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1935
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2023
James Duffy Obituary
Above all, James loved his family and adored his loving wife of 68 years, Yvonne. He enjoyed his yard, projects around the home, and traveling with Yvonne. His family describes James as the most selfless giving individual they knew.
A viewing will be held at Cherokee Memorial Monday, August 28th from 4 to 7 PM with a Rosary being said at 6:00 PM. A mass will be held at St. Anne Catholic Church in Lodi on Tuesday, August 29th at 10:00 AM.
James is preceded in death by his sons, Michael and Thomas, siblings Kathleen, Pat, John, and Frank. He is survived by his wife, Yvonne, his sisters, Mary Lou, Evelyn, and Margie, and brother Pete, his loving children John and Sharon, and the cherished grandfather of Joseph, Daniel, Elizabeth, Kevin, Brian, Michael, John, and Paul and beloved great grandfather of Grace, Owen, Everett, and Avery.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Duffy
Kathleen Jones
August 18, 2025
We think of you often, remembering the good times we all had. Keeping in touch with Yvonne. Know that we all miss you. Don & Kathy
Kathleen Jones
December 25, 2024
Thinking of you today alway such a wonderful friend, you snd Yvonne. You snd your beautiful since of humor and beautiful smile are truly missed. Love Don & Kathy
Lewis (Dan) Mayo
December 18, 2024
Jim was a fellow Brother in the Knights of Columbus (St Anne's). We miss him but know he is home with the LORD. Rest in Peace Jim.
Chuck Nelson
September 7, 2023
I had the honor of being Jim's barber for decades. I always enjoyed Jim's company. He laughed at my jokes, and gave me good life advice in return. I will miss him. Condolences to Yvonne and John, and the rest of his family. RIP my friend. See you on the other side.
Gordon Purcell
August 27, 2023
I have met you Mr James Duffy but only through the eyes and feelings of your son John (JD) Duffy. You have put together a great family here on earth hence John´s dedication to that unit with not only his siblings but his own sons and their families. May the Good Lord bless and keep your dear Matriarch Yvonne as your posterity rallies and support her journey. Thank you for a great legacy, God is pleased and may he bless and keep you all close.
Bill Mault
August 26, 2023
Safe travels Jim...
Our condolence to Yvonne and family
Bill Mault
L & L Travel
Lowell, Bruce and Brent Flemmer
August 25, 2023
We had the pleasure of meeting the Duffy´s when selling their home in Sun West and watched them enjoy building a new home in Bridgetown. Jim was in love with his new home backing up to the vineyard and the setting sun. I would stop by and visit at different times and he would take in in the back yard and show me his new swimming pool. What a beautiful setting. Most of all I remember Jim taking me in his office and turning on the stereo and playing that beautiful hymn "Amazing Grace", we both had tears in our eyes. Our condolences to Jim´s family, he was a wonderful individual. One more thing, Jim went out of his way so our family could enjoy good German Cheese Buttons. When he would visit his former workplace in Tulare, he would bring back a few buckets of dry curd cottage cheese for our family. That was so generous of him and Yvonne to do that and we will never forget his kindness. God bless and keep you in this time of sorrow, Lowell, Bruce and Brent Flemmer
LEWIS (DAN) MAYO
August 24, 2023
KNOWING JIM WAS A TRUE PLEASURE. WILL MISS SEEING HIM AT CHURCH AND EVENTS THRU THE KNIGHT OF COLUMBUS. MAY GOD BLESS HIM AND HIS LOVING FAMILY IN THEIR TIME OF SORROWING.
Stephen Bernstein
August 24, 2023
Although I never met James, his son John is a person who I respect and cherish his friendship. This is a testimonial to the greatness of his father, James. Rest in Peace!
AL Resnick
August 24, 2023
I´ve never met James , but I´ve known his son John for over 20 years. John is one of the kindest and most generous people I´ve ever known, and as they say... " From the tree comes the acorn." Rest in peace James, you were a good man.
Cindy Pitto
August 24, 2023
Yvonne i'm very sorry to hear about Jim, he was a very nice man to me and you loved him so much, I'm living in Palm Springs now for the last four years and I'm very sorry for not being better at corresponding with you , may he rest in peace
Dennis Calton
August 24, 2023
So very sad to hear of Jim´s passing, he was a very kind man. Yvonne, you and family are in our thoughts
Kathleen Jones
August 23, 2023
Kathleen Jones
August 23, 2023
Kathleen Jones
August 23, 2023
Always a big smile!
Kathleen Jones
August 23, 2023
Kathleen Jones
August 23, 2023
Received an unexpected call from our dear sweet friend/family Yvonne, letting us know that Jimmy passed away. Still grasping the news!
Jimmy was the best neighbor, friend, family anyone could ask for. Living next door yo each other in Lodi for years,we became best friends/family.
Jim and Yvonne attended all our gatherings and always looked after
our son when we were away, we were/are great friends.
Jim was a great conversationalist and always had something nice to say, usually followed by something funny. He and Yvonne were alway included wether it be a birthday, a neighborhood gathering, a wedding whatever the event he always showed up with a big smile and a hug. We will miss you but know that you have been called home to be with your children. Know that we´re sending you with a big hug and lots of love. To Yvonne and Family, know that we´re thinking of you and praying for you all. Love you so much. Don & Kathy
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