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Gary Webster Obituary

WEBSTER, GARY BRENT, 60, died Wednesday, March 19, 2008, at his home. Gary was a native of Louisville, a 1965 graduate of Manual High School and a Vietnam War veteran. He was employed by Omega National Products, where he loved working and being part of the family, for eight wonderful years. Gary was an avid U of L basketball and football fan and loved to see the Cardinals win. He had an easy-going personality, a good sense of humor and got along well with most everyone he met. He loved woodworking, Jimmy Buffett music, relaxing at the beach and a good frozen margarita. He was a liberal Democrat, who was passionate about politics and the evening news. He also loved animals and his home menagerie, included two cats, Lily and Bijoux, and one constantly barking Yorkie, Toto. Gary was a loving husband and devoted father, who took great pride in his family. There was never a problem, big or small, he couldn't handle. He was the family rock, and his wife and daughter will miss him terribly. He was a compassionate individual whom friends could count on in times of need. He would give his total attention to a friend's problem, putting his own concerns on hold. He was preceded in death by his parents, the former Georgia Spalding Gandin Webster and Guy Webster. He is survived by his wife of 25 years, Denise Pfeiffer Webster; his beloved daughter, Kelsey M. Webster; a sister, Alice Simpson; two brothers, Robert Gandin (Carolyn) and Andre' Gandin (Pamela); numerous nieces and nephews; and many dear friends. His service will be at 1:30 p.m. Tuesday at Highlands Family-Owned Funeral Home, 3331 Taylorsville Road, with burial in St. Michael's Cemetery. Visitation will be Monday from 2-8 p.m. at the funeral home. Gary's family would deeply appreciate gifts, in his memory, to the Animal Refuge Center, P.O. Box 400, Vine Grove, KY, 40175-0400.

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Published by Courier-Journal on Mar. 23, 2008.

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Kelly Dockter Dean

March 17, 2023

Gone, but never forgotten. Miss your wit.

Kelly Dockter Dean

March 17, 2022

Happy St. Joseph's Day (3.19) in heaven....am hoping you have met since you also share a love of woodworking! Rest in peace friend.

Dale Humphrey

March 29, 2008

that's 37 years, Denise!
love, Dale

Dale Humphrey

March 28, 2008

Denise and Kelsey,
I can't begin to know how you feel, but I am with you all the way. I love you both, and if a parent's legacy is their child, Gary (and you, Denise), have a lot to be proud of. I am so fortunate to have known Gary, and blessed to be able to call Denise my friend...for 27 years!!!
Peace to you and may you always enjoy those precious memories of all the great years you shared.
Love,
Dale

Kathryn Ades

March 26, 2008

Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. Ken Teeter is a friend of mine and called me this evening/ Gary was dynamite in a bundle. I know that Ken is having a very difficult time as I am sure you and your daughter are. I lost my 5 year old granddaughter 20 months ago, Trust me, the pain never goes away.Please give your daughter a hug for me as this is difficult for her as you. Anything I can do ask Ken, he knows how to reach me. Kay Ades

Kelly Dockter Dean

March 26, 2008

Denise,

You don't give yourself nearly enough credit, for you were incredibly strong and brave after all that went on the Wednesday morning of Holy Week! Who among us could have presented such a graceful presence as you proceeded to acknowledge sympathies extended, while comforting others around you who were also stunned at Gary's sudden passing.

I know you said that Gary was YOUR rock, the one who always calmed you down, but you must have been paying close attention those 28 years, since you have managed to handle all the tasks at hand for the past week without coming unglued.

When you spoke at both your mother's and Gary's funerals, you did so with such apparent ease and eloquence. (guess Kelsey took her cue) I am certain you were feeling anything but relaxed and yet you managed to create just the right mood, in relaying anecdotes humorously and candidly about special times you two shared!

We are just a rickety fence away if you need ANYTHING. There are plenty of men in residence (calm & cool, big, strong, and one "in training") who will do your bidding, so please don't be shy. Our front porch light is almost always on to guide your path safely to our door.

No one could ever take Gary's place and we are all the better for having known him and having his friendship. But you do have many friends who will be waiting in the wings to help you and Kelsey on your journey forward. God bless you both, especially during this sad time.

Kellydd

Kelly Dockter Dean

March 26, 2008

Kelsey,

You have grown up before our eyes and it's hard to believe time has passed all too quickly since the Tiny Tots Pre-School days when you and Michael first realized we were also neighbors.

Denise and Gary were the proudest of parents and we could rely on getting caught up on how you were doing during our adventures to Keeneland or Churchill Downs, the St. Albert Trivia Night, or at the annual Derby and Christmas parties. Although we chatted with your father as we came and went (numerous times per day it seemed!) and traded e-mails with your mother throughout the year, it was a tradition to spend some of our times together catching up on the latest escapades of our college kiddos...

Despite this sudden and terrible loss of your doting Dad, you were so gracious to all who arrived at the funeral home visitation. Your tribute to your father was quite moving to all in attendance and I know he heard every word and was so proud of how eloquent you have become. You and your parents will remain in our prayers.

We will truly miss Gary's insightful contributions to our Games Nights but he will always remain a happy memory in our minds and hearts. May your memories of so many good times bring you peace and comfort!

Mrs. D

Tom Viney

March 25, 2008

Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers.

Donna French

March 25, 2008

Denise, I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.

Terri (Dockter) Densford

March 25, 2008

My family has lived next door to the Websters for a long time...at least since the oldest of my three brothers (Michael) and Kelsey were in daycare, I believe. Over the years, our parents have become good friends. I could always count on, at the very least, a friendly smile and wave from Gary anytime I came to visit my mom.

Denise and Kelsey, you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember that you have a lot of friends and family who love you very much!

Kathi Childers

March 24, 2008

There is not enough words to express your loss. He was a pleasure to work with. I know he will look after both of you and will be your guardian angel. Even though he will be missed more than words can say. Bless your family.

Wylie & Cuteness

March 24, 2008

Denise, I have thought of you and Kelsey often in the past few days and know you both have lost a wonder partner, father and person. You have been in my silent prayers. May God bless you in this time of sadness and sorrow. I know Gary would have wanted this condolence to end with...GO CARDS!

Jennifer Futrell

March 24, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers Denise. Sincerely, Jennifer

Garry Voith

March 24, 2008

Denise and Kelsey:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both on the loss of your loving husband and devoted father. May the Lord be with you during this time of great loss.

Garry & Sharon Voith

Lauren Riney

March 24, 2008

Kels, Mrs. Webster, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was so great! I loved being in the car with him taking us to the mall, mixers, and all the places we went. He was a trooper for putting up with us! Know that I am always here for both of you guys, anything you need I am here. I Love you guys!

Paulette Fouse

March 24, 2008

DENISE & KELSEY,
Words cannot express the loss I feel.
I can't even imagine how or what you are feeling. I just know it has to be devastating. Gary & I worked together rather closely and talked every day about family or just getting older. We had some great conversations and once in awhile some conflicts especially about politics. But I always felt that we were good friends. I will miss him a lot,
and my thought & prayers or with you both.
Paulette

Paula Sharp

March 24, 2008

Words can not express the sympathy that I feel for you both. Gary was one of the greatest people that I have ever met or worked with. I have only worked with him about a year and a half but I feel like I have known him for years. I will never forget our "political" conversations and his love for great music! He will be dearly missed. God Bless you both.

Kevin Scott

March 24, 2008

I spoke with Gary often on the phone as a rep. of EB Bradley Co. and I am deeply saddened by this news.

Gary was just a very real, and personable guy. I know he loved his family as we talked at times about the important things - I will miss my friend Gary.

With the warmest regard for Gary and the deepest sympathy for his friends and family, -Kevin

Peter Webster

March 24, 2008

I work with the E.B. Bradley Co. and had many conversations with him as we did business together. As we figure we're related at some point it was always a joy to talk about our similarities and our differences. I will miss this. May God give your family grace during this time and comfort you in your time of sorrow. My family and I will be praying for you.

Janet Heck

March 24, 2008

Denise and Kelsey, words can't express how sorry I am on the loss of Garry. I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joyce Charney

March 24, 2008

Denise & Kelsey, I always enjoyed talking to Gary, he had a great sense of humor. I actually first met him in Atlanta at the show and then he came to Elkhart. He was so proud of his family. He will be greatly missed. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Joyce Charney,
Omega National Products
Customer Service

Terrie Crandall

March 24, 2008

I am truly sorry for your loss. I work in the Elkhart plant and would speak to Gary numerous times in a day. He would always answer the phone, "HELLLLLLO". It made me laugh. He was a good man and I will miss him.

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