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Benjamin "Uncle Benny" Mathis Jr.

Benjamin "Uncle Benny" Mathis Jr. obituary, Louisville, KY

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Benjamin Mathis Obituary

Mathis, Benjamin "Uncle Benny" Jr.,

85, passed away Wednesday, May 13, 2015.

He was a retired employee at International Harvester, a member of Greater Salem Baptist Church and an Army veteran.

He is survived by his wife, Ida Mathis; host of children and grandchildren; sisters, Margaret Dillard and Willie Garrett.

Visitation Tuesday 11am - noon at his church, 1009 W. Chestnut St. With funeral services to follow at 12 noon. Burial: Green Meadows Cemetery. A.D. Porter & Sons, 1300 W. Chestnut St. in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Courier-Journal on May 17, 2015.

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Terri Jean Mathis Brown

June 30, 2025

Hi Daddy. Just a few more days and it will be your birthday. Today, Larry and I shared the passing of Patricia Outlaw, your great-nieces' mother (Michael's babies mama). I missed you as the Services were held. Somehow, I thought you would have loved to share time with them, as their great-uncle. FAMILY! Family is very important. I pray that You, Uncle Jacob, Aunt Dina and Michael are ALL hugging and so happy to see one another. I would like to hug each of you. Tell you all my stories. I miss talking to you, Daddy. I LOVE YOU! Today, there are things on my mind. Talking to you would help me straighten out this mess. TELL EVERYONE, I LOVE THEM! I will send a message on the 6th (Your birthday)

Terri Jean Brown

May 11, 2025

It's almost your Homegoing Anniversary. Your are thought about and mentioned in our conversations, all the time. YOU ARE NOT FORGOTTEN, THAT'S REAL! Daddy, WE miss you and I wish I was on my way to your house to gossip with you. HEAVEN IS THE PLACE WE ALL WANT TO GO, BUT IT'S HARD TO LET OUR LOVED ONES GO, BEFORE US. I LOVE YOU DADDY! TILL WE MEET, AGAIN! GIVE MY LOVE TO EVERYONE THAT'S THERE, IF POSSIBLE! KISSES

Phyllis Johnson

May 11, 2025

Hi Daddy. I was admiring the way you did the things you did. It must have been a great thing, because so many people were doing it and still are. I just wanted to say thank you for helping me have life. That must have been a great decision for you and Mother. I appreciate the happiness you gave your family and now I´m able to do the same. It´s been almost 10yrs since you left this earth. We have loss Linda and Phillip and so many others. Love you always

Terri Jean Brown

April 26, 2025

Hi Daddy. I'm missing you and remembering all of our times, we shared. Talking to you about anything was all I needed to survive in this crazy world, we live in. I am glad you at peace, resting in God's world. I still miss you! We are ALL trying to hang on, but it's hard. GOD GIVES US PEACE AND REST, WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! You had done enough! I miss you and I love you! One day, I will give you a big hug and kiss, Daddy! It will be great. GOD IS GOOD! I KNOW YOU ARE IN GOOD HANDS WITH OUR LORD! REST IN PEACE, DADDY!

Terri Jean Brown

May 13, 2024

Hi Daddy. On your homegoing anniversary, I am thinking of you. I miss talking with you. Thanks Daddy for taking care of your children. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! REST IN PEACE! SEE YOU WHEN I GET THERE.

Phyllis Johnson

May 12, 2024

Well another year has passed, I´m still missing you. Gloria sent a picture of you on text messages. I´m still holding on and preaching and praying. All your children are getting older. Phillip left the earth a couple of months ago, it seems like months. Most everyone is doing good. Well like I said I miss my Daddy.

Terri Jean Brown

May 11, 2020

Time keeps moving. We just keep going on, but I for one, miss you terribly. You know, when I was young, I thought "what a mean man?". When I grew up, I wouldn't have wanted you NO OTHER WAY! You raised us to be strong, descent and well-behaved adults. We know right-from wrong. And we live life like we have some sense. I LOVE YOU, DADDY! THANK YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF US! Not a lot of young men, would take that responsibility. BUT, YOU DID! WE LOVE YOU, DADDY! YOU ALWAYS HAD OUR RESPECT! I know You had mine. REST IN PEACE! ALL MY LOVE!

Terri Jean Brown

May 13, 2019

Hi Daddy. Today, is the day God called you home. It still hurts, but I know that it was God's decision. Everything belongs to Him. Daddy, you are missed each and every day. And, we love you so much. Keep your eyes on us and spread your wings around all of us. Smile! Until we meet, again! All my love!

Tammy Crenshaw

May 12, 2019

Hi Dad, miss and love you forever.

Terri Jean Brown

May 11, 2019

Hi Daddy. What a wonderful surprise, when I say this webpage. I can't explain how much I miss you. We talk about you all the time. You were a great Father! Nobody is perfect, but You raised us and you feed us and You were ALWAYS there. Even when we were grown and "old." You are our Hero! I Love You, Still! I will see you when I get to Heaven! I pray every day, God allows me into His Kingdom. We shall meet again. I miss you, Daddy, but I know you are happy and good on the Kingdom Of God! Rest In Peace! I Love You!!

Tammy Crenshaw

May 12, 2017

Hey daddy, here it is that time of the year, to lay flowers on you for your 2 years anniversary and the next day is mother's day, what a great time of the year. Today is a hard day for me, but I will get passed it. You made us tough. Love and miss you, tell mom I said happy mother's day and I miss her.

Much love
your daughter Tammy

Terri Brown

May 2, 2017

Hi Daddy. I miss talking with you. I've got so much to tell. (Snitch) smile. You were my sounding board. I could tell you everything and I did. The good, the bad, and the ugly! Right now, I got some of each. Smile! I'm still praying, I believe in God! I am going to trust in Him! All my love!! Catch you next time, Daddy. Peace

Tammy Crenshaw

April 26, 2017

Hey dad, here I am again, you know the story it is the same, missing you like crazy. Tell mom I said Hi and I miss her too. Love your daughter Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

April 13, 2017

Hey daddy, may 13th is coming around pretty fast. I miss you. Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

April 12, 2017

Hey dad, I know you are watching down on us, please continue, we can't do this by ourselves. I miss you so much. Early this morning when I looked down by my shoes your pillow was right there, and I said to myself, my dad has been here. I love you dad, and thanks for everything.

Tammy

Phyllis Johnson

April 4, 2017

Hi Daddy, everybody is doing good. Its our birthday week!!! We just wanted to say we love you and miss you. Bye for now but not forever

Tammy Crenshaw

April 4, 2017

Good morning dad, missing you. Tell everyone I said hello.

Tammy

Terri Brown

April 2, 2017

Hello Daddy. I am doing ok. Trying to stay positive and enjoy life. Everyday is a blessing from God, and I for one am happy to receive it. I am doing my best. I miss you, everyday! I know heaven is the place to be. One day, I hope to be there. Rest In Peace! All my love to you and everybody. We lost so many loved ones and family. I love them all! Until the next time. I LOVE YOU!

Tammy Crenshaw

March 28, 2017

Hey dad, I miss you.

Love Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

March 21, 2017

Hey dad, I left you a message but I see that it didn't get on here, it must have been too long lol. Well anyways I miss you so much, please tell mom that I love and miss her as well. I wish that you both was still down here with us, but I know that is just being selfish, but you know I am selfish when it came to you both. Tell Ms. Mattie I said hello and miss and love her too. Talk to you next time.

Tammy

Terri Brown

March 12, 2017

Hello Daddy. I am doing ok. Trying to stay positive and enjoy life. Everyday is a blessing from God, and I for one am happy to receive it. I am doing my best. I miss you, everyday! I know heaven is the place to be. One day, I hope to be there. Rest In Peace! All my love to you and everybody. We lost so many loved ones and family. I love them all! Until the next time. I LOVE YOU!

Terri Brown

March 5, 2017

Hi Daddy. I miss talking with you. I've got so much to tell. (Snitch) smile. You were my sounding board. I could tell you everything and I did. The good, the bad, and the ugly! Right now, I got some of each. Smile! I'm still praying, I believe in God! I am going to trust in Him! All my love!! Catch you next time, Daddy. Peace

Terri Brown

February 26, 2017

Hi Daddy. I miss you all the time. I am doing ok. Just wanted you to know, you are not forgotten! Hugs and kisses to the other side of this world. All my family and friends, to share. Smile! You are loved and we miss you! Rest In Peace, Daddy!

Tammy Crenshaw

February 22, 2017

Hey dad, I guess it want be long before I want be able to drop you a line, I guess I will just how to do as regular talk to you like you was here. I miss you. Your daughter Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

February 15, 2017

Hey daddy rabbit, I miss you so much. Love forever Tammy

Terri Brown

February 14, 2017

Happy Valentine's Day, Daddy! I had a great day. Just being here and being able to do the daily things is a blessing. I know God has a purpose for me. Sometimes, I want to make my own decisions about my life, but God has a laugh, then directs me the way He wants me to go. I cry, fuss, argue, get mad at my circumstances, but when it's all over- God sends me to do just what He wants me to do. Smile! I don't mean to fuss. I just feel over-whelmed, sometimes. I am so glad you were here, when I found out about my cancer. I LOVE YOU and I MISS YOU, Daddy! Rest In Peace!

Tammy Crenshaw

February 14, 2017

Happy Valentine's Day, Daddy I love you so much. Tell mom i said I miss and love her and Happy Valentine's Day.


Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

February 7, 2017

Hey daddy, sitting here at work thinking about all of you and miss you all as well. Time is sure flying, we are going on 2 years without you. I am guessing I will be buying a book about you pretty soon, with all these messages on it. Love you and I will talk to you later.

Tammy

Terri Brown

February 5, 2017

Hi Daddy. I miss talking with you. I've got so much to tell. (Snitch) smile. You were my sounding board. I could tell you everything and I did. The good, the bad, and the ugly! Right now, I got some of each. Smile! I'm still praying, I believe in God! I am going to trust in Him! All my love!! Catch you next time, Daddy. Peace

Tammy Crenshaw

February 3, 2017

Hey daddy, I have been back to work for 2 weeks now, after being gone for almost 2 months. I get kind of tired but I just keep right on pushing. Everything down here is going okay. Just missing you. Well tell everyone that I said hello.

Love you

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

January 30, 2017

Hi my sweet and wonderful dad, missing you like crazy, but as I know I have to push on. You and mom wouldn't want it any other way. I know that I don't have to say much because you are looking down on us and you know all. I do get down a litlle because you and mom aren't with me and I need both of you. I love and miss you.

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

January 24, 2017

Hello daddy, I know it has been a while since I last left you a message, but believe this I haven't forgotten you one bit. Been a little under the weather, but I still have to do what I have to do. i have just read Terri's messages to you and I feel bad, because I can't do more, I would love to help out with my sisters. But working in the day time is the time that is most needed. But I will be retiring around the 1st of December and I will be able to do more for others. I miss you and mom and wish I could visit you two for a while. I wonder if God ever allows that, I wish he did. Well I love you and i will get back with you later. This is my first day back at work from 11/28/2016. Tammy

Terri Brown

January 23, 2017

Hi Daddy. I miss you! Miss Ida was in the hospital for about 3 days, for fluid on her right lung. She is going home, today. Linda went for wheelchair evaluation, today. Tammy was our driver. I am grateful. Sure do miss you and everybody. Love you! I am doing fine. Better than I deserve. Thank You, Lord! RIP! Next time

Terri Brown

January 12, 2017

Good morning, Daddy. I had another surgery on my girls about a week ago. I am fine. God just keeps on blessing me. I made appointments for Linda. Trying to get her together. Phyllis drove Linda and I to the doctor. That was very nice. I can't drive just yet. Hopefully, soon. I am glad our sisters are helping out. People are so busy with their own lives, they don't have time for anybody else. I don't have that luxery, I have to do for my family, if I can squeese the time. God just looks after me, even when I want to whine and complain. So, I just shut-up and do it. It is alright! Always alright! God forgives me, sets my mind on what I know is right and takes care of me. Thank You, Lord! Daddy, I miss you and all my family. I LOVE YOU, DADDY!! MY LOVE TO ALL!

Terri Brown

December 24, 2016

Hello Daddy. Merry Christmas, to you and the whole heavenly body! God keeps blessing us! Christmas shows us this, each year and every day throughout the year. I really miss you, Daddy! I spoke to Miss Ida a few days, ago. Took her a Christmas present, left it with Annette. Miss Ida was at bingo. She is OK. Your kids are hanging in there. I am so thankful, that we are all here right now. BLESSINGS!! KEEP YOUR ANGEL WINGS AROUND US! GOD HAS ALL OF US!! My imagination has me thinking Angels can visit and look after loved ones. Might be wrong, but God can make anything possible. All my love to everybody! Rest In Peace, Daddy! GOD BLESS ALL OF US, THOSE THAT ARE ON EARTH AND IN HEAVEN! AMEN!

Terri Brown

December 18, 2016

Hi Daddy. I am just fine, but missing you and my family. You were my sounding board. I don't have anybody to talk to, about anything that's important to me. People say that you can talk to me, but-- that's NOT true! You are truly missed, by me. I know you have peace in the valley. God is sooo good to me! That's real! Keep your wings around Linda, Marilyn and Gloria Jean. Those girls don't feel well! Tammy is moving about, but she looks like she is having a hard time walking. We need BLESSINGS spread all thru the family. We are falling apart, getting old! Smile! All my love to you and everybody in God's presence! RIP!

Terri Brown

December 12, 2016

Daddy, I need your ears, today. I have so much to tell you, I really couldn't fit all on this page. I miss you and I love you. Sometimes, I wonder how your children who was brought up in the same house, could be so different in their way of thinking. We are ALL different, but taught the same things. Our values/ morales, should be similar. Huh? Please, stay close to each of us. If, this is something God allows. I know we need God's Blessings. I just believe in Angels. You would be an Angel. Smile! I miss you! Rest In Peace, Daddy!

Terri Brown

December 3, 2016

Hi Daddy. I know ALL IS WELL, with you in Heaven! Kiss Emily Alberta for me, and tell her "Happy Birthday"! Tomorrow is her birthday. God knows I miss all of ya'll! Daddy, Linda isn't feeling well. Tammy is off from work, with bad knees. Not sure about the rest of family. I'm trying, but I can't seem to get with everybody. I need God's angels to protect our family. Yes, I believe in God and I know God is still in control. I miss talking with you. I do get lonely for my parents. BUT, you earned your place in heaven! My time will come. I LOVE ALL OF YOU, FAMILY & FRIENDS! Rest In Peace! Watch me, Daddy! Peace! GOD BLESS!

Tammy Crenshaw

November 28, 2016

Hey daddy, thanksgiving wasn't like it used to be when mom was here, the family is still just like it was when you was here, nothing has changed. I saw Roni over the weekend, she was doing okay. We all got things that we are going through. We just don't check on each other as much as we should, including me. All of your kids are still here, but there is going to come a day that God is going to come and start taking us one by one. So until that day I will just keep praying for each one of us. Love you dad and until we meet again, love you

Terri Brown

November 22, 2016

Hello Daddy. I am a little tired and probably sleepy, too. Today, I was home for the most part. Just went to the store. My leg is aching a little, and I don't know what happened. I'm getting old, maybe it's "arthur!". Smile! Thanksgiving Day is near, and yes, I am fixing a little dinner. Tammy invited Larry and I to dinner, but I already had my turkey sent to be fried, along with dressing. Not fixing much, but I am tired and hopefully, I can lay around on that day. We'll see! Christmas time I will try to get EVERYBODY, here. God willing! Daddy, I miss you! Please, keep us in your view, and Angel wings around us! ALL MY LOVE TO YOU AND OUR LOVE ONES, WITH YOU!! Until the next time, Peace!

Tammy Crenshaw

November 21, 2016

Hey daddy, well you know that Linda still isn't feeling good, could you please ask God to watch over her and to take care of her, she is needed very much down here with us. I know that we don't get to see each other like we want too, but we still love each other very much. Thanks Dad

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

November 21, 2016

Hello daddy, it is getting to be Thanksgiving and everyone is doing their on thing this year. I miss you and wish you was here with us, but I know that couldn't be. We know that you are wishing us the best and you are telling us to take care of one another. We are here for each other if we need to be. I still miss my family.

Love you

Tammy Crenshaw

November 16, 2016

Hello handsome, just sitting here at work tired as heck, really ready to go home and get some sleep, but I will be up until later tonight. I really didn't want anything, but to say hello and I love you.

Tammy

Terri Brown

November 15, 2016

Hi Daddy. I have been running like I'm crazy. Linda is feeling bad; Horatio (Angel's husband) is feeling bad; Niecy ( Miss Ida's daughter) is feeling bad; and your wife (Miss Ida) is feeling bad. God Bless Every One Of Them! I am OK! Just trying to do the right thing. Miss you so much! Talked to Auntie, tonight. She was good! I know you are BLESSED! I Love You, Daddy! Rest In Peace!

Tammy Crenshaw

November 15, 2016

Hey daddy, it seems to be a long time since I was on here talking to you, but you best believe that I haven't forgotten you, I still miss you so much, sometimes I just can't believe that you are gone. I often ride pass your bus stop and when I see someone standing there I think daddy. I love you, thanks so much for being my daddy.

Love your daughter Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

November 8, 2016

Hey daddy, miss you. Wish you was here with us, but I know God has you right where he wants you to be. See you

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

November 2, 2016

Love you daddy.

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

November 1, 2016

Hey dad, I am missing you all. Thanksgiving is coming and, anyways I love you. Tammy

Deja Mathis

October 31, 2016

I Miss You

Tammy Crenshaw

October 25, 2016

Hey dad, it looks like me and Terri send so many messages to you, but I know you are cool with that. Everyone doesn't get on the computer. I road pass your house yesterday and said Hi daddy. I wish I could go up there and just sit and wait on you to come out, but I knew you was with me when I passed. Do I miss you, heck yes. Can anyone tell me how long to miss you heck no. When I use to get upset with mom being gone, people use to say she is in a better place, which I knew she was, but there wasn't a date or time to tell me not to miss her. Just like you, no one can say how long this will last. I might not be able to send you a message after next May, but I will still be writing to you in my heart. Love You dad.

Terri Brown

October 23, 2016

Hi Daddy. I just wanted to say "I miss you." I smile when I see your picture. I am ok. But, I get lonely. We had some good laughs and if there was something going on in my life, I would tell you about it. Because I wanted you to know. You were always there for us. All of us! If, they wanted you to be. I had a dream about Mama, Emma and You at a birthday party. I don't remember whose party, but everybody was having a grand old time. Strange, huh? Anyways, maybe that's Heaven! Stay close to us. We need angels! Talk to you soon, Daddy. Much Love!

Tammy Crenshaw

October 21, 2016

Morning daddy

Tammy Crenshaw

October 18, 2016

What's up dad, missing you like crazy, but you already know that. Terri came by to see me, it is always a surprise and pleasure when she comes. I would love for all your girls to get together and have a cook-in or something, but all of us think that we are too busy, but when one of our time comes, we all will wish that we shared more time with each other, and yes I am talking about myself as well. Time is something that we just don't have for real. at a drop of a dime one of us can be with you. Which isn't a bad thing. Well love you daddy, bye for now.

Terri Brown

October 16, 2016

Daddy, hello. I went to visit Miss Ida, yesterday. She seems to be hanging in there. Thank God! I don't see her as often as I should. But, her girls are around. Annette lives in the same building. Everybody else seems to be holding on as well. I have been going to church. It's hard, not church. But, you not sitting there with me. I love you! I miss you, all the time. You are my best friend! I could tell you, anything and everything. Not everyone has a Daddy like you. I have an empty space. See you in Heaven, Dad! Rest In Peace

Tammy Crenshaw

October 14, 2016

Hey daddy, it is just me again, saying I miss you.

Love Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

October 13, 2016

Hey my daddy, I miss you every single day of my life. It gets hard out here, and with me having you not to talk to it seem even harder. I am making it the best I can. If you hadn't raised me the way that you did, I might have been broken by now. Love you

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

October 12, 2016

Hey daddy, have you forgotten me? I sure hope not. I miss you and think of you so often it is crazy. Daddy I can't hardly wait until I get to see you and mom again, what a time we will have. I have tried to live a good life, I have tried my best to help others, and I have worked hard out here as well. I miss you and love you. Tammy

Terri Brown

October 11, 2016

Hello Daddy. I am sitting at the hospital, with your grand-daughter, Angel and her in-laws, waiting for Angel's husband to get out of surgery. It can be a scarey thing, major surgery and waiting on results. Daddy, I keep thinking of all the stuff we go thru in our lives and we really need God! Thank God for His mercy! I love you and miss you, every day! I am doing my best. Daddy, I try really hard. Rest In Peace!

Tammy Crenshaw

October 7, 2016

Hey daddy, went pass your bus stop the other day while going down Dumesnil and I thought I saw you standing on the bus stop, it was crazy. I really guess I was missing you so much. When I am at work and get on the elevator and it close and open back up, I usually said hi dad or mom, I know that it is one of you all with me. Today is one of those crazy days, wishing I was with you all, but knowing it want be possible until my time comes. I guess God is saying I got a little more time to watch over those kids. Love you

Terri Brown

October 6, 2016

Hey Daddy. Missing you at this moment. Passed by your house, several times today. Nobody has moved in this house, since you've been gone. Don't know why! But, I always want to stop. Things are crazy in this world. But, you and other loved ones are in heaven (spiritually). We are still loving you and missing you. Just want to say "I Love You!" Rest In Peace, Daddy!

Terri Brown

September 30, 2016

Hi Daddy. Well, it just keeps happening, Gwen's mother is now in heaven. I know God has it written, but it's hard! My heart feels her pain. Thank God, I can still write you on this page. It helps me. You aren't here, but I can talk to you, here. I miss you, but I know you are alright, with God in heaven. My love goes out to ALL! Keep your wings around us, forever! I LOVE YOU!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 29, 2016

Hey daddy, life down here is, well all I can all is I guess it is what it is supposed to be. My life is so different without you all down here. I guess just like the rest, when God thinks I have done my job down here, I will be joining the greats of you all. Tell everyone I said hello and I love them.

Tammy

Terri Brown

September 28, 2016

I LOVE YOU, DADDY! I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE MY LOVED ONES, THAT ARE WITH YOU IN HEAVEN! WOW! SONNY, BIG MAMA, MARY JANE (GRANDMOTHER), BOTH GRANDFATHERS, SO MANY MORE! I MISS RICKY AND HANNAH. I MISS MAMA AND EMILY! MY BROTHERS, TOO! I MISS YOU, DADDY! SO MUCH! REST IN PEACE! I WILL SEE YOU ALL, IN TIME!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 27, 2016

Hey Hey Hey, applehead. Just want you to know that I miss you. Love you

Tammy

Terri Brown

September 26, 2016

Hi Daddy. I miss you! I know everything is wonderful with you. Everybody is well and just doing the best they can. You are always thought about, even the fellas on the corner talk about you and Uncle JL. All good, of course. And that's good, to be remembered. Please share my love with EVERYBODY! I love you, so much! Until the next time, Rest In Peace!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 21, 2016

Good afternoon, my sweet dad. I have been really busy at work today. But now I am taking this time to drop you a few lines to say hello and that I love you. It is coming up to mom's 12th year of not being here with us. Please tell her that I love and miss her so much. Tammy

Terri Brown

September 18, 2016

Good morning, Daddy. I could really use your ear, right now. There are so many things I would love to tell you. You already know, I'm sure, but to sound it out, mighr make it easier to deal with. I will be OK! That's 100. I am not slow or stupid, Mama told me to "pick your battles"! I know God will handle my battles. He always do! Keep watching over us. You are missed! I love you!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 14, 2016

Hi dad, miss you. My legs have been hurting so bad for the last year. I have an doctor's appointment with another doctor in October, but for now I have to go and see my regular doctor and I am going to see him and no one else. He makes the big money, I see why a lot of people will only see him. Well love you and miss you. Give everyone all my love, tell Direl I said what's up.

Tammy

Terri Brown

September 13, 2016

Hello Daddy. As of today, Tuesday, I have been to 5 wakes/funerals (since Friday). Today, your great-great nephew. God is doing His thing. You always told us, we are not here to stay. No truer words were ever spoken. We are seeing it every day. Daddy, I miss you so much, but, I remember you were in pain (chest), I am glad you are with God. I still miss you! I love you! RIP, DADDY!!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 12, 2016

Good morning my daddy, the weekend was a good weekend. DeShaun's football team didn't win, but they really did a great job. I love watching them play ball.

Daddy what can I say this morning, but I miss you, every time I say that I just want to cry. Who would have thought you wouldn't be here with us, I thought you was going to live forever and that is real talk. You was such a strong man, loving, caring but hard man lol. I try my best to live a good life so that I can make it with you and mom and everyone else. Save a place for me please. Thanks daddy and love you. Tammy

Phyllis Johnson

September 10, 2016

Terri Brown

September 9, 2016

Daddy, hello! Hello! I am seeing God's work all over the place. 6 deaths, right now in my world. Family, Friends and Associates. Wow! I went to 2 wakes, today; going to 1 wake, early tomorrow morning and another wake/funeral around 12 noon. That's (2) for Saturday. I am BLESSED to still be here and able. I love you, Daddy! I just want to talk to you! Missing you! Peace

Tammy Crenshaw

September 9, 2016

Hey daddy, sitting at work doing what I do, but still missing you like crazy. Love you

Tammy Crenshaw

September 7, 2016

Hey daddy, missing you and mom. As scared as I am at heights, if there was some steps leading to you, I would climb each one of them to see you and mom, I would. I wouldn't want anymore around me, don't touch me, don't say a thing to me, I would be to scared, but if I was alone, I think I could make that climb. Missy you like crazy. God is so good, he lets me get through each day by thinking and missing you, he hasn't let me cry yet, and I am thinking because you said Big Girls don't Cry. Love You Daddy. Tammy

Terri Brown

September 6, 2016

Good morning, Daddy. This is "Labor Day". But, you never have to celebrate days like this, anymore. Everyday is celebrated in Heaven! I would love to get my clothes on and ride to visit you, today. I always had somewhere to go, when you were here. I miss you, Daddy! All I want is Peace. Loving you gave me, Peace! Later.

Phyllis Johnson

September 6, 2016

Hi, Daddy just wanted you toknow everyone is doing good. Isaiah& Benjamin said hello and they miss you. Edward said to tell the truth so help me God, this is one of your old quotes. Thank you for being you. Love you forever Daddy

Tammy Crenshaw

September 6, 2016

Good morning daddy.

Terri Brown

September 5, 2016

Good morning, Daddy. This is "Labor Day". But, you never have to celebrate days like this, anymore. Everyday is celebrated in Heaven! I would love to get my clothes on and ride to visit you, today. I always had somewhere to go, when you were here. I miss you, Daddy! All I want is Peace. Loving you gave me, Peace! Later.

Terri Brown

September 1, 2016

I LOVE YOU, DADDY! REST IN PEACE!

Tammy Crenshaw

September 1, 2016

Hi daddy, love you

Tammy Crenshaw

August 31, 2016

Good morning my dad, I am little tired this morning, feels like I am catching a cold. I took some medicine last night, but I need a good day to sleep, maybe on Monday when we are off I will do that. How is it going with you, I bet you are really enjoying retirement now, lol. Hopefully November of next year I will be retired from here, that is if God hasn't called me home yet. I hope that I was stay around a little longer to keep these kids out of someone else home. I know that God will give me the strength that is needed. Love you

Terri Brown

August 30, 2016

Hey Daddy. Miss you so much. Talked to Miss Ida on Friday, last week. She was good. Your kids are OK. Phyllis, just had surgery on yesterday and today she is home. God is so AWESOME! Personally, I miss talking to my daddy, my boyfriend, my best friend. You could always make it better. You made me strong and comfortable within myself. I love you, daddy!

Tammy Crenshaw

August 30, 2016

Hey dad, it has been a while since I wrote you, but guess what, that doesn't mean that I have forgotten about you, not in this life time. Just wanted you to know that I am doing the same. Just doing it day by day now. I don't rush tomorrow. I am missing you and mom still, I know when my time come I will be up there sitting and laughing with you all. Daddy do you miss me? Do you ever think about me? Do you ever wonder what is going on with me? How my life is? You know when mom, Ms. Mattie and you left, things really went down hill for you all kids. But God can change it, if he wants. Love and Miss you.

Tammy Crenshaw

August 24, 2016

Hi daddy, it is going okay with me and the kids. I talked to Terri a few days ago and Roni as well. Everything is everything. I miss you and so I guess everything isn't everything right? Sometimes I get sad when I think of you and mom, not that you are both in a better place and you all deserve it, but I just miss seeing and talking to the both of you. I use to walk everyday over to one of your houses to sit and talk for a while than walk back home. Sometimes after leaving your house I would walk on over to mom's and sit a few minutes. Love you

Terri Brown

August 23, 2016

Hey Daddy! So far, we are all doing fine. Phillip is happy, getting a house to live in. Talking to "Man" on yesterday, made me happy. He was preaching the Word of God! Yes, my brother does know our Lord! I was so proud of his conversation. I am trying to slow up on running around. I'm getting old and worn-out! Smile! Miss you so much!

Tammy Crenshaw

August 22, 2016

Hey Hey Hey apple head, lol. Love you so much. Praying and trying to do right everyday so that I can make it to where you and mom is at. I miss both of you. Love your daughter Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

August 18, 2016

Good morning daddy

Tammy Crenshaw

August 17, 2016

Good morning my old sweet wonderful man daddy, dad, father, friend, of mines. I miss talking to you about mom for hours at a time. I am so glad that you was always there to listen to me when I talked about her, I missed her so much, but being with you ease most of the pain from her being gone from me, but now I am missing you and I just don't have anyone to take ease that pain away. You know when I came over I was always at home. At times I shed a tear like right now, so I have to wipe it away and keep on going. Love you dad

Terri Brown

August 15, 2016

Daddy, I Love You and I Miss You! I agree with Tammy, we as a family, need to come together, more. I know we love one another, but we don't show it, as we should. Daddy, you and all the family, up there, please keep your heavenly wings around us. Guide and protect us from outside uglyness and drama. We always need you. RIP Forever!

Tammy Crenshaw

August 15, 2016

Hey daddy, you know sometimes you have to watch your family more than you have to watch others out here and that is a sad thing. I am really glad that the family is getting together, they should do that more often, not just for birthdays, wedding or funerals. But anyways, tell mom I said I love and miss her and I can't wait to see all of you all. Sometimes I can feel you with me, so I know that you are trying to tell me something, so you best believe that I do be careful. Love you

Terri Brown

August 13, 2016

Hey Daddy. Today, is Gloria Jean's birthday. What a nice gathering we had for her birthday celebration. Felt like family! Me for one, needed to see and feel that. Today was a good day. Still, I would be coming over your house, telling you all about the luncheon. My way of saying, I miss you! Daddy, my love to ALL! RIP!

Terri Brown

August 11, 2016

Hi Daddy. Missing you like crazy. I love you! Daddy keep your eyes on all of us, because we need you. It's crazy hard out here. We need family. Daddy, thank you for taking time to listen to me and my problems. It helped and taught me to care about others. Much Love, and RIP!

Tammy Crenshaw

August 11, 2016

Hey daddy, love you

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

August 10, 2016

Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, school is back in session. One kid is in Middle School the other one is in Elementary, I am guessing I will get through this. Helping with homework and stuff isn't my cup of tea. Love and miss you.

Your daughter Tammy

Terri Brown

August 9, 2016

Hi Daddy. I have several messages in this system, they get lost. I love you and wish I could come over and talk. Miss you so much! Rest In Peace

Phyllis Johnson

August 9, 2016

Good morning Daddy

Tammy Crenshaw

August 8, 2016

Hey daddy, miss and love you.

Tammy Crenshaw

August 4, 2016

Hi daddy, just wanted to say hello and I love you. Nothing other than that. Miss you.

Tammy

Tammy Crenshaw

August 3, 2016

Hey dad, how is it going with you? Every time I think my knees and hand is getting better, they start hurting bad again, but I won't complain because I know there is a lot of more people that is going through something way worse then me. I thank God each and everyday for allowing me to wake up and take care of these kids, even though I know it is a hard job, somebody has to do it, and it might as well be me. Well I guess I will talk to you later, love you your next to last daughter Tammy

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