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Fred Soeder Obituary

Soeder, Fred A.

Fred Albert Soeder, 83, beloved husband, father, son, friend, & grandfather, of Pearl River, died on Sun., April 19, 2015 after a long illness. Mr. Soeder was born on March 6, 1932 in the Flatbush section of Brooklyn, NY to Rose (Koenig) and Frederick Soeder. He served in U.S. Army where he worked on security issues for army bases throughout the United States and Europe. Mr. Soeder married Margaret Schecker, in Brooklyn on October 2, 1954. Mr. Soeder's professional career was as a Marketing Representative in South Carolina with Westinghouse. When he returned to New York, he began a long as a Sales and Marketing Representative in the pharmaceutical and medical industries, working for companies such Meade Johnson, Medical Economics (Physician Desk Reference) and Dental Economics. Mr. Soeder was a long-time parishioner of Saint Aedan's Church in Pearl River, NY.

Fred is survived by his wife at home; children, Kenneth Soeder & his partner Anne Esposito of Haddam, CT, Richard Soeder & his wife Connie of Nyack, NY & his daughter Elaine Moore & her husband Terrance of Goshen, NY; his grandchildren, Kaitlin & Terrance Moore, of New York City, Kristen & Eric Soeder, of Nyack, and a daughter-in-law, Lisa Pavelock Soeder of Nantucket, MA; numerous nieces & nephews.

A Memorial Mass will be held at Saint Aedan's Church in Pearl River, NY on Friday, May 1, 2015 at 10 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 7th Floor, 322 Eight Avenue, New York, NY 10001. www.applebee-mcphillips.com

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Published by The Journal News on Apr. 23, 2015.

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Maryanne Moriarty-Franzel

April 24, 2015

What a great man. He always kept everyone laughing. He will be missed!!

Cathy Cicalo

April 23, 2015

Elaine and I were childhood friends and I remember so many happy times laughing with Mr. Soeder. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Soeder family. Cathy Cicalo

The Acerbo Family

April 23, 2015

My sentiments exactly. As my brother Chris stated above, growing up on Pearl Crest brings back memories of Mr. Soeder as a great Dad with a big heart, and a"great sense of humor." Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. God Bless.

Chris Acerbo

April 23, 2015

I grew up on Pearl Crest Court and Mr. Soeder was my neighbor. I'll always remember his great sense of humor. A very good family man.

My condolences to the Soeder family.

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