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Thomas Hayes Obituary
May 17, 1956 - November 4, 2025
Thomas "Tom" passed away peacefully on November 4, surrounded by his loving family.
Born on May 17, 1956, in Lompoc, CA to Thomas and Jean Hayes, he grew up on the family ranch alongside his siblings. After losing his father suddenly at the age of 9, Tom and his siblings took on the responsibilities of the ranch - a challenge that shaped his lifelong dedication to hard work, family, and the land.
A graduate of Lompoc High School, Class of 1975, Tom began working during his late high school years for the Bixby Company/ Cojo Jalama as a day cowboy. He later partnered with his brother Denis in farming and ranching, a profession and passion that defined much of his life. He married his wife Lisa (Cromp) Hayes on January 14, 1984.
Tom was happiest on horseback, working cattle, or driving the hills checking cows. Later in life he started barbequing and took pride in cooking the meat to perfection. He enjoyed catering for many local events. He was a hard working man who loved his family deeply and nothing made him more proud than being a Papa.
Tom was a member of the California Cattlemen's Association, Lompoc Elks Lodge # 2274, and American Legion Post 211. He is survived by his devoted wife, Lisa Hayes; daughter Marissa Luna (Cameron); son Tommy Hayes (Oonagh) and his four grandchildren Reece and Harper Luna, and Olive and Evelyn Hayes. He is also survived by his sister Josie Manos, and brothers, Denis Hayes (Sheri), and Jerry Hayes, nephew Alex Fox, and brother and sister in law Gary and Susie Cromp, nieces Miranda and Ashley.
He is preceded in death by his parents Thomas Hayes and Jean Hayes Ohl; his stepfather Cecil Ohl; and his sister Mary Fox, as well as brother in law Mitch Manos.
Tom's strength, kindness, and unwavering work ethic will be remembered by all who knew him. His legacy lives on in the family he loved deeply and the land he worked with pride.
A private burial will be held for the family. A celebration of his life will take place at Lompoc Elks Lodge November 22, 2025 at 12:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Lompoc HIgh School Athletics Department or Lompoc FFA in Tom's memory.
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Erin Holt
November 24, 2025
Lisa, I am so very sorry to hear this news. May you and your Family be blessed by precious memories at this time of loss.
Jennifer Wilks
November 21, 2025
Lisa,
So sorry to hear of Tommys passing. Isaac and I were talking about the great memories he has of being in daycare with you. Your family truly is in our hearts.
Angela (Barnacastle Robinson) Ballard
November 19, 2025
I know your family. I also know what happens to family when one drops out of the normal "rhythm". May your family keep a healthy rhythm in the absence of Tommy. I will keep you all close in prayer. Angie Ballard (Barnacastle)
Karen Fox
November 16, 2025
Rest in peace and love sweet angel!
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Karen Williams~Poggione
November 16, 2025
Dearest Lisa ~ I am terribly sorry you lost Tommy. It feels like just yesterday you all lived next door on South "N" St. My parents sure loved having you guys for neighbors. Even after all the years that have passed, every time I´d run into Tommy he was always his friendly, sweet, kind self. His loss will be felt immensely by so many people in our community.
My warmest hugs are yours.
With Love & Respect,
Karen Williams-Poggione
Debbie Ellis
November 15, 2025
Lisa and family, so sorry to hear about Tommy. He was a true gentleman, always stopping to say hello and ask how you were. We had some fun times and I'm glad I got to know him. He's riding the Range with the rest of our cowboy friends that have gone on. Bless you all. Debbie
Rick Beltran
November 14, 2025
So sorry to Hayes family and friends for your loss. May The Good Lord comfort you all in your difficult times.
Craig Chambers
November 14, 2025
A hui hou Tommy! Rest in paradise, to his numerous friends and ohana, May every hug bring strength and comfort, Aloha
Elaine Costa
November 13, 2025
To the Hayes Familes Thinking of all of you at this time ... so sorry for your loss & everyone who got to know such a nice person Love Elaine & The Costa & Velasco Families
Greg & Theresa Garcia
November 13, 2025
Lisa, Marissa, Tommy & family & friend,
it is with great sorrow that I´m writing this, I am so very sorry for your loss, & for all who knew him,
Tommy´s was the One of the most kind, loving, honest, loving, loyal, intelligent, strong, interesting & proud men I ever knew, Tommy will truly be miss by all who knew & loved him, All the the Hayes family are good people, was proud to have known him,
Tom comes from a rare bread of men, who worked hard, loved truly & protected what he believed in, he stood proud for of his family & friends, He always had a kind smile, a strong hand shake and a positive outlook look about life.
He was a true Cowboy, Rancher, Farmer, husband, Father family & friend, he was one of the true Good Ol Boys, He will be miss by this whole Valley,He touched so many lives, All those Hayes´s are special people! you are all in our hearts & Prayers, may peace be with you all~Love you All~ your friend forever, Theresa
Gale & Deena Greer
November 12, 2025
We our so sorry for your loss. Love this gentleman since 75. He will be missed ...We send our condolences.
Julie Jones
November 12, 2025
Lisa, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. Tommy was a very special man and will be greatly missed by so many. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Julie Jones
Debra Tinney
November 12, 2025
Lisa ,I am so heartbroken to hear, but I can just imagine what a huge BBQ crew is now in Heaven .
Huge hugs and love and understanding. God bless you all.
Jack Woodfin
November 12, 2025
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Tommy was a great person and and great friend to many in the Lompoc Valley. He will be sorely missed by many! RIP old friend, paradise will be a better place with you in it!
Terri Ehret
November 11, 2025
So sorry for your loss. Tommy was such a great cousin. Always friendly and happy. He will be missed.
Cheri Smeal
November 11, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Randy and Tami Shepherd
November 11, 2025
Love you Tom Tom
Russell Samaniego
November 8, 2025
Tommy you will be missed dearly. You cannot be replaced.
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