Search by Name

Add a Memory

Send Flowers

Make a Donation

Share Obituary

Alexander J. Marshall Jr.

FUNERAL HOME

McKenna-Ouellette Funeral Home

327 Hildreth Street

Lowell, Massachusetts

Alexander Marshall Obituary

Alexander J. Marshall, Jr.
1981 -- 2010

DRACUT -- Alexander J. Marshall, Jr., 29, of Dracut, died unexpectedly Thursday, September 30, 2010.

Born in Malden on February 14, 1981, he was the beloved son of Alexander J. Marshall Sr. and Marie T. (Delicato) Marshall of Dracut.

In addition to his parents, survivors include his maternal grandparents, Anthony Delicato of Dracut and Bertha Linardy of Lowell; paternal grandparents, Alexander D. Marshall and Lynn Marshall of Chesapeake, VA; a sister, Kristi Lee Townsend of Danville, NH; his fiancée', Danielle DeHate of Dracut; his children, Adrian and Liliana Marie; his nieces and nephews, Austin, Summer, Harry and Ava; several aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.

MARSHALL -- Relatives and friends may call at the McKENNA-OUELLETTE FUNERAL HOME, 327 Hildreth Street, Lowell from 1 until 5 PM on Sunday, October 3, 2010. His funeral Service will take place in the Funeral Home at 4:30 PM. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Alex's name may be made to the Alexander J. Marshall, Jr. Memorial Fund c/o Washington Savings Bank, 100 Broadway Road, Dracut, MA 01826.

For directions or condolences, please visit www.mckennaouellette.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lowell Sun on Oct. 2, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Alexander Marshall

Sponsored by marie and al marshall.

158 Entries

Summer

September 29, 2024

Hey uncle. Thinking of you today. Missing you dearly. Crazy I've lived more of my life without you then with you. But, I'm sure you would be proud of the adult I've become. I'm very happy in life right now. I wish you were here to see it. Love you and miss you dearly.
Love,
Summer

Kubryn

February 20, 2024

Thinking of you always

Marie marshall

February 20, 2024

Hey buddy this legacy page came up and im bawling my eyes out reading all these messages. We miss you everyday and these messages remind me of what you meant to so many people.
I know this must have popped up to remind me to always feel blessed of our time we had with you. Love you xoxo
Never stop sending us your messages and watching over us we feel you
Mom and Dad xoxo

Summer Townsend

September 29, 2023

Love you uncle Alex. Miss you endlessly. Thinking of you.

Austin Townsend

September 28, 2023

Love you uncle Alex thinking of you.

Ray D.

July 20, 2021

i remember the day Alex wrote this on the wall of my old bedroom storage room now but it is still there ,miss my old friend .

February 14, 2020

Happy birthday friend

Uncle Johnny's tattoo for the kids!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Before school one morning

Danielle

April 17, 2017

striking a pose!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Our last picture.. American Idol concert

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Kids just being themselves before school!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Pregnant with Lily (early on in pregnancy)

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Danielle's first tattoos

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Grandma , Lily and Summer at plaster fun time!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Lily's first dance recital!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

What a face!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Us at the cape

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Alex's beautiful kids

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Lily just being lily !

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Cop and robber halloween

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Kids getting into a serious nerf gun war !

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian winning game ball

Danielle

April 17, 2017

1st anniversary balloon release

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Sooooo cute

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Birthday party

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Hallowen

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Lily at dance class

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Me and Adrian's first red sox game

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Wonder where she got this face from

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Me and kids March 2011

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Beautiful Lily

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Me and kids March 2011

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Lily

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Lily fishing

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian March 2011

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Our favorite restaurant

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian playing soccer with Alex coaching

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Alex's beautiful girl

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian and I at the bruins game

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Adrian, Liliana , and uncle Johnny at the cape

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Grandma and Adrian

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Liliana and Adrians easter 2011

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Alex's balloon release from his 1 year anniversary, spread ashes at the soccer field

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Me and Adrian's first bruins game!

Danielle

April 17, 2017

Marie Marshall

April 16, 2017

Miss you buddy

Danielle

April 11, 2017

Alex, been thinking of you alot lately. I know your so proud of me and i know you see big changes in my life and for the future. I miss and love you.

Ray D.

March 15, 2017

Reminiscing and thinking of my old friend today . rest easy my friend.

Danielle D

May 27, 2016

Alex
It's been a long time since I wrote.... I haven't been in a good place but I am now strong enough to face a lot of what has haunted me for so long.. I have a lot of regrets, shame.guilt, and also remorse.. I haven't written because I was so ashamed... I'm sorry I broke that promise I said on the day we lost you... I want you to know I will never stop fighting... You know I'm a fighter and survivor and always have been... I miss you a lot... I will always love you... I went to the Wednesday night meeting and couldn't stop staring at that chair in the middle of room and the night lily went and sat on that chair after you passed... As you know we also lost Johnny... It completely broke me and was so empty... But I want to be the person you know I could be... You and Johnny are together watching the Bruins and red Sox!!! I need you both and help see me through... Love you..xoxo

Marie Marshall

May 14, 2016

Thinking about you buddy by now you know your grandpa is there with you now. Take care of each other and try not to cause too much trouble
Love you always. Mom

Marie Marshall

April 7, 2016

Miss you sooo much buddy Dad and I still Cry for you! XOXO I COULD USE A BIG HUG FROM YOU

Summer T

February 15, 2016

Hi uncle. It's been quite a while since I wrote here. Happy late birthday. I love and miss you so much

February 14, 2016

Happy birthday. miss you

Ray D.

October 21, 2015

Its been a long time since I had seen or talked to Alex and I was wondering how he had been so I tried to find him on Facebook but I got a few post that came up saying that he had passed so I sent a message to someone who I know that wrote a post to ask them if it was the same Alex I was looking for and sadly I found out it was ,May you walk with the lord in the kingdom of heaven Alex , rest easy my old friend.

Len Cool

November 5, 2014

Goodbye to a good freind and longtime golf partner.His responsibility and dedication were greatly admired.

June 29, 2013

today will be a day of happiness and bittersweet sorrow. your children will gain a new daddy and Danielle a husband. I pray you are looking down smiling and sending good vibes for this day and everyday thereafter for this family to be happy and healthy and feel loved. xoxoxo love you and miss you so much,, mom

marie marshall

June 28, 2013

missing you so much lately, thinking of you everday,, I know its the wedding coming up and its so bittersweet, im sure your looking down smiling, I know your at peace. I just wish I could hug you and see your smile. love you buddy, mom xoxoxo

marie marshall

June 20, 2013

planted your tree it makes me happy to see it and remember you with happy thoughts, the kids are glad there is something to see and know its for you. youre missed daily buddy, my heart has a big hole in it. love you always, mom

alex's tree

June 20, 2013

June 16, 2013

son, its father's day and I couldn't be sadder wishing you were here to see youre beautiful daughter blossoming into a lil spitfire and your son whom is growing up so fast, he misses you a lot,, they have a new dad now and the wedding is in two weeks. thank you for sending a great man into their lives to take care of them! liliana had her first dance recital and I know you were there watching, and Adrian played baseball, still not quite able to play soccer again,i think he misses you coaching him. your dad is missing you terribly as well as I do. I miss your bear hugs and huge smile. the way you lit up a room with your presence but liliana has taken over there for you! she is the spitting image of your personality with a little Danielle attitude you can just imagine ha ha.. I love you buddy, miss you every minute xoxoxo mom

February 14, 2013

Alex, my valentine baby, happy valentines day, we miss you so much, xoxoxo thanks for sending all the signs to let us know you are around

Marie marshall

January 1, 2013

Alex,another holiday season has come and gone,,we missed you but felt your presence ,ava was talking to you and of course your kids speak of you often. I love you always, HAPPY NEW YEAR!XOXO

November 23, 2012

UNCLE i enjoyed your turkey leg! im taking over your tradition of eating the leg with grandpa! i miss you and love you , austin xoxoxo IM PLAYING BASEBALL,, hope you are watching

November 22, 2012

ALEX,,I miss you sooo much,, today is thanksgiving and i give thanks to all my memories i have of your beautiful smile and energetic personality, I am blessed with an amazing family and friends whom share such great stories of you,, and make me smile, cry, laugh and we will never ever forget you xoxoxo we will save a leg for you today, your kids will remember you today , and everyday because noone ever makes them feel they cant talk of you and we encourage it, xoxoxo

November 22, 2012

I love you uncle alex,, xoxoxo

November 22, 2012

HAPPY THANKSGIVING ALEX,,I miss you sooo much, today i will be thankful of my memories of your smile, personality so big it filled a room,,dont worry we are saving a leg for you! xoxoxo

June 17, 2012

HAPPY FATHERS DAY, ALEX! miss you so much, dad is missing you so much too, summer cuddled with her little doll that you bought her when she was two and i put it away cuz it had a porcelein face, so i gave it to her now, its sooo special for her now. austin is playing baseball and wants to make you proud, ava looks at your pics and talks to you, i know you are talking to her cuz she points and says "uncle" here, and she is pointing up the air.. of course you kids miss you terribly but are doing good, matt is wonderful with them and i know you sent him here for them, miss your big hugs, xxoxox MOM

May 13, 2012

ALEX, Mothers Day has come and I miss you so much. your kids remind me how many blessings I have, but i still cant help but feel so sad knowing youre not here to hug and seee youre smiling face. I will always have a hole in my heart, but a connection to you will always be there until we meet again.an unseen cord between mother and child, a poem i read with beatiful words about the invisible connection to heaven. Danielle and the kids got me a soccer ball for my bracelet and a beautiful frame with pics of you and I. I take comfort knowing she will always be an important part of our lives and make the children always know about you. I love you, xoxox mom

summer

April 9, 2012

Uncle,
My family has a dog now and i wish you could meet him. easter came and past and was so weird without you. your picture will remain in my locker. we all miss you!

Marie marshall

April 8, 2012

Easter is upon us,, i miss you soo much! my favorite day with the family, egg hunt with the big kids having more fun than the little ones, lol family pics in front of harley bunny! all the pastel colors, my favorite! I KNOW your looking down on us smiling and trying to cheat by showing the kids where the eggs are! LOVE YOU SO MUCH! MOM XOXOXOXO

March 8, 2012

thinking a lot about you, I miss you so much! dad's birthday came and he got a new tattoo for you,, i guess he feels it keeps you close to him. danielle got him his fishing license and liliana cant wait to go fishing with a princess fishing pole she has her eye on at the store. I know you are looking down and are so proud of your kids, they miss you though so much, they talk about you often. Ava has turned 2 already, wow time has flown by. I cant believe she will not have the memories and the chance to enjoy her uncle. The twins are growing up and could certainly use their uncle around, christopher is going to scotland to play lacross and megan won her college dance competition, IM SURE you were there rooting her on! LOVE YOU MOM

February 14, 2012

Happy Birthday my friend. I miss you everyday!

like father like son

marie marshall

February 14, 2012

Happy Birthday my valentine baby,, I cant believe it was 31 yrs ago today i gave birth to you. your dad so happy and proud! you were such a wonderful baby, so happy and smily, your smile was infectious and your hugs so strong, we miss you so much, your kids will insist on a cake today for you, they dont forget you, I PRAY you feel all our love up there as you looking down on us and not be sad at all tears shed for you they cant be helped. alex i cant beleive you are gone and im not to hug you again and see that smile, it breaks my heart into pieces to see your kids talk about you knowing how much you are missing, I hope you are looking down on them and are soo proud of them and i hope they make you laugh as they do us. DAD and I love you and miss you so much

marie marshall

January 21, 2012

alex,, someone called today needing your help,, he got your number a while ago from you,, said you were so helpful to him. i cried and told him you were gone,, he was sooo sorry and apolagetic,, i told him to stay clean you would want that! buddy,, why could you help everyone else and save everyone but yourself,, i cried all day! i miss you soooo much,, :(

Danielle

January 2, 2012

Happy new year babe! I hope this year brings us much happiness and alot of luck. I know your watching over us. I miss you and love you.

Butch Barchard

January 1, 2012

You are missed everyday. I miss your SMILE. Love Butch, Rene, Chris & Megan.
I know u are watching over us.
Go Bruins.

marie marshall

December 31, 2011

ITS NEW YEARS EVE A NEW YEAR IS UPON US. Reality of a year gone by without you and your not coming home! :( You have been greatly missed..time doesnt heal all wounds a hole in my heart will forever be, a cloud over my head and a sadness no mother should ever endure. Sometimes i feel like im sleepwalking through the day. I laugh with friends and family but it doesnt go all the way to my heart and soul,like the pain of missing you! I try to conjure up one of your bear hugs i close my eyes and can almost feel you! Xoxoxo mom

December 26, 2011

Hey Buddy!! Its Richard. Its the day after Christmas. The holiday was beautiful. You were heavily on my mind and in my heart yesterday and on Christmas Eve. The truth is you are frequently on my mind and always in my heart.I went to church Christmas Eve with Dave. A church member sang O Holy Night. Its my favorite Christmas song and all i could think about was you. I got very emotional. They say as time passes by a loss gets easier to accept. thats not the case. I miss u more than ever. Sometimes i forget that your not coming home. I think yourr on one of your Conway trips or on a vacation. I keep waiting for my phone to ring. I was only able to delete your name recently. It was very hard to do. I felt if I kept your name in my phone it would mean you werent really gone.Im greatful that my religeous beliefs allow me to believe Ill see you again. Danielle and the kids are well. You would be so proud of the kids. Adrian is learnimg to read and is exploring his identity. He wants to be a secret agent spy!! Lili is you through and through!! Nobody can put a smile on my face the way she can. I keep thinking back to your last day. We talked that afternoon and you said you would meet me at the Wednesday night meeting. I never saw you again. If I had one Christmas wish it would be for you to be here with us. I love you so much and am keeping Danielle and the kids close as I promised you I would. God bless you Alex. Ill never forget how much you helped me, all the fun we had or how truly special you are. Much love. Richard

denis ducharme jr

December 26, 2011

I think of you a lot al Jr. I still have the note pad you gave me. I use it everyday at work. Miss you little buddy, your friend always, denis Jr.

youre urn! xoxoxo

December 26, 2011

YOUR LIFE WAS A BLESSING,, YOUR MEMORY A TREASURE.. YOU ARE LOVED BEYOND WORDS AND MISSED BEYOND MEASURE,, WE LOVE YOU ALEX AND WE MISS YOU SOOO MUCH,, XOXOXOXO
MOM AND DAD

December 26, 2011

hey buddy, so christmas has come and gone,,I missed you so much! Danielle brought you to us for xmas eve in a beautiful urn so you could be there, I know youre always here anyway but its nice to have. your kids are growing like weeds and as im sure you know danielle has a wonderful guy in her life that im sure you sent to her, the kids love him. adrian talks about you always though. harry looks at your pics and says unca unca.. he remembers you im sure of it.. he is looking more like you everyday. his big smile.. so you playing tricks on danielle and moving stuff in her house, lol thats just like you, ha ha.. I MISS YOU SO MUCH BUDDY, I DREAM A LOT OF YOU NOW SO I KNOW YOURE COMING TO ME AND HUGGING ME CUZ IM ALWAYS ASKING FOR ONE OF YOU BIG BEAR HUGS,, XOXOXOX
LOVE YOU , MOM MERRY CHRISTMAS MY ANGEL!

danielle

December 8, 2011

alex, it's been a while since i've written but your moms previous entry had me in tears so i felt it was time... it has been a year filled with tears, smiles, and hysterically crying for no reason. i know that's the way life it. you use to say its not all peaches and cream and that certainly rings true! so much has happened and there isn't a day that u aren't on my mind for one reason or another. i don't think i'll ever understand why this happened. your kids are getting so big and talk about you all the time. adrian thinks your the north star. the brightest in the sky. lily holds your picture tight and says my daddy. her personality is as big as that smile of yours. it breaks my heart that my life is moving on without you in it. i know you see us and watch over us and even come visit. i dreamed of you for the first time and it was so real. you kissed me and i woke up because i thought it really happened. i walked out to the living room but you weren't there. i miss you more than you'll ever know. i may not say it enough but im always thinking of you.. i loved you, i always will. i will continue to keep your spirit and life a part of our kids as they miss you too. you were a great dad and you had a sparkle in your eye the day liliana was born that i will never forget. my life is moving but i still struggle with staying strong. reality has definately crept in and i feel it. i see it and feel it every holiday, every day i go to your parents and every time the kids hit a milestone. you are missed and loved so much and please continue to watch over us and letting me know your there. love u always. danielle

December 5, 2011

alex,, we had our family xmas party and it wasnt the same without your smiling face! the kids are all growing up and everyone says how much harrison looks like you! adrian and liliana had a blast and was so behaved.. this holiday season seems expecially hard this year. i guess last year we were all numb. you are so greatly missed but our memories of you are starting to bring smiles and not so many tears. we love you, so much. mom and dad

October 23, 2011

You will always have a place in our hearts...I think of you everytime I make my square cookies...We miss your big smile...I love watching your children, they are amazing little people....Love and miss you..Kim Dave Mark and Brian.

October 22, 2011

moms tattoo for you

October 22, 2011

dads tattoo

October 22, 2011

alex a year has come and gone, I cant believe we will never see you again till we meet in heaven.. everyday your daughter grows into such a joy and character just like you. We miss you beyond words. tears flow all the time without warning, my heart has a hole in it that nothing can fill.. your smile brings me joy and tears everyday i look at your picture. your dad is beside himself with grief, he doesnt speak of it, he cant bring himself to say your gone. my loving son, till we meet again, I love you with alll my heart. mom xoxo

marie marshall

September 26, 2011

I love you alex, we miss you sooo much,, my first bday without you is hard,, i want to hug and kiss you and see your smiling face! look for balloons on friday from all the ones who love you.. i keep seeing butterflies all over today and they come and sit on our chair with us,, dad says it is you saying happy birthday!
love you
mom

marie marshall

September 22, 2011

cant believe almost a year youve been gone! I think of you daily, still not believing youre not going to walk thru the door, my heart aches to see that smile and to hug you. your little girl is growing so fast and soooo smart, she has your personality, your son talks of you always, he is learning to ride his bike without training wheels! Dad still wont come to grips he is having such a hard time. Danielle is doing better and is being a great mom! we all miss you soooo much!love mom

ADRIAN kindergaten graduation

June 17, 2011

MARIE MARSHALL

June 17, 2011

ALEX,, hey buddy, well Im sure you know the bruins won the stanley cup.. woooo i cried so much,, Adrian was convinced you were there helping them..Everyone says they thought of you when they won.. We can just see your big smile, dancing around, I MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH! Fathers day is coming and you would be so proud of your kids, they are sooo special.. they keep us going. your little girl has sooo much of your personality, she is so smart and sassy like her mom, so outgoing and crazy like you,, the combo is enough to drive us batty! adrian talks of you every day.. he really misses you! lili says she sees you and you hug her and tell her you love her. your dad is holding on,, but i know he is having a hard time.. we love you buddy,, I NEED A HUG! MOM

MARIE MARSHALL

May 14, 2011

alex,, your little boy believes your an angel and flying around above him he talks about it all the time, last night we saw a plane and he said i bet that's daddy,, i wished on the wish flowers in your yard grandma, for daddy to come back! :( he is so innocent and trusting... he misses you so much.. liliana woke up from her nap and called to you, like you were right there with her, im sure you were. the bruins play tonight and i know you will be right there with them, how I wish you were with us though, sitting in our room watching and cheering and screaming with us! GOD i miss you sooo much! Austin today said he is playing baseball for you, that you gave him the love of baseball.. HARRY took drum lessons! you would of loved to see that! I LOVE YOU BUDDY! I MISS YOU SOO MUCH! MOM

marie marshall

May 8, 2011

ALEX, it is mothers day and i cant believe you are not here.. I miss your big smile and bear hug! Danielle got me a beautful bracelet with charms representing your family,, yours has purple hearts all around it! YOU would love it! Adrian and Liliana are watching the bruins and rooting them on, lily says daddy is at hockey.. I SWEAR,,she sees you at the game.. I THINK you are on Tim Thomas's shoulder leading him to a stanley cup victory! YOU hoped for that forever.. I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH,, everytime i hear the announcer yell WHOOOOOOOO after a goal, it sounds like you! I smile and think of you doing that all the time and me yelling at you for giving me a headache! Adrian had his first t-ball game today and im sure you are so proud of him. Everytime he says your name it breaks my heart, he misses you so much but believes in ANGELS, and feels you around all the time.. I MISS YOU BUDDY, MY HEART ACHES EVERYDAY! RIP MY ANGEL, LOVE MOM

Summer Townsend

April 26, 2011

uncle, we all love & miss you. i haven't wrote in a while but you know that i wanted to. love you!

marie marshall

April 25, 2011

alex, we have celebrated your daughters second birthday and easter! IT WASNT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU! you were such a big presence in our lives and so sorely missed.. the days are getting worse not better.. realizing i will not see you and hug you,, my baby boy, my son,, i love you sooo much and cant bare the reality you are gone! Dad is having such a hard time,, he misses you soooo much.. Danielle is our daughter and we love and protect her as her parents, so dont worry about her and your kids. We see them everyday! We feel your presence and know you are looking over them, it gets me through the day when your little baby girl looks up and says "hi" to you and throws you a kiss! she sees you, im certain of that!im sorry if you see me crying everyday, but i cant help it the tears just flow, my heart is broken and has a big hole in it!
:( rip

Showing 1 - 100 of 158 results