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Justin Acocella Obituary
Justin C. Acocella of Pelham Manor, passed away on August 13, 2011 after a courageous, lifelong battle with chronic lung disease.
Justin was born on November 19, 1981 in New Rochelle to Charles and Elisse (Barbieri) Acocella. He graduated from Pelham Memorial High School in 1999 and from Iona College in 2006 with a B.A. in Criminal Justice. He was active with lighting and sound design during and after high school, performing these duties at many school plays and community functions.
Justin was a volunteer EMT with Larchmont Volunteer Ambulance Corps (2005-present) and Mamaroneck Emergency Medical Service (2000-2005). He also worked as a bartender at Edo's Japanese Steakhouse in Pelham Manor for many years.
Justin enjoyed taking trips with his friends, working on his cars, and driving his WWII motorcycle with his friends riding in the sidecar. Justin was a carefree spirit, who was passionate in all that he did and touched the lives of all who knew him. His volunteerism was a reflection of his constant willingness to help others which he continued after his death. Portions of his lungs were donated for medical research to greater understand his disease.
Justin passed away while waiting for a lung transplant, but never let his debilitating condition keep him from enjoying life. His positive outlook was an inspiration to all. Those interested in becoming an organ donor at the time of their death are encouraged to register at http://optn.transplant.hrsa.gov/ (federal) or http://www.donatelife.com/ (state). It can also be done when obtaining/renewing a driver's license.
He is survived by his parents, Charles and Elisse, his brother David, sister Larissa and his loving dogs, Dean and Max.
Visiting hours will be Tuesday, 8/16 and Wednesday, 8/17 2-4 & 7-9 pm at Lloyd Maxcy & Sons Beauchamp Chapel Inc., 16 Shea Place, New Rochelle. A funeral Mass is scheduled for Thursday, 8/18 10 am at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, Pelham Manor N.Y. Internment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Valhalla N.Y. Sisto & Paino Inc. Directors
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Joe Milone
September 6, 2011
Charlie and Elisee, I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Lisa Abel
August 29, 2011
Justin is missed deeply by our family. His smile will never be forgotten, and his positive, giving nature is a moving example to us all. With his caring dedication, his time volunteering as an EMT changed lives of those he helped through his years of service. Justin's strength and faith, through all of the adversity that he faced, will be a source of courage for me throughout my life. I miss you, cousin, and my thoughts and prayers go out to Elise, Charlie, Larissa, and David. Love Always, Lisa
Anthony Fattizzi
August 26, 2011
Charlie, Elisse,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Justin. As I read about his life and dedication I couldn't but think about how wonderful and selfless a person he had been. I'm sure you are both very proud of all he accomplished. I will say a prayer for him and your family.
Anthony
karen ganis
August 22, 2011
Charlie and family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss - Matt and I were away or we would have been there...we hope that happy memories help you during this horrible time....our thoughts and prayers are with you all...Karen and Matt Ganis
Jo Ann Kelly
August 20, 2011
Charlie, I was heart broken to hear the sad news of your son Justin. No words can justify the loss of a child. I am deeply, deeply sorry and hope his memories will comfort you and your family.
James' Mother
August 20, 2011
Charles and Elisee,
I am deeply sorry to hear the sad news about Justin. My heart goes out to you for your precious loss. I too, know the unbearable pain of losing a son, who had a life long illness. There is a special bond between child and parent. Suddenly your lives have changed! But remembering the wonderful moments you shared with Justin and the blessings he brought to all can help to comfort you thru any difficult times. And most of all, may the God of Love, sustain you with His promise of HOPE for the future. When He will soon end all suffering on the earth. How do we know this is not just a dream or wishful thinking? Because what He says always comes to be.
Hope will not take away your pain, but it will enable you to endure.
"He will wipe out every tear from their eyes and DEATH will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. And the One seated on the throne said; "Look! I am making all things NEW.....these words are faithful and TRUE."
maria pace
August 19, 2011
I did not know Justin, but His life, rememberance and love from His Family and Friends, touched my heart. Rest in God's Arms forever Justin.
In Peace, Maria Pace
August 19, 2011
RIP our dear friend.... what a remarkable man you were. You will be forever missed. Condolences to his family and friends
Art Roosa
August 19, 2011
Justin, you'll always be remembered by everyone's lives that you've touched. Rest in peace, and as you would say, "Catch you on the flip side." God bless
daryl jackson
August 18, 2011
rest in peace justin, you will be greatly miss and it was an honor to know you and on many occassions just sit and listen to your knowledge of so many things. you will be greatly missed. my condolences goes out to the acocella family
John Pierce
August 18, 2011
I didn't know Justin well but I had the pleasure of meeting him years ago. When I first joined the world of emergency services, I can recount on numerous occasions Justin going out of his way to say hello; whether on a call or around town. As many of you know, being the new guy in a tightly knit "brotherhood" can be tough. Justin always made a point to make me feel welcomed, which is something that some are not always eager to do. Getting acknowledged by a more senior member may not seem like a big deal but for the new guy, its almost a sense of belonging. Because of him, I try to do the same with the new faces that come around. I will always remember Justin as that. His life was cut too short but his name will live on forever. Rest in peace, brother.
Wendy Korotkin (former LVAC member)
August 18, 2011
My deepest sympathy to your family. From what I know Justin was loved my many. He will not be forgotten.
christiana corrado
August 18, 2011
Rest In Peace Justin, You will not only be missed but remembered!!
Adam Piscitello
August 18, 2011
RIP Justin you would have loved the procession but im sure you were watching... I know that every 911 call we go to from now on you will be with us the entire way...
Arky Wharton
August 18, 2011
Rest In Peace Justin. My thoughts and prayers for your friends and family.
Charlie Moore
August 18, 2011
I only had the privilege of knowing Justin for a short time. But in that time I came to know Justin as a kind, giving person, always with a smile and great sense of humor! He touched so many lives in such a wonderful way. His light will shine on. Justin, you are missed! My deepest condolences to the Acocella family.
August 18, 2011
Dear David and Family,
I just read the sad news about your brother's passing in the obituary. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I know he is the person that so many are describing in this guestbook because he is your brother and his personality must be a match to yours. My prayers and thoughts to you.
Rest in peace!
Fondly,
Frank Nardone
Kelli Licata
August 18, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy is with your family and my thoughts and prayers too. I never knew Justin but knowing the family is like knowing this wonderful person.
Kim Zallo-Sullivan
August 17, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You made my years working at Baskin Robbins very memorable ones. You were always able to make me laugh with the unique things you'd say or do. Your smile was contagious. You will be missed.
Kristen Porcell
August 17, 2011
Justin was one of the nicest people I had the privilege of knowing, a heart of gold... my thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family....
Austin Acocella
August 17, 2011
Dear Charlie, Elisse, David & Larissa:
Justin has been in thoughts and prayers since I first learned he was in the hospital. Now I'm praying for all of you. Justin's passing is a great loss to the entire Acocella family. I'm sorry I can't make it to NY in time for the funeral. However, my family and I plan to be in Westchester over the weekend and I hope we can see you briefly some time on Sunday.
Eleanor Sherman-Nishanian
August 17, 2011
Justin was a friend of my son Grant. Please accept my sincere condolences. Justin lived his life with courage and determination to make each day count. I know that he will be missed by his friends, family and community.
Laurie Wheeler
August 17, 2011
I am so saddened to hear of your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Julie (Nardone) Fisher
August 17, 2011
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Justin. My deepest sympathy to your family at this difficult time.
Deborah DePalermo
August 17, 2011
Justin was just one of those beautiful souls who flew down to this earth and touched every life that he knew. I am so blessed and thankful to have known him and will remember him for the rest of my life. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this very difficult time.
Santos Vega
August 17, 2011
I am very sadden by this news. I remember him when he was young.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time in need.
Caren Marotta
August 17, 2011
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your son. May Justin rest in peace. My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time. The Marotta Family.
Jeanise Porter
August 17, 2011
I met Justin while working at Edo's. He was great to talk to and I really enjoyed our time together. He always had a Starbucks brownie waiting for me! What a wonderful man. He will be missed.
annette latorres
August 17, 2011
I want to express my sympathy for you and our family. Justin was such a friendly kind person.
Lauren Montano Ragusa
August 17, 2011
I met Justin when we were in 7th grade, and he was always a kind and giving person. I have a lot of happy memories of him throughout middle and high school that I will never forget. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies go out to the Acocella family.
Sarah Egan
August 17, 2011
A good life, lived by a great person -
August 17, 2011
May the warm memories of times shared lessen your sorrow
Brenda Laverty
Charlene Pollick
August 16, 2011
I wish I could have met this wonderful young man. A shining star to those who live with illness every day of their lives and yet, contribute so much to society. I heart goes out to the family. He is now in God's care.
James O'Toole
August 16, 2011
Sounds like a great young man did not know him but his obituary moved me. He has done so much in little time. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
August 16, 2011
I am so very sorry for your recent loss. How sad it is when we lose someone we love but especially someone so young who has yet to begin their life. It may bring some comfort to know the God of all comfort promises that we will see our loved ones again and they will live a life that is free of pain,sorrow, and especially never have to die. What a marvelous time that will be!
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