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Janet Carr of Medford, family in Gr. Lowell area; 68 MEDFORD Janet (Hamilton) Carr, of Medford, MA, January 30, 2009, at home, from angiosarcoma, a rare blood cancer, at 68 years of age. Born in 1940, graduate of Matignon High School (1958), Emmanuel College (1962), later achieved Master of Arts at Salem State (1978) in British Literature, and Master of Arts in Writing from Northeastern (1988). A lifelong grant writer for many organizations, including Board Member of the Partnership for Historic Boston and Royall House Board, in Medford. Author, world traveler, avid Scrabble and crossword enthusiast, voracious reader and book club member, recreational swimmer, lover of birding, and Cape Cod. Daughter of the late John Hamilton and Marguerite (Beauchamp) Hamilton of Belmont, MA. Beloved wife of former Medford City Councilor and Medford teacher and guidance counselor, William A. Carr Sr., and mother of four children: William A. Carr Jr. and his wife, Beth, of Medford, Doug Carr and Donna Laquidara-Carr of Boston, Maura and Keith Rauseo of Tewksbury, and Greg Carr of Boston; sister of Marion Montalto and the late Bill Montalto of Natick, Jack and Donna Hamilton of Duxbury, the late Bill Hamilton, and Mary Jane Hamilton of Annapolis, MD, and Marguerite and Bob Nangle of Oswego, IL; sister-in-law of Frank and Anne Carr of Chelmsford, MA, Eleanor and Bud McCarron of Scotia, NY, and Janet and Mike Hart of Sandwich, MA. Loving grandmother of five: Jefferson, Matthew and Benjamin Rauseo of Tewksbury, and Hayley and Kelley Carr of Medford. CARR Visiting hours at the Cincotti Funeral Home, 421 High St. (Route 60) in Medford on Tuesday, February 3, 2009 from 4 to 8 P.M. Funeral from the Cincotti Funeral Home on Wednesday, February 4, 2009 at 8:45 A.M. Funeral Mass will be held at St. Joseph's Church, 114 High St., Medford at 11:00 A.M. Interment will be in Oak Grove Cemetery, Medford. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to either of the following: Jennifer Hunter Yates Sarcoma Foundation, P.O. Box 698, Hudson, MA 01749 or the VNA North Shore, Inc., 5 Federal St., Danvers, MA 01923. Funeral arrangements were under the direction of the Cincotti Funeral Home, 421 High St., Medford, MA 02155.

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Published by Lowell Sun on Feb. 1, 2009.

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Lorraine Butler

September 23, 2022

She is now resting in peace

Betsey Zinzer

February 5, 2009

To Janet's family,
In sorrow and sympathy for losing a great friend of 54 years.
In gratitude for the privilege of having a great friend for 54 years.
Love to all the Carrs and Hamiltons.
Betsey and Ron

Donna Qualters

February 5, 2009

Janet was a treasure at Northeastern, she was always helpful, kind, cheerful and will be greatly missed by those of us who she touched in a special way.

Kalo Clarke

February 5, 2009

Janet, I know you’re watching over us all now just as you did when you’re physical form was with us. Remember that girls’ weekend at the Cape when we each brought an object to represent something about our self? We anonymously put the objects in a pile. When I pulled the sponge out of the pile for us to guess who brought it, everyone instantly said “Janet.” And it was true—we all recognized your very special ability to “soak up” the problems of others, give sage advice, and help “clean up” any aftermath of the problem. In fact just a month ago you gave me advice about how daughters can deal with the death of their mother (because mine had just passed). In one sense, I’ll miss you so much after our 23 year friendship; in another sense, your grace and kindness will always be with me.

Imeh Ebong

February 4, 2009

Dear Bill and Family:

I regret to learn about Janet's passing. She was such a treasure to those who had the priviledge to work with her as we did some years ago at Northeastern University. We cherish her memmory and will miss her. Please accept my sympathy.

Anne Sullivan

February 3, 2009

To Janet's Family,
Know that she was loved, admired and respected by the many that had the priveledge to work with her at Northeastern. She will be missed.

Claire and Jim Knox

February 3, 2009

Dear Bill and Family-
We were so sad to hear about Janet's death. She was an inspiration to all of us, with her fortitude and courage in coping with her dreadful illness.
I feel so fortunate to have met with her last spring at the Isabella Steward Gardner museum and to have helped to edit her book, on the Mount Benedict convent fire. I loved reading it and felt privileged she asked me.
I also remember many happy times with the ladies from Northeastern, especially at your house on the Cape.
Please know that Janet is indeed in our prayers always.
Love, Jim and Claire

Julie Abruzzio

February 3, 2009

Dear Bill and Family,
I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you and yours at this difficult time. I am here at work and was checking my Aunt's notice
(my dad's sister ) when I came across Janet's. I am keeping you all in my prayers tonight. I will never forget Janet's beauty inside and out, -- always so kind and generous ..truly a bright light and this sometimes dark world of ours. So sorry to have missed her services tonight....
Thinking of you tonight Maura ,,, and keeping you all close in my prayers.
Sharing your sadness --I am so sorry for your loss
with love,
Julie (Albano) Abruzzio

Fred and Martha Tower

February 3, 2009

We are very sorry to hear about your wife, Janet. You and your family have our deepest sympathies.

Donna Chiozzi

February 3, 2009

Dear Bill and Family -
It will come as no surprise that you (Mr. Carr) and Janet (Miss Hamilton) meant the world to those of us in the LJHClass of ’64. We cherished that time and cherished the bond that kept us in touch throughout Medford High School and beyond. We felt we had a special relationship, constantly urging you, Bill, to get to know our beautiful, intelligent, and all-around lovely English teacher. I suspect you didn’t need us at all, although we like to believe that we had a special hand in bringing you together. We rejoiced when you married and were thrilled to be invited to your home to meet your new baby. You were our “Camelot” couple.

If thoughts and prayers can help ease the pain of your significant loss, then you have an abundance of both. Janet was a strong and accomplished woman. She touched so many lives throughout her academic career. It is clear that she was loved and admired. As you celebrate her meaningful life, know that she is remembered warmly by the many she nurtured and inspired.
Wishing you peace and strength,
Donna Chiozzi and Family

Philip Hamilton

February 3, 2009

Uncle Bill, Billy, Doug and Maura
Aunt Janet's passing seems strange to me having not seen her sick. Like her mother (Grammy), such vibrant women's passing take time to accept. My sympathy is heart felt, your sorrow is as our sorrow was for my dad. It is painful but sister shall see brother again. See you all Wednesday. Love, Philip

Lisa (Rawson) MacFarlane

February 2, 2009

Mr. Carr, Doug and Bill and family.. I am so sorry to hear of Mrs. Carr's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are will you at this time.

Kathleen McCarthy

February 2, 2009

Dear Bill, Billy, Doug, Maura and Greg: Janet was a dear friend to my mom Betsey, as you know. And their ongoing, special relationship over the many decades made me love and appreciate your wife/mom- as a simple matter of fact. The Zinzer family greatly cherishes the Carr family. And we send you love and prayers. We express our condolences to all her other family members as well. Janet was a beautiful, wise, patient, and engaging woman. I will remember many special times- especially those that involved the beach, the pretty family home in Medford, and Hermit cookies.

Richard K (GUMPA) Nangle

February 2, 2009

Billy
Sympathy for your loss Brother Bob told me about Janet's passing. Will be over to Medford on Wednesday

Diane Abramson

February 2, 2009

Dear Bill, Billy, Doug, Maura, and Greg and your families,
My heart is broken to have lost my dear, dear friend. She was an amazing woman with a peace radiating from her. Patient, loving, empathetic, she put the needs of others before her own. Never did she complain of the great distress, pain, or the inevitability which her diagnosis brought with it. She loved you all so deeply and had such a well of compassion for everyone she met. Her deep spirituality was a model of true Christianity. She lived love... of family, God, and friends. I miss her with all my being, but I smile, knowing that we have an angel waiting to greet us when our time comes. I will hold onto the memories of special moments we shared and with the memory of the gentleness of Janet as a guide and a profound gift. As she asked, I will keep her... and you... in my prayers always. God bless you and give you strength during this sad time. She is at peace, free of pain. That is the lessing we have now.

Love and peace to you all,
Diane "Gulino" Abramson and Family

Joseph Belcastro Jr.

February 2, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

angelo & louise marotta

February 2, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Maria Gore (DiFranza)

February 2, 2009

Mr. Carr, I am very sorry to have read about the loss of your wife.I don't know if you would remember me I was a student of yours junior and senior year at Medford High. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Ann Addivinola

February 2, 2009

Dear Billy & Beth, my sincere sympathies to you and your family. May the happy memories of your mother sustain you through this most difficult time. Sincerely Annie Addivinola (Camille P's. friend)

Linda Mogavero-Lucarotti

February 1, 2009

Mr.Carr...I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife...my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Stephen Noel

February 1, 2009

Dear Mr Carr, I fondly remember Janet as Miss Hamilton at the Lincoln Jr High, my English teacher. She became Mrs Carr at some point that year. I am very sad to hear of her passing. Sincerely, Stephen Noel

Crystal Kittredge

February 1, 2009

I never knew Janet personally but I am a friend of he son Doug. Through the years of hearing all the stories of Janet that Doug has shared with me and having been able to spend time with Doug on the Cape in his parents house, I had grown to admire her. At the Cape house: I loved her flowers that she planted, watching the pretty birds that would visit and I always felt at home in her house by the way she decorated it, it was so Cape style. For all of you that was apart of this wonderful woman’s life - I know that you will always cherish her and feel so lucky to have known her.

My prayers and thoughts are with you,
Crystal

Sue and Tim and family Pennings

February 1, 2009

Uncle Bill. Billy, Doug, Maura and Greg, Our prayers are with you all.

William O'Brien

February 1, 2009

Dear Mr. Carr and family,
I am very sorry to hear about Mrs. Carr. Your family and loved ones will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Allie Gillies

February 1, 2009

Bill & Janet's entire family- I have known Janet since 1998- having met her at Northeastern. She was a wonderful woman with a giving heart. She inspired me in many ways and will be missed. Her courage and grace amazed me and she will live forever in my heart and in my memories. May she be forever shining down upon us guiding us as we go.

Mike & Patti Rivera

February 1, 2009

To Bill and His Family,
Bill, we are so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. Our sympathy, prays and thoughts go out to you and your family at this very difficult time. May the good Lord comfort her and, may Janet rest in peace.

Trish Sweeney Northrup

February 1, 2009

Dear Uncle Billy, Bill, Doug, Maura, and Greg: I was saddened to read about Aunt Janet. She had many kind words for me last I saw her at my dad's funeral. I pray she is at peace with no more struggles in front of her. May the memories you share as a family help ease your pain during this difficult time. Take care of each other. God Bless.

Marcia Hickson

February 1, 2009

May all God's creations join together to celebrate your wonderful spiritual life. You will be missed my dear friend.
Much love, Marcia

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