17 Entries
Mary Hartnett
August 18, 2007
Carol's Eulogy...
For those of you who don’t know me… I’m Carol’s daughter-in-law, Mary Hartnett and I’ve known and loved Carol for about 15 years. Many of you have known Carol much longer than me, and I’m sure you feel like I do…that there is so much to say and not enough time to say it. So, I decided to focus on what I think were the three most important aspects in Carol’s life—her family, her friends and her faith.
When I first met Carol I was amazed by the welcome and the family life they shared. I thought those families only existed on TV. It was obvious to me from the first moment, that Carol was devoted to her family and thought the world revolved around her son (Rob) and daughter (Dawn). She even had them both convinced that each one was “the” favorite child! Then along came the grandchildren…Jessica, Bret, Teghan, and Austin. Sleep-overs, special toast, ice cream at 9:00 in the morning (actually any time of day), and family vacations were all on-going events at the Hartnett house. There was never a sacrifice too big for her family. She even allowed Bob to sacrifice for his family, usually at mealtimes. When Carol would be cooking dinner and something dropped on the floor, her statement was always the same – “Sorry Bob” – as she scooped it up and put it on his plate. Dad gladly ate the 5-second rule item, although most of the time I don’t think he even realized it. (Sorry Bob!).
Carol believed in her family…each and every one of them. When she and Bob were married over 46 years ago, they had practically nothing…but she believed in Bob, and together they built a family that’s one of the strongest and most loving I know, and together they’ve set an example that will influence many generations to come. Children, grandchildren, siblings, nieces, nephews, cousin and all of us are better people for having known and been loved by Carol.
As for friends, there is a lot to be said about a person’s character when you have friendships that have survived for over 50 years. That only happens with loyalty and a deep sense of commitment. Carol and “the girls” have had many adventures together and I’d like to share one with you--A couple of years ago for Barbara Doiron’s birthday it was Carol’s job to get the gift. The girls all agreed that a Hummel would be perfect and many of you know that Carol collected Hummels. On the day of the party Carol walks in with this beautifully wrapped gift and stumbles—the gift hits the ground and all you hear is breaking glass! Everyone jumps up to make sure she’s fine and tell her not to worry about the gift -- it can be replaced. But to their surprise she’s laughing so hard she can barely tell them the noise is marbles rolling around and the real gift is outside! Carol may have been on the quiet side, but she always managed to keep us guessing!
Carol’s dedication to her family and friends would not be possible if not for her faith -- Carol’s belief in God and her Catholic faith really formed the foundation that kept her strong and full of hope. She has always been an active member of the church wherever she’s lived. I’ve discussed her personal convictions with her many times, and I know she is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. She lived her beliefs, constantly putting the needs of others ahead of her own…right up until the end. She was the most selfless and giving person I have ever known.
Carol, we love you and thank God that you have graced our lives. You have left this world a better place, and I know that heaven is now a better place because of you. We miss you and your beautiful smile more than you will ever know.
Crash Konwin
August 13, 2007
The best legacy of a parent is to have raised and taught values to their children. While I never had the pleasure of meeting Carol Hartnett, I know the spirit and dedication of her son Robert from our joint service to the nation while in the Air Force. God be with your entire family - and may the great memories of Carol bring a smile to your heart, spirit, and her gifts she shared with you all.
Marianne Mahoney
July 31, 2007
Bob,Dawn,Rob,George and family's.
Carol a wife, mother, grandmother,sister, aunt and friend. I found the a quote from Mel's story (fighting cancer) says it best "Some people come into our lives and quietly go. Others stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never the same". We will never be the same because a piece of our hearts are with her on her next journey!
Manny Hamelburg
July 31, 2007
My most heartfelt sympathies to all who loved Carol as I did. My wife Rosemary truly loved her and sadly they are together now,I miss them both.
With love,
Manny
Mary Jo & Bob Milano
July 29, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lou & Linda Perrino
July 29, 2007
Dear George, Marianne & family,
Lou & I wish to express our heartfelt sympathy to you in the loss of your sister, Carol. Please be assured of our prayers to you and your family during this difficult time. May God Bless you all and bring you His peace.
Lou & Linda Perrino
Peabody, MA
Deb Baskall
July 29, 2007
I have asked this question many times in my life.
" Why is it Lord...
that when it is the hardest to let go...do you open my hands?"
Today I heard the Lord answer me...
I heard Him whisper these words down from heaven...
"so you can thank me."
and I did...
with all my thoughts and prayers
God loves you and so do I.
Debby do
Melonie Brescia
July 28, 2007
Bob (Grampy) and family,
Carol was a wonderful person. She accepted me and my "special" dogs into the Hartnett family. I wish that I could be there, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Mel, Bandit and Bear
Telma Cunha
July 28, 2007
Bob & family;
My deepest simpathy for your loss. I worked With Carol for over 5 years at Optronics and she was the best that there was. We had planned lunch at Kimballs, I'm so very sorry we never made that lunch. May God keep her safe in heaven
Glen&Kathy Grover
July 28, 2007
Bob,
So sorry to hear of your loss, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jack& Lynn Deady
July 28, 2007
The Hartnett Family
Bob we are so sorry to lose Carol, we loved her dearly, and will miss her warm smile and personality.May you find peace and solace and be
grateful for the wonderful life you shared.
Love Jack & Lynn
Tim Rudolph
July 28, 2007
My deepest sympathies. May be God be with you and all families and friends. Carol's legacy lives in on the accomplishments, big in small, of those she raised or touched.
Sarah Lederman-Scali
July 28, 2007
Dear George, Marianne and Family!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
With Love,
Sarah Lederman-Scali
Nancy Kohutka
July 27, 2007
Wife, Mother, Grandmother, and my Friend. So many years (over 50) since we first met in high school. You continued to be the most wonderful person to all who knew you. How fortunate for Bob, your children, and grandchildren, to have you in their life and memories, and myself to have been fortunate enough to have you as a friend. I love you Carol, and you will always be with the girls. We will never forget you. Peace to you in heaven. We will all join you someday. Save a place for us, a corner where we can all share our laughter once again. God Bless You.
Norm & Pat Boisclair
July 27, 2007
Bob, Our deepest sympathy at this sad time. Carol was a very special lady. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Norm & Pat Boisclair
Ann Fowler
July 27, 2007
GCSS-AF Data Services We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. In lieu of flowers we have donated $100.00 to the American Cancer Society in memory of Carol Hartnett.
Ann Fowler
July 27, 2007
Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings,
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