Kenard F. "Butch" Ayles Jr.

1941 - 2023

Kenard F. "Butch" Ayles Jr. obituary, 1941-2023, Pembroke, NH

Kenard F. "Butch" Ayles Jr.

1941 - 2023

BORN

1941

DIED

2023

Kenard Ayles Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 26, 2023.
Kenard F. "Butch" Ayles, Jr., 81, of Pembroke, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, February 23, 2023 at his residence.

Born on March 3, 1941 in Pittsfield, he was the son of the late Kenard F. Ayles, Sr. and Kathryn (Felix) Ayles.

Butch earned his nickname from a young age and it stuck with him throughout his life. He was a graduate of Pittsfield High School and in 1962 married the love of his life, Marie (Bergevin) Ayles with whom he lovingly shared the next 61 years.

Together, they shared a love for the game of golf, raising a family, and later wintering in Aruba and Florida. He proudly served his country in the National Guard and went on to work as a Sales Representative for over 30 years with Lorillard Corp. until his retirement. Even in retirement, Butch never slowed down. He filled his time helping others by mowing lawns, taking part in the Old Home Day events, playing cribbage, and even more golfing as a longtime member of Plausawa Valley Country Club (now Pembroke Pines), but his greatest joy was spending time with his family.

With his quick wit and keen sense of humor he made friends wherever he went. All who were blessed to know him were always treated with a joke and a smile.

He was a 53 year member (Master Mason) of the Corinthian Lodge #82 in Pittsfield.

Butch was raised Baptist but as a 35th wedding anniversary gift to Marie, he decided to join her in the Catholic Faith.

He was a proud resident of Pembroke for over 50 years, serving on the Zoning Board and Building Committee for the Safety Center, as well as the self-proclaimed "Mayor". He also served on the Concord Crimeline.

Besides his parents, he was predeceased by a nephew, Dale Bishop.

In addition to his wife Marie, Butch is survived by two daughters, Debra Marie Ayles Jodoin and her husband David Marc Jodoin of Concord and Donna Baker and her husband Tim of Chichester; his sister, Virginia Merrill of Loudon; grandchildren, Kyle Scott Jodoin of Concord and Tyler Aaron Jodoin currently serving in the US Navy in Italy, and Meghan Rose Baker of Los Angeles, CA; Two nephews, Douglas and Dana Bishop; Brother and Sister-in-law Victor and Anita Bergevin of Napa, CA, and many cousins.

Calling Hours will be held on Friday, March 3rd from 4 to 6 P.M. in The Roan Family Funeral Home, 167 Main Street, Pembroke. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, March 4th at 1PM in The Immaculate Heart of Mary Church on Loudon Road in Concord. Interment will be held at a later date at St. John the Baptist Cemetery in Allenstown. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Alzheimer's Association or to the American Heart Association. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com


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March 15, 2023

Lorraine Scherer posted to the memorial.

March 8, 2023

Brian and Cheryl Tufts posted to the memorial.

March 4, 2023

Donna Bishop Morse posted to the memorial.

Lorraine Scherer

March 15, 2023

Was so sorry to hear Burtch. He was a good neighbor when we lived in Deerpath Lane. I just came across this from Ginny McGarr.
I lost Bob, 5 years ago, after our 52 Anniversary. It will be heard and he will always be with you.
I had a tumor in my head and had Radiation, so far so good. I'm In Vermont near Jason.
Take care ,GOD BLESS With Sympathy Lorraine Scherer From Vermont

Brian and Cheryl Tufts

March 8, 2023

Marie and Family,
Our deepest sympathy for your lose of Butch. He always had a smile and a funny remark that made everyone´s day better.

Brian and Cheryl Tufts

Donna Bishop Morse

March 4, 2023

Marie and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please extend my condolences to Ginny, Doug and Dana.

Debbie and Rod Ross

March 4, 2023

Rod and I are deeply sorry to hear this sad news. Ken had such a kind, gentle and easy going way about him. Our meeting in The Villages, FL was for a very short time, but Butch made a memorable impression. Marie, please know our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you as you deal with this terrible loss.

George Foskett

March 2, 2023

Marie, so sorry to hear of Butch's passing. It's your old neighbor George from Girard Avenue. Fondly remember the good times we had together at your house and at the Plausawa Country Club. My condolences to you and the family.

Glenn Northrup

March 2, 2023

I remember Butch from my time as a Pembroke Police Officer. He was a wonderful member of the community. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Wayne Brown

March 1, 2023

Prayers for the Ayles family during this difficult time.
I had the pleasure of being a competitor and friend of Butch during our tobacco days. Butch always greeted me with a big smile and a hearty "hi Wayne"´ whenever we ran into one another. Many good memories of a great guy. Rest in Peace my friend.

Bill and Brenda Rossignol

February 28, 2023

Dear Marie and Family,
Sending all of you our heartfelt sympathies and prayers in the loss of Ken. You had so many wonderful years together, and he continues to live on in your hearts.
Bill and Brenda Rossignol

Lisa & Tom Pelletier

February 28, 2023

Deb, so sorry for your families loss. I remember him fondly from his visits to you at work to him marrying Tom and I.
Condolences from the both of us

Gretchen lance

February 28, 2023

Marie , remembering you and your family in love and prayer at this very difficult time.
Gretchen lance

Sheila & Warren Rich

February 27, 2023

It was always a great pleasure to us when Kenny would drive by the house and see us in the yard, he would pull in and ask us why we were working so hard doing yard work. Always with a big laugh. We will miss those visits. Blessings to Marie.

Sandra Davis

February 27, 2023

Marie,I was so shocked to read this and please know that I´m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Ken was a classmate from grade one all through to when we all graduated,a wonderful friend always and a light that will always shine in our memories and in our hearts. R.I.P dear friend.

Minni Plante

February 27, 2023

Marie, So sorry for your loss. Prayers and condolences to you and your family.

Kris & Dave MacNeil, Concord, NH

February 26, 2023

Marie and family--so, so sorry for your loss! Spent so many years with Butch--and Marie-- (at our former business), it seemed as though he was family. Thank you all for sharing him with us all! What a loss for everyone . . .

Mr. & Mrs. George W McGarr

February 26, 2023

Marie , Donna & Debra , George & I want to let you know we are very sad to hear of Butch´s passing! He was such a happy guy & a wonderful social neighbor. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all , in this difficult time.

George & Cynthia Drosos

February 26, 2023

Marie and family---Very sorry for your loss.We send our thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Diane "Coll" Jenkins

February 26, 2023

My condolences Marie in the loss of your loved one.
May your friends and family help ease the sorrow in your heart.

Debbie Reeves

February 26, 2023

Marie and Family my deepest sympanthy - my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Craig and Wendy Keeler

February 26, 2023

To Marie and family,
We were saddened to hear about the passing of Butch. Many great memories from our PVCC days and lots of great stories when we´d get off our mowers!
Regretfully we won´t be able to attend the services as we are wintering in N Ft Myers, Florida, but please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Robert D Machain

February 26, 2023

Mr. Ayles Jr. Thank you for your service RDM Windham

Neal & Gail Scott

February 26, 2023

To Marie, Debbie, Donna and the entire Ayles family. Ken "Butch" was a true family man who put his family first and all else 2nd. He enjoyed life to its fullest, he shared his time, talents and enthusiasm with community and all else who needed his skills and his unselfish willingness to help.
I can say that I knew Ken since the early 70´s when we both worked in the field of "sales". Although we were employed by different companies we were friends from day one!
Ken had a hearty "hello" and a constant smile for all who came in contact with him... his laughter will continue for all of us. If you can stop and think of this right now - you will certainly smile just thinking of him...
May all the wonderful memories of Ken from the past be a source of peace, healing and comfort to all of you now during this difficult time.

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