, 2013

Tom and I were online acquaintances who later became friends at conventions and workshops. He will be missed.

Betty Sue Vincent

April 22, 2013

Thomas will be missed by everyone who knew him. He worked hard and loved to have a good time. He will be missed by the court reporting world that he was such a huge part of. Sending love and condolences to his family and his friends.
Betty Sue Vincent

Linda Fifield

April 22, 2013

Thomas touched so many lives in the court reporting community. Having met Thomas over 25 years ago, he was always the consummate Southern gentleman with such a welcoming warm heart. He will surely be missed.

Lori Bundy

April 22, 2013

Thomas always brought a smile to everyone's face. He was an awesome reporter, mentor, and friend. We will never be able to replace him. He will be missed greatly.

Becky Aloi

April 22, 2013

You meet some people in your life and they quickly go away, others come into your life, leave footprints on your heart and you are never ever the same....Thomas you left footprints on my heart......you have been a fantastic neighbor for over 20 years....we will miss you very much....my heartfelt sympathy to JT.....Becky,Frank and Kristin Aoi

Renee Todd

April 22, 2013

My heart is very sad today to learn of Thomas passing! He was a friend to everyone. He helped so many times with Realtime clients when I owned capital reporting. Many memories will be cherished from the Bass days to all the seminars we enjoyed together. He was a true angel and will be missed sorely!!

Tina Kautter

April 21, 2013

I was so sad to learn about our good friend Thomas. He was always the life of the party and the room lit up when he walked in to it. Thomas never met a person he didn't like and when it comes to being kind and following the golden rule, Thomas had a huge heart. He left a bright star for us to steer by.

Mara ALZAMORA

April 21, 2013

My fine southern gentleman how I will miss your wit and laugh, but I'll just close my eyes and relive one of those moments. You always made me smile Sir Thomas and I will always keep you close to my heart. I will see you again :-)

Marian Booth

April 21, 2013

I will miss my buddy, Thomas, so much. He and JT have been great neighbors and friends to me for the past 26 years. My heartfelt condolences to JT. Reading Thomas's obituary brought many smiles to my face even during this time of sorrow. I remember the day the piano arrived and was privileged, along with my mother, to sit and listen many times to him play so beautifully. I laughed when I read his favorite lines from the old movies. I can hear him reciting them. There are many fond memories I have of Thomas and I will keep them all close to my heart; and my thoughts, prayers and love are with you, JT. Peace be with you.

Tammy Jenkins

April 21, 2013

On This Day: I looked for you on this day, and you weren't there. I waited for that smile, the twinkle in your eye on this day. I waited for you to take my hand, and give me that gentle kiss of "hello my friend" on this day. I knew next that additional compliment of how nice my "blossoms" were looking on this day. Yet, you were only there in spirit on this day.

Every future asbestos trial I take, I will remember your kindness, and those CRR whispers: "Get it out of your head."

Condolences to Thomas' entire family and friends. The court reporting community has lost another marvel - the world, another good soul.

Phil Ryan

April 21, 2013

There are people you meet in life that you just take to instantly. Thomas was such a man. He had the ability of quick wit kind heart and love able roguishness that was hard to ignore. His "stories" were always memorable. Especially when they began with "girrrrrrl..." I'm sorry I was too British and didn't have the nerve to ask how serious this was. And because of this I didn't get to say farewell. But since I know he's reading these with his reading glasses perched on the end of his nose I thank you for being such a warm heart and a true friend

Robyn Maxwell

April 21, 2013

Thomas was such a fabulous friend and reporter. To know him was truly an uplifting experience. He always had something salty to say that would make you laugh and brighten your day. He will be truly missed. Thank you, Thomas, for brightening all of our lives with your wisdom and southern charm.

Jeanne Rizzuto Werner

April 21, 2013

I am terribly saddened to hear of the passing of Thomas. I met him in the '80s and instantly fell in love with this beautiful, charming and extremely intelligent human being. How could you not love Thomas? He will be sorely missed by many. I feel very blessed to have known him. My deepest condolences. Jeanne Rizzuto Werner

Leslie Brewer

April 21, 2013

I will always cherish the times that we had our wonderful "extended family" get-togethers, mostly in New York City around the holidays. Thomas had a true ability to make people smile and bring laughter and happiness to their lives. My most sincere condolences to Jimmy, Fran, and Thomas' Aunt Joyce.

Angela Wierzbicki

April 21, 2013

I can't believe I won't see your smiling face again. My heart is broken but you suffer no more. I will see you again one day my friend! I love you always:)!!

Jackie Timmons

April 21, 2013

My deepest condolences to James and to all of his family and friends. Thomas was truly very special. I was lucky to have called him my friend. Heaven truly did gain another Angel. I am sure he is playing music in Heaven as we speak. He will be greatly missed.

Donna Kanabay

April 21, 2013

I too found and reread Thomas's first President's Message when I learned of his passing. He was an incredible friend, an amazing court reporter, and just one of my favorite people in the world. Thank you for sharing this amazing man with the world.

Rhonda Hall-Breuwet

April 21, 2013

There aren't enough words to express what I've been feeling these past few days. Looking for Thomas was one of the first things I would always do when attending a court reporting convention, and I can't imagine how empty it will feel without his presence there.

Two years ago, I decided to do the realtime speed competition at the FCRA convention, which was dictated by Thomas. His choice of dictation included some pretty though chemical words, which he gave us beforehand so we could make up brief forms. But it was the "simple" word that he didn't give that wasn't in my dictionary that messed me up every time it was dictated. The word? Orchid. Every time I saw him after that test, Thomas joked with me about orchids. When I learned of his passing, my immediate thought was, I must send orchids. But seeing what his wishes are, I will abide by those.

So to you, Thomas, I send virtual orchids, and if there are any in Heaven, I know you will think about me and laugh every time you see one. You have brought me so much joy in the time I have known you, and I will miss you terribly and think of you often. Rest in peace, pain-free, my dear friend. XOXO

Nancy Gilbert

April 21, 2013

Thomas was instantly my friend from when I first met him. I was in awe of his court reporting talent. I spoke to him after he took his last deposition and he was so happy to still be working. He loved this profession of court reporting. He was always there helping newer reporters with the technical aspects of reporting but especially sharing his funny, funny stories of his experiences while reporting.

His closest circle of friends were so lucky to have such a warm, funny, bigger-than-life person in their lives. I was not part of that immediate circle of friends but am so lucky to count myself as one of his friends.

Thomas, I love you and miss you. Rest in peace.

April 20, 2013

It is with sadness that I learned of Thomas' passing. He was very helpful to me in my role as a teacher at Atlantic Tech and very willing to help the students. He was a great mentor. His passing is a great loss.

Helen Chase

April 19, 2013

I was saddened to hear of Thomas' passing. He was a kind man and will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

April 18, 2013

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