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William (BJ) Bayer Obituary
William (BJ) James Bayer passed away unexpectedly on September 18, 2023.
Born in Saratoga Springs on April 27, 1962, to William C. Bayer and Nancy L. (Crooks) Male.
BJ spent his younger years in Ballston Lake before moving to Saratoga Springs where he worked evenings along side his father at the Saratoga Harness Track.
BJ struggled with mental health issues for many years and his family prays he is finally at peace.
Predeceased by his parents; William Bayer and Nancy Male, one sibling John Harris and a niece April Bayer.
BJ leaves behind; stepmother Marge Bayer of Ballston Spa, sisters, Kathy Gochenour (Chuck) of Galway NY, Colleen Norris (George) of Winter Park Fl, and Holly Bayer (Jim) of Cohoes NY.
Brothers; Thomas Bayer (Lynda) of Ghent NY and Daniel Harris (Jennifer) of Livingston Manor NY.
Nieces; Casey Nichols, Alexandra Goebel, Kerry Stallmer, and Christina Goebel, Karli Bayer
Nephews; Bradford Bayer and Jonn Gochenour
Many great nieces, nephews, and cousins.
At the family's request, memorial services will be
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Colleen Norris
December 18, 2024
Love you BJ, I wish we had more time.
Lisa Joy Staulters
September 18, 2024
Thinking of you my cousin that your enjoying yourself in heaven. Give Aunt Nancy a big birthday hug for me. I have a frenchie now, her name is Willow and was born on aunt Nancy´s birthday. We will forever be connected. Family is forever. I will see you again my dear cousin.
Colleen Norris
September 17, 2024
Thinking of you BJ, I know you are safe with mom and dad. Wish mom a happy birthday.
Heidi Curtis
September 21, 2023
Loving thoughts of you and your family. Rest well, BJ.
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Holly Bayer
September 21, 2023
Rest In Peace big brother
Gail Rielly
September 21, 2023
My deepest condolences. I remember BJ with fondness. I’m praying for him and for the family. God bless you all .
Lisa Joy Staulters
September 21, 2023
Loving thoughts and prayers for the family. You will be missed my dear cousin.
Colleen Norris
September 21, 2023
I will miss our phone calls together BJ. You are in good hands now.
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