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To the Hayes Familes Thinking of all of you at this time ... so sorry for your loss & everyone who got to know such a nice person Love Elaine & The Costa & Velasco Families
Elaine Costa
November 13, 2025 | Friend


Lompoc, California
May 17, 1956 – Nov 4, 2025
Thomas James Hayes, 69, of Lompoc passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on November 4, 2025. Born May 17, 1956 in Lompoc Ca., to Thomas and Jean Hayes. During high school he was employed by Cojo Jalama/Bixby Co as a day cowboy. Tommy was a graduate of Lompoc High School in 1975 and...
Read MoreTo the Hayes Familes Thinking of all of you at this time ... so sorry for your loss & everyone who got to know such a nice person Love Elaine & The Costa & Velasco Families
Elaine Costa
November 13, 2025 | Friend

Single Memorial Tree
G & SJ Martin
November 13, 2025 | Lompoc
Lisa, Marissa, Tommy & family & friend, it is with great sorrow that I´m writing this, I am so very sorry for your loss, & for all who knew him, Tommy´s was the One of the most kind, loving, honest, loving, loyal, intelligent, strong, interesting & proud men I ever knew, Tommy will truly be miss by all who knew & loved him, All the the Hayes family are good people, was proud to have known him, Tom comes from a rare bread of men, who worked hard, loved truly & protected what he believed in,...
Greg & Theresa Garcia
November 13, 2025 | Friend
We our so sorry for your loss. Love this gentleman since 75. He will be missed ...We send our condolences.
Gale & Deena Greer
November 12, 2025 | Friend
Lisa, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. Tommy was a very special man and will be greatly missed by so many. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Julie Jones
Julie Jones
November 12, 2025
Lisa ,I am so heartbroken to hear, but I can just imagine what a huge BBQ crew is now in Heaven . Huge hugs and love and understanding. God bless you all.
Debra Tinney
November 12, 2025 | Friend
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Tommy was a great person and and great friend to many in the Lompoc Valley. He will be sorely missed by many! RIP old friend, paradise will be a better place with you in it!
Jack Woodfin
November 12, 2025 | Friend
So sorry for your loss. Tommy was such a great cousin. Always friendly and happy. He will be missed.
Terri Ehret
November 11, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cheri Smeal
November 11, 2025