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Brian and Raphael Saechao Obituary
Brian was born on December 29, 1981, in San Jose, California, raised in Lodi, and began living his dream as a family man making his home in Sacramento with his wife and son, Raphael. He was first and foremost a loving husband and father, a dedicated Mien Community Leader, and a professional social worker committed to serving and advocating for children and their families' rights and livelihoods.
Raphael was born on July 30, 2010, in Sacramento, California, and lived his entire vibrant life in Sacramento. He was the shining light of his parents' lives and gave them their purpose – to build a loving and strong family unit, to share their love and care with the community, and to cherish life's blessings. Raphael taught those around him about life in the way only a child so elegantly and intelligently could.
Brian and Raphael were and are inseparable – in life and passing. Since Raphael entered Brian's life, they both grew into their best selves and spirits.
Brian and Raphael are both survived by Fam Seng Chao (Brian's wife and mother of Raphael) and their unborn son, of Sacramento; Brian's father and mother, Mr. Fouta Yein Chao and Ms. Gain Kauy Saechao, of Lodi; Brian's siblings, May Saechao Matsui, Naita Saechao Chialvo, and David Tha Chao; Brian's paternal grandmother, Nai Sio Saechao, Lodi; Brian's maternal grandparents, Mr. Fou Kouy Saechao and Mrs. Koy Choy Saechin, San Jose; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, friends and extended family here in the United States, Thailand and Laos.
Viewing Services will be held between 9 a.m. – 12 p.m., Wednesday, October 17, at the Lodi Funeral home. A Memorial to celebrate Brian and Raphael's lives will be held between 12:30 p.m. – 1:45 p.m. at the Lodi Funeral Home. Burial will be in the Lodi Memorial Park & Cemetery at 2:30 p.m.
Friends may call the Lodi Funeral Home for more details about the Viewing and Memorial: 725 South Fairmont Avenue, Lodi, CA. 209-369-3564
The interment location is at the Lodi Memorial Park & Cemetery – 5750 East Pine Street, Lodi, CA.
Information regarding donations to the Brian and Raphael Memorial Fund is forthcoming and will be provided at the Wednesday services.
Arrangements under the direction of Lodi Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian and Raphael Saechao
Fahm Saeyang
October 20, 2012
My deepest condolences to Fam and all the family. Brian was always a positive person and ongoing voice for the Mien community. He will be greatly missed.
Zareena Anwar
October 18, 2012
I worked with Brian for a year or two. He was a great guy! I am still shocked and saddened by this news. May he and his beautiful son rest in peace. Ameen
Belinda May Saechao
October 18, 2012
With love and bundles of happiness, rest in my peace Brian and Raphael. You two will forever be embedded in my memories. -hugs&kisses-
Tammy Nava (Frazelle)
October 18, 2012
My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathies go out to Fam and all the family. I cannot imagine your pain. Trying to make sense of such a tragedy is seemingly impossible. Try to take comfort knowing that Brian & Raphael are together and will be watching over you and the baby. God Bless you ALL.
Sheilah Paschall
October 17, 2012
Fam, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. You are an amazing person which I am sure reflected in your role as a mother and wife. The loss you have endured is so profound. Just remember you are in the thoughts of so many as will Rapheal and Brain. Sheilah
jeannine lopez
October 17, 2012
Fam,
i am so sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you and Brian's family. nothing anyone says can really make it any better, but remember you are loved and you will survive this.
Lauren Harris
October 17, 2012
I met Brian when he participated in a job interview. What struck me in those few minutes was his passion for life, for family and for social work. I also remember how his face lit up when he spoke of his son. I am truly saddened at his and his son's death. My deepest condolences to his family. May their spirits find peace.
Lupe c.
October 17, 2012
Fam and Saechao family. I'm truly sorry for your loss. Brian was genuinely one of a kind person whose presence made the world a better place. He always raved about you and Raphael. I'm blessed to have known him. I'm amazed at the strength you have shown in these difficult moments. I know Brian and Raphael are watching over you as you continue your journey.
Jackie Voyles
October 17, 2012
Fam and Saechao Family:
No words could express out deeply sorry I am for your loss:
I never had the chance to meet Brian but I have work with his (wife) Fam and if he was anything like she is the WORLD has lost a GREAT man:
May God hold you in his arms tight and I am sure to all who knew you BOTH: you will be dearly missed.
God Speed!!! RIP
Co-Worker and Friend
Lavinia De Lumen
October 17, 2012
Brian and Raphael, may the light guide you to the path with our Creator..Rest in Peace...
My Co worker Fam, my prayers and sincere Condolences...
Joyce Burris
October 17, 2012
Words are totally inadequate to express the grief at the news of the deaths of Brian and Raphael. My heart goes out to Fam and the families who have to face the future without these two beautiful people. Warmest regards to you in this very tender time.
Sincerely,
Joyce Burris
(a professor in social work at CSUS)
Koueichiane & Famching Saechao
October 17, 2012
Dear Saeachao's family,
We're so sorry for your loss. We know that grief can be so difficult, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. Our condolences and prayers go out to the Saechao's family. RIP Brian and Raphael.
Janine Garrett
October 17, 2012
To the Saechao family,
Positive thoughts and prayers.
October 17, 2012
We truly lost a great man. I could count on Brian to do the right thing, even when nobody was looking. His passion for people is something that really stood out and big as his smile. I pray that his legacy is passed on to his unborn child as well. RIP my friend.
J. Delgado
October 17, 2012
Saechao Family,
Prayers and heartfelt condolences to you at this time. This is tragic, I didn't know Brian well but I did know he was a sweet and generous person. Brian and Raphael will never be forgotten.
The Murtha Family
October 16, 2012
Saechao Family,
Our prayers and condolences to you.
stephanie clabbatz
October 16, 2012
RIP!!!!!
Moo Phan
October 16, 2012
RIP Brian and Raphael...
G Her
October 16, 2012
I didn't know them however my heart goes out the the surviving family. Sending love and hugs from a stranger.
Donna Fairchild
October 16, 2012
My heartfelt sympathies on the passing of Brian Tha Saechao and little Raphael Thon Saechao.
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