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11 Entries
Elaine Costa
Earlier today
To the Hayes Familes Thinking of all of you at this time ... so sorry for your loss & everyone who got to know such a nice person Love Elaine & The Costa & Velasco Families
Greg & Theresa Garcia
Earlier today
Lisa, Marissa, Tommy & family & friend,
it is with great sorrow that I´m writing this, I am so very sorry for your loss, & for all who knew him,
Tommy´s was the One of the most kind, loving, honest, loving, loyal, intelligent, strong, interesting & proud men I ever knew, Tommy will truly be miss by all who knew & loved him, All the the Hayes family are good people, was proud to have known him,
Tom comes from a rare bread of men, who worked hard, loved truly & protected what he believed in, he stood proud for of his family & friends, He always had a kind smile, a strong hand shake and a positive outlook look about life.
He was a true Cowboy, Rancher, Farmer, husband, Father family & friend, he was one of the true Good Ol Boys, He will be miss by this whole Valley,He touched so many lives, All those Hayes´s are special people! you are all in our hearts & Prayers, may peace be with you all~Love you All~ your friend forever, Theresa
Gale & Deena Greer
Yesterday
We our so sorry for your loss. Love this gentleman since 75. He will be missed ...We send our condolences.
Julie Jones
Yesterday
Lisa, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. Tommy was a very special man and will be greatly missed by so many. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Julie Jones
Debra Tinney
Yesterday
Lisa ,I am so heartbroken to hear, but I can just imagine what a huge BBQ crew is now in Heaven .
Huge hugs and love and understanding. God bless you all.
Jack Woodfin
Yesterday
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Tommy was a great person and and great friend to many in the Lompoc Valley. He will be sorely missed by many! RIP old friend, paradise will be a better place with you in it!
Terri Ehret
November 11, 2025
So sorry for your loss. Tommy was such a great cousin. Always friendly and happy. He will be missed.
Cheri Smeal
November 11, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Randy and Tami Shepherd
November 11, 2025
Love you Tom Tom
Russell Samaniego
November 8, 2025
Tommy you will be missed dearly. You cannot be replaced.
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