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Phillip Hayden Obituary

Phillip G. Hayden of Lowell; 23 Lowell Phillip G. Hayden, 23, of Lowell, died unexpectedly, Thursday, August 14, 2008. He was a son of Deborah Hayden of Lowell and Thomas Martin of Lowell. Born October 16, 1984, in Winchester, he grew up in the Lowell area, and as a child, played in the Pop Warner Leagues. He graduated from Lowell High School, Class of 2003, and enjoyed riding motorcycles and four wheelers. He owned Hayden's Automotive and Towing, and loved to spend time with his kids and his fiancee, Falon. In his spare time, he could be found working out. Besides his parents, he is survived by his fiancee, Falon Poulakos of Dracut and their unborn son, Phillip G. Hayden, Jr.; his first son, Evan Wood and his mother, Jessica Wood of Lowell; his grandparents, Judy Fitzgerald and George Hayden; his aunt and uncle, Richard and Robin Petitpas of Lowell; his cousins, Ross Petitpas and Richard Petitpas Jr.; and his brothers, Eduardo Pena, Jordan Cormier, Scotty Dickey Jr., Jose Martinex, Darlin Guillermo, Andy Rivera, and Gregory "Kiki" Janowitz all of Lowell; his Godson, Shyiem Smith of Lowell and the family's special friend, Sharon Lucas of Lowell. HAYDEN You are invited to his Calling Hours 4 until 8 P.M. on Wednesday. On Thursday, his Funeral will begin at 8 A.M. at the MCDONOUGH FUNERAL HOME, 14 Highland St., Lowell (978 OR 800) 458-6816. His Funeral Mass will be offered at Immaculate Conception Church at 9 A.M. Burial in Edson Cemetery. E-Condolence site WWW.MCDONOUGHFUNERALHOME.COM
Published by Lowell Sun from Aug. 17 to Aug. 19, 2008.

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August 3, 2009

I LOVE YOU ALWAYS & 4EVA! YOU WILL BE MISSED SOOOO VERY MUCH! I KNOW YOU WILL BE HERE 2 GUIDE YOUR CHILDREN! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A SPECIAL PERSON IN MANY <3'S! I GIVE MY CONDOLENCES 2 YOUR FAMILY!

Sacha Carrion

February 24, 2009

STILL MISSIN U...I THINK OF U ALL THE TIME STILL CANT BELIEVE UR GONE...ULL WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY AND HEART AND SOUL..LUV ALWAYS

CYNTHIA HUDSON

November 9, 2008

Dear Phillip, You were one of a kind. You were the son I never had. Thank you for all the funny times, sad times, hard times and loving times. You will be truly missed. Please remember I will always be here for to look after your mother. I love you dearly and will always treasure you in my heart as my son. Love you dearly, Cynthia H.

Jessica Wood

October 16, 2008

Happy Birthday Phillip!! Me and your Son Evan love you very much. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you!! You were such a great dad!! Miss you always!

petra mercado

October 16, 2008

Happy Birthday !!!! ALWAYS N OUR HEARTS !!!

Sacha Carrion

August 31, 2008

I can't believe ur gone day by day goes by and hurts more then u know..U was a good friend who had a big heart..But I guess god wants a beautiful person like u by his side. Ull will be missed and always in my heart. May god bless his family and help them get through. Rest in Peace Phillip till we meet again..

Tiago

August 27, 2008

my deepest sympathy goes out to your family and fiance falon. may you rest in peace man....

Jane Clark

August 27, 2008

Falon, So sorry for your loss, you have been through more then most have been through in a whole life time. May God be with you to give you the strength to go on to raise your son. Have faith your Mom and Phil will always be looking over you. Love Jane (Pelland) Clark and Denny Pelland

Hector Nieves

August 23, 2008

DAMN DOG I CANT BELIEVE UR GONE NOW I REALY KNOW THAT HEAVEN IS MADE FOR GOOD PEOPLE LIKE ALL THE FRIENDS WE'VE LOST..... U WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY MEMORIES ONE LOVE REST IN PEACE AND I SEE U WHEN I GET THERE........

Laura Lefebvre

August 22, 2008

I cant get over this...i have known phillip since he was a young kid always smiling and laughing...Deb robyn and rick and kids you are in my thoughts and prayers i moved and was not able to attend the services just know that i love you ALL robin i will leave my email address when you can. get in touch with me....philip rest in peace you are in a better place my friend!! watch over your babys.... hugs and kisses to all!!

april

August 22, 2008

i did not know him but the pepople i care about did i am so sorry and hope you all getting through this

NICOLE & POZZEY

August 22, 2008

PHIL ME AND POZZEY WILL NEVER FORGET YOU SPECIALLY POZZEY YOU WERE IS BROTHER IN HIS EYES HE WILL ALWAYS HOLD YOU CLOSE IN HIS HEART. AND FALON IF YOU EVER NEED ANYTHING WE ARE HERE FOR YOU.

Brenda & Michael Kluck

August 21, 2008

As friends of Rick & Robin we did not know Phillip very well. We offer our sympathy to all of his family and friends.
A well loved, vibrant young man has been called from from this earth. None of us know why. Though fear not, for what he left behind will never be forgotten. His legacy and memories will forever remain in the hearts who shared his love.
Our prayers and best wishes are with Phillip and Phillips family

Kelly Thistle

August 21, 2008

R.I.P Phill..We will never forget you! Fallon I am so sorry,words can't even express how much we all are thinking of you,and the baby.You know if you need anything you can come to me.I'm so glad you have Kristina,and your girls there by your side.They love you so much! To all Phillips boys..stay strong,and hang in there exspecially you Scotty! God Bless everyone,and never forget Phillip..Phil watch over your baby boy,and say hello to Dre,and A.C for us.

Teresa McFarlane

August 21, 2008

I think that we are all still in shock from this and it will take a long time to start healing. My condolences and respect go out to the fam.

Teresa and Tito

Alissa Porto-Homer

August 20, 2008

Falon, ill be here for you. whatever you need... im so sorry for your loss

ROD

August 20, 2008

phillip its crazy to hear that your gone...man rest in peace God wanted you to be by his side. falon everything right now is tough and it will be that way for a long time, but God has a plan with phillip he wants to have him by his side maybe so he can crack some jokes and make him laugh. dont forget that he is still by yours too. phillip much love goes out to you i remember you buggin out in class...YOU WILL B MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN...my condolences goes to his fam

KRISTINA&ERIC

August 20, 2008

CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE PHIL. YOUVE BEEN ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS 4ALONG TIME NOW AND BECAME A GREAT FRIEND TO ERIC. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU.YOU WERE A REAL FRIEND TO ERIC, HE'LL ALWAYS MISS U WAKING HIM UP IN THE MORNING AND STOPPING BY EVERYDAY JUST TO SAY WAT UP AND ME TELLIN U TO GET OUT MY HOUSE LOL'...ANYWAY WE WILL ALWAYS LUV U AND 4EVER MISS U...UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN TAKE CARE OF OUR BABYS THEYLL ALWAYS HEAR BOUT U ....LUV U PHIL<3

Lois Flynn

August 20, 2008

Debbie
You and Phillip are in our thoughts and prayer. May he rest in peace .
Sincerely
Tom and Lois Flynn

K33sh Gebhard

August 20, 2008

FaLon.Im So soRRy FoR ThIs Loss..I CanT eVen BeGiN to UndersTAnd What YoUr GOing ThroUgh Please Hang In there.Rest In Peace PhillIp...!! WatCh Over Us..

Mastro

August 20, 2008

I want to say sorry to Deb, Falon and all of his brother's, if there is anything i can do for any of you, you guys no were i live...

Christine O'Boyle

August 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to Phillip's fam. Falon, I'am so sorry to hear about this..Stay strong for that baby. I Love u and will always be here for you.

Jackie Mercado

August 19, 2008

May you rest in peace Phillip. Fallon, you know Im there for you girl, you must be going through something very hard. I am so sorry for your loss. May god bless Phillip and his fmaily.

MARISOL ORTIZ

August 19, 2008

WE THINK OF YOU IN SILENCE
AND MAKE NO OUTWARD SHOW
BUT WHAT IT MEANT TO LOSE YOU
NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW

YOU WISHED NO ONE A LAST FAREWELL
NO ONE EVER SAID GOODBYE
YOU WERE GONE BEFORE WE KNEW IT
AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY

A GOLDEN HEART STOPPED BEATING
YOUR TENDER HANDS AT REST
GOD BROKE OUR HEARTS TO PROVE TO US
HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST.


LOVE AND ALWAYS MISS, ROCK,JENNY,[MOM] MARI,[STEPDAD]OQUI.

Laura Rivera

August 19, 2008

Im Not Sure Were To Start But Im So Sorry For Your Lost Its Sad That We Lost Another One To Violence Rest In Peace Phil & Fal, Sorry For Your Lost I Can't Imagine The Pain Your Going Through Right Now But Be Strong For The Baby I Love You Fal If You Ever Need Me Dont Hesitate To Call

Jamel Wilson

August 19, 2008

They say the good die young.Phillip you were a good young man.May your soul rest in peace and god bless your famliy.Much love for Falon and your sons. God Bless.

Yolanda

August 19, 2008

Deb, Falon i'm so sorry, falon if you need anything you no were i live!! the friendship that Posy Phil & Kiki had was so strong i know we will see it in their children..Me and Ant nicknamed Phil, Pharo because he worked hard and spoiled himself like a king!!! . please be strong Phil Jr needs his mom and grandma..
Love you guys...

HEK GOMEZ

August 19, 2008

Can beleive u gone 1 day u here the next u gone. my respects to his fam. U will never b forgotten. R.I.P My Dude.

Sarah Smith

August 19, 2008

Phillip you will be missed! We have been friends for well over 15 years so I am very saddend and in complete shock. Whenever I think of you I will smile and picture you yelling "Safe!" Whenever I walk by. RIP <3

Sara Orlando & Friends

August 19, 2008

To theHaydens- words are not found to explain my sorrow for you at this time. We lost our brother at age 20 and is never easy and still hard to comprehend why. an easy answer people will say is Gods word,but when in our shoes thats not enough. we send our deepeest sympathy to all of you (to Phils family) - as well all of our strength we have extra to hand to you. keep strong and believe thats what Phil wants. Protect that baby jr. he will be your smile

Sara Orlando

August 19, 2008

Our condolences to you and your family at this time. you will all get threw this the key is together. Falon,it is going to be a long road but keep your strength within and be strong for you and Phillip jr.,his dad will guide you threw it all as my late little brother does I. you are a great woman and he is always going to be with you. to the Petipas', pull together be strong - this is a time that will be a different grievance for everyone. you all know you have many friends to help you all cope with the trama experienced. dont ever hesitate.Phil was a great man and will continue to be being all your guardian angel We love you all.

freda pitts

August 19, 2008

Phillip,you'll be greatly,miss.My prayers go out to the family

Laura Lefebvre

August 18, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Amanda P

August 18, 2008

It's a Very sad thing the timing is even more horrid. U will be missed. R.I.P.

PETRA MERCADO

August 18, 2008

MY HEARTS GOES OUT TO EVERYONE. HE WAS A GOOD MAN I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU MY CHILD HOOD FRIEND

BARBIE VILLA

August 18, 2008

GOD BLESS PHILLIP'S FAMILY
ALWAYS AND MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL THE STRENGTH TO GET BY. ALL HIS FRIENDS KEEP STRONG FOR HIM PLEASE.. FALLON MAY GOD GUIDE YOU AND YOUR LIL' MAN PHILLIP JR. AT ALL TIMES.. MY LOVE & RESPECT GOES OUT 2 ALL OF U..

The Trepanier Family

August 18, 2008

We live in the area and are saddened to hear of the loss of such a young life. Our prayers go out to the family in this time of grief.

Omaris

August 18, 2008

Phillip, you were such a great guy and im gonna miss u. I want u to know that i will be here for your girl if she needs me. I went through the same thing she is going though right now and i know how is feels. I hope your with Andre and let my baby know i love him. Phillip, i wanna give your girl the highchair you bought me for Drevon. I feel that your baby deserves it. Drevon is enjoying it and Phillip JR can to. Well phillips i miss u and god bless you...

Tanya Rivera & Timmy Collins

August 18, 2008

We always take for granted,
what we think we’d never lose.
Because we never thought it would happen,
until we heard the news.

They say you were chosen for his garden,
His preciously hand picked bouquet.
“God really needed him,
That’s why he couldn’t stay.”

Saying goodbye is never easy,
It’s the hardest thing to do.
But what hurts us even more
Is not the chance to say it to you.

So today, Jesus, as you are listening
in your home above;
Would you go and find Phillip,
And give him all our love!

**Forever in our hearts and prayers.**

Matthew Ribeiro

August 17, 2008

Damn Phil.. i cant believe your gone man..you were a really good friend, besides everything u had a good heart, u allways had me no matter what, no matter how much i read about it still i cant believe ur gone .. i guess i kind of takes a while for it to sink in, i dont think anybody can prepare for tragety.. i send my condolences to Debbie, Tommy, Falon.. the whole family...im sure u´ll be happy in heaven.. May u rest in peace man.

Casie Greenhalge

August 17, 2008

Phillip was a great friend to me. I've known him for many years and he is sadly missed by many people.Phillip and his family will stay in my prayers...R.I.P. Phillip

yolanda janowicz

August 17, 2008

Pharo... I love you bro you have been a part of my life since you were 8 you and kiki are brothers!!! I love you and miss you
Love Yolanda,KiKi ,Mastro

Katrina Peterson

August 17, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Sha'Leya Bowers

August 17, 2008

Sending my prayers and condolences out to the family.

ANN AND MIKE DRISOLL (APRILS LEES MOM)

August 17, 2008

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.YOU WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS

Mary Bernardini

August 17, 2008

My heart goes out to his family, I met Phillip once at a family cook out at Felons aunts. I am so sorry Felon. I wished I knew when I saw you at the station. I will always be here for you. Love ya

Donna Grasso

August 17, 2008

Dear Deb and Tom,

My condolence on the loss of your son Phillip. I know he was the love of your life. You were very proud of your son. Words cannot describe your grief right now. I hope you have all the love and support from your friends and family in this difficult time. I cannot believe this has happened. The memory of Phillp will be always with us. I know he touch my life.

Love,
Donna Grasso

Colleen Miller

August 17, 2008

Debbie, Robin and Richard...
Phillip was a good kid and our memories will never fade, you are all in my prayers.

Darren Stairs

August 17, 2008

phil was a good friend he will be missed rest easy my mann

andrea breault

August 17, 2008

Debbie & Tommy

Hold on to all of the wonderful memories and love you have for Phillip. Remember that he is watching over you both now and waiting for the day you will all be together again.

love
Andrea, Amanda, AJ, Harry & Aria

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