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1967
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2020
Steven St. Onge Obituary
formerly of Westford
Steven P. St. Onge, born to Norman B. and Elizabeth A. St. Onge and grew up in Westford, MA. Steven was always looking for the balance of life, living and laughing. His quest started in Westford, meandered to Shirley, MA and later moved to St. John, USVI, with his then partner, Jack, where he lived for many years. Following the devastating category Hurricanes Irma and Maria in 2017, Steve and his 4 cats moved to Poway, CA that same year to start a fresh life together with Mike. There he began to make his impression on Mike's family and friends and quickly acquired a whole new group of avid fans. Even though Steve was taken from us way too early in life, he lived his life by example, showing us that the most important things in life are making others feel valued and happy. In keeping with that belief, he gave the gift of life to others by donating his organs. Even in death, Steve was selfless and giving. Steven is is survived by his partner Mike Hadjiaghai of Poway, CA; Laura St. Onge of Sanford, ME; Norman B. St. Onge, Jr. of Big Sky, MT; Norman's daughters, Nicole St. Onge of Dedham, MA and her fiancé Branden Manchester, Kimberly St. Onge of Boston; David and Barbara St. Onge of Carlisle, MA; a large contingency of friends from USVI to Massachusetts to New York to Florida to California. Steven was predeceased by by his parents "Bucky and Liz," and late partner, Jack Wallace.
A Celebration of Steven's Life and his incredible sense of humor and zest for life will be held on a future date with much love, laughter and hugs. In lieu of flowers, please tell someone that "you love them" today, or adopt a cat.
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6 Entries
monica smith-munro
February 22, 2021
So many memoories
Lisa Crider
December 9, 2020
One of my favorite memories was our Saturday nights. We would work all day at the bakery, go home & nap. Once rested we would head the Schzwan Gardens for dinner and drinks before we would head to the Club. After a night of dancing & drinking, we would leave the bar at closing time, go back to my house and eat leftovers before we crashed for the night. I would offer the spare room for him to crash out but he refused saying it was because O didnt have a fan & he couldn't sleep without a fan blowing on him while he slept.
Steven always had a great sense of humor and will be missed!
monica munro
March 5, 2020
Steve we will all miss you
Natalie Fleury
March 3, 2020
I will always treasure having you as a nephew. Compassionate, funny and loving. I will always remember the trick you played on your mother with the potatoes in the microwave!!! Rest in peace. Love you!!
Cynthia Boggs
March 2, 2020
You were a bright light in our world
You brought joy, humor, and hope to all who knew you.
Our loving thoughts are with you dear Steve.
Deepest sympathy to Mike, a wonderful gift to you.
We know you are in Heaven surrounded by your loving parents Bucky and Liz.
Sarah Brukilacchio
March 2, 2020
Steve, you were a bright light in our family "tribe" and will be sorely missed, but always remembered.
Godspeed,
The Brukilacchio's
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