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Raymond Merrill Obituary
AGE: 54 • Irvington
1/16/60 - 1/4/15
Ray Merrill, a lifelong resident of Irvington, died suddenly on January 4, 2015. He was predeceased by his parents Charley and Joy Merrill, special cousins Eddie and Jay, and Tovair.
Ray was retired from General Motors, a loyal Jets and Mets fan, a proud teammate of the Refugees, and member of the Bogus brothers.
He is survived by his brothers and sisters, Chuck (Lina) Merrill, Kim (Mike) Pauly, Kit (Jeff) Duarte, Pat Weaver, and Jenn Dalzell. Nieces and nephews, Rachel and Charley Merrill, Nicole, Samantha, Kelly, and Scott Duarte, Ellie, Jessica, and Melissa Pauly, and Janice Dalzell. Aunt Connie Roy, special cousin, Darren Falasca, and his brother from another mother, Scott Falasca. Many cousins and friends.
Ray will be forever remembered for his big heart and robust personality.
His life will be celebrated at a mass at Sacred Heart Church, Dobbs Ferry on Monday, January 12, 2015 at 1:00 pm.
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Brenda DiBello (HART)
January 14, 2015
I am so lost for words , I haven't seen Ray for years as I moved out of state however when I came home back in Oct. Ray welcomed me back to the GRILL with open arms I will forever remember that night as he looked out for me as only RAY could do . SLEEP IN PEACE MY FRIEND TILL WE MEET AGAIN
Christine Brennan
January 12, 2015
Ray you will be sadly missed by so many. You were a good friend to myself and so many. Alot of great memories , irvington is sure going to miss you as I Will. May you RIP. ??
January 12, 2015
Prayers for a Irvington Classic !
Donna Bauman
January 12, 2015
Ray was a staple in Irvington. I loved seeing him every time I go back. He always went out of his way for our class at our reunion gatherings. Ray will be truly missed by so many. May he Rest in Peace and he will never be forgotten.
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Sue Riz
January 12, 2015
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort all of us tomorrow.
RIP Ray.
Shari sullivan
January 11, 2015
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Bill O'Gorman
January 11, 2015
Ray was a great guy to hang with. We played some football and talked about the Mets all the time. I know he will be missed and pass on my condolences to Chuck, Kim, Kit and the rest of his family. May everlasting life be your just reward in Heaven Ray.
Sincerely, Bill "OC" O'Gorman
Keith Boyer
January 11, 2015
Ray, I'll never forget that day in December 1980 you came up to me at the GM Plant telling me that John Lennon had been shot. Wasn't sure if you were joking. Always had good time with our cars and at the Grill. Rest in Peace.
Rob Paul
January 10, 2015
I'm proud to have called you my friend, I'll miss you Ray boy
edgar jay brennen 3rd
January 9, 2015
Ray you were good friend and i have fond memories of you and i hanging out at the Broadway grill.
Kelly Lamberti
January 9, 2015
Dear Kit and family, I'am soo very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the comfort of family friends and loved ones get you all through this very sad and difficult time!
Heyyy Rayyy! You were like a brother to me and all who knew you as well...rest in peace my dear brother and friend, you are loved and will be deeply missed forever!! FLY HIGH! MY DEAR BROTHER and FRIEND...FLY HIGH!!
joe masterson
January 9, 2015
Honest, Genuine,A True Irvington Icon.
Melissa DesMarais
January 9, 2015
Ray, you will be missed by so many people and your life J-E-T-S....just ended too soon.
Denise Denver
January 9, 2015
Ray, so sorry to hear of your passing. Never forget the days of you and Robin. May you rest in peace. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
Susan Shapiro
January 9, 2015
Sweet Ray Ray..loved you like a brother since we were kids. You kept us all together, you were the glue, you represented home to so many of us. You left us too soon. Oh, that smile, that laugh, that dry quick wit that never failed to make us laugh. I will never forget and I will miss you until we meet again. Peace for now.
Matthew Sullivan
January 9, 2015
"Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace."
Safe journey my friend, see you on the other side. Will miss you forever.
Parke Pearson
January 9, 2015
Ray was a Good Guy, Through and Through!
January 8, 2015
To Kit and her Family ..our heartfelt sympathy to you...it is so hard to lose a sibling..especially so young..our prayers are with all of you at this difficult time...may God give you all the strength to carry on...Love Cee and Joe Kelly
Georgia King Dodge
January 8, 2015
What a gift it was to know you. You had your own way of shining AND no one could play the jukebox like you. You are terribly missed and will not be forgotten. Love and Laughs Until We Meet Again
January 8, 2015
All my love ray you will be hugely missed.
Silky Sullivan
January 8, 2015
RIP Ray ..... Peace on !!!!!
January 8, 2015
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