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Brian Onweller Obituary

Brian David Onweller Okemos Age 59, loving husband, father, son, brother, friend and helper to all passed away December 11, 2012. Brian was an avid MSU football and basketball fan and enjoyed all things green. He was always working on projects around the house or at the farm. Some of his happiest moments were up north at the family cottage, where he was most at peace with family and friends. Surviving are his wife of 32 years, Dr. Terri A. Wolf, son Shane (Katie) Onweller and daughter Kari Onweller; mother Fran Onweller; brothers, Bruce (Carol) Onweller, Brad (Barbette) Onweller. His father William Onweller preceded him in death. The celebration of his life will be held on Saturday, December 15, at 11:00 a.m. at Trinity Church, 3355 Dunckel Rd, Lansing, MI 48911. Visitation will be one hour prior to the memorial at the church, as well as from 4-7 p.m. on Friday, December 14th. Memorial donations may be made to the American Heart Association, 3816 Paysphere Circle, Chicago, IL 60674 or Boys and Girls Club of Lansing, 4315 Pleasant Grove Rd., Lansing, MI 48910 in Brian's memory. The family is being served by Gorsline Runciman Funeral Homes, East Lansing, Michigan. On line condolences may be made at www.greastlansing.com

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Dec. 13, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
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Diego Amador

December 10, 2022

10 years are gone and still remember you. You were a very good co-worker and above all a GREAT man and friend. I will always remember you and miss you.
Diego & Family

Diego Amador & family

December 7, 2021

We will never forget you Herr Brain!
I always will miss you.

diego.

Diego Amador

December 10, 2020

I will miss HERR BRAIN FOREVER he was a true friend and a real person. God bless him.

Diego Amador

December 11, 2019

You know? After all these years I still think almost daily about my dear friend Herr Brain.
Diego

Elizabeth Jesse

March 27, 2013

Bruce, I am so sorry to hear about Brian. He was such a nice guy. Please tell your mom I am sorry and that I think of her often.
God Bless.
Elizabeth Jesse (formerly of Comfort Keepers)

December 23, 2012

His start continued to shine after high school and made the world a brighter place.

Suzanne Lockwood Hayes

Tom Pratt

December 22, 2012

Terri,& family.I am sorry.I pray your pain is minimal.God Bless and comfort you all.

December 21, 2012

I met Brian for a short period of time and that was sufficient to know him as a good man and a deep friend.
My condolence to his family and co-worker in Bekum.

Marino Martinez, Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic

Bruce Onweller

December 19, 2012

It took me awhile to read this Guest Book.
I am glad I did.
Peace be with you.
You are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
LOVE YOU-
Brother Bruce

Barbara (Lechler) Ayen

December 19, 2012

Terri, So sorry to haer about Brians passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Mark Hilla

December 18, 2012

Terri,
I'm so very sorry to hear about Brians passing. Its been years since I've seen either of you, but I have so many great memories from the past. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dick Mundie

December 17, 2012

My thoughts are with Brian's Family and friends. He made me feel very welcome as an exchange student at Williamston High 40+ years ago. We caught up again in 1991.
Hold on to those wonderful memories.

Larry & Barbara Jackson

December 17, 2012

Terri,
Karen, Alan, Barbara and I are so heart broken by Brian's passing. You both were so welcoming to us at the lake four years and made your new next door cottage neighbors quickly feel like lifelong friends.
You are in out thoughts and heartfelt prayers Terri.

December 17, 2012

Terri - My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Susan Zimmerman

December 17, 2012

May the strength of the Lord sustain you and the peace of the Lord permeate you in your time of great loss. May those near you comfort and care for you with their love and remind you of His eternal love. May the sure hope of the joy of heaven encourage you. Keeping you all in prayer, Kevin and Kerri Kuzera

Amanda Morris-Rambo

December 16, 2012

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I hope you find peace during this time..

William Schulz

December 16, 2012

Terri and family,
Words cannot adequately express my sadness at Brian's passing. Please accept my condolemces. i knew Brian as a wonderfull man and neighbor.

Jody and Larry Kranz

December 16, 2012

Dear Terri and family,
Words can't express how our heart hurts for you. We never had the pleasure to meet Brian but I know he had to be a kind and wonderful person. Hold your memories close to your heart and please know you are in our prayers.

Chris Calcagno

December 15, 2012

Brian was very influential to me growing up. He was a great parent, coach, and neighbor. Few people from my childhood, outside of my own family, have made the kind of lasting impression that he has, and I will miss him dearly.

Joan Lemon

December 15, 2012

I am so sorry to learn of Brian,s passing. My heartfelt condolences go out to you Teri, Shane and Kari.

December 15, 2012

Terri - Dan & I send our deepest sympathy at your loss. Bev Tibbits

Art & Sharon Onweller

December 15, 2012

Brian is a distant cousin and we are so very saddened to hear of his passing. May God sustain you during this most difficult time!

December 15, 2012

What a shock! I just had a ten minute chat with Brian at Dunkin' Donuts and he was his warm, friendly self. Michael and I are so very sorry for your loss.

Michele and Michael Meyrowitz

Bill & Linda Dansby

December 15, 2012

Terri: We just learned of Brian's passing after having been gone from the area for two weeks. Our deepest condolences to you and your family at this time of sorrow. We are thinking of you!

Sincerely,

Bill & Linda

Edward "Ted" O'Bryant

December 15, 2012

Terri-
Sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Tim Heisel

December 15, 2012

I have worked with Brian on a number of projects. He always treated me as a customer, but it was more than that. I am sure that if we had met outside a business relationship we would have been friends anyway. He was always upbeat and easy going.

I am richer for having known him and will miss him. My deepest sympathies to those who were closest to him as I know he has left a huge void.

Joyce Bartels

December 14, 2012

Brian was a good friend and always kind and considerate to his co-worker, Harold Bartels.

Ritchie Lewis

December 14, 2012

Brian was such a great competitor and yet a great sportsman no matter what sport he played. He was always first to shake hands and made Williamston a better community. It's been a long time since our paths have crossed but he will always be remembered. Our heartfelt condolences to you Terri and the rest of your family.

Ritchie and Wendy Lewis

Glen and Joy Stonehouse

December 14, 2012

Brian will be greatly missed! We consider Brian to be an everyday hero. He was kind and considerate and it was a privilege to work with him for 17 years. Brian is and will always remain one of the "greats." May God give Terri and the family a sense of peace and love in the coming days. Miss you Brian!

Glen and Joy Stonehouse (Bekum America)

Josi Sherman

December 14, 2012

Brian was one of the most kind, gentle and genuine individuals I have ever met, he treated everyone with respect and truly cared. I will greatly miss you, especially your sense of humor and your smile throughout the day. Terri, may you and your Family find comfort knowing Brian brought joy to everyone he ever met and may God watch over you always.
Josi Sherman (Bekum America)

December 14, 2012

Brian was truly a caring person eager to help and to teach others. As a business associate I found him very professional and a joy to work with and an even a greater joy to be around. He will surely be missed.

I will keep Brian and his family in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest condolences during your time of grief.

Jim Gunter - Sonoco Products Co., Hartsville, SC

Mary Robertson

December 14, 2012

My heart goes out to Terri, Shane and Kari aand the rest of the family. You were blessed to have had such a wonderful husband and Father. God Bless you.

Tom & Mary Robertson

Randy Roche

December 14, 2012

My condolences to Terri, the kids and the entire family. I was fortunate to know Brian as a team-mate and a friend with the Coral Gables Fastpitch Softball Team. Brian will certainly be missed! May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead!

December 14, 2012

My sincere condolences
You are in my prayers

Richard L. Preston
Berlin, Germany

Angela Brown

December 14, 2012

Terri and family, Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Peace be with you all.

Bonnie Carpenter

December 14, 2012

Dear Terry & family:

I am so sorry for your loss. Jesus hears the prayers of your heart just as clearly as He hears the prayers others are lifting up for you.

So for as long as you grieve, may it be a comfort to remember this: The more you need Him, the closer He will be.

How kind of God to relieve your husband/father of his suffering and take his soul to heaven to be in the company of his Savior and the souls of all the faithful who have gone before him. How wonderful it is that you and your family know that and can find peace in it!

Love and blessings.

Val Oswalt

December 14, 2012

Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. May all your sweet memories, family and friends be a comfort to you all.

December 14, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during these trying times. Cherish the memories!! Jerry Fillwock

Bev (Jim) Rindler

December 14, 2012

No words can express how sad I feel for you, Terri and your family, and Fran and all the Onwellers. My prayers are with you, as are good memories of Brian. Hold fast.

Sue and Spencer Austin

December 14, 2012

Terri and faminly . . . we are heartsick, so saddened to learn about Brian. Lean on your friends and know that we are praying for you. Our hearts go out to you.

Steve & Ginny Houser

December 14, 2012

We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donald Erickson

December 14, 2012

I know that many good memories will sustain your family as they go through the sorrow of losing your husband, son, and brother.

American Heart Association

December 14, 2012

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Connie & David Donovan

December 13, 2012

We send our deepest condolences to you. We will remember Brian as a considerate, happy and compassionate man.

Randy and Kelly Coffey

December 13, 2012

We are very sorry for your loss. The entire family is in our thoughts. Embrace your memories and hold him in your heart.

Roger&Sandy Howard

December 13, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 13, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Sylvia and Ron Marabate

Roger&Sandy Howard

December 13, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chris Meyer

December 13, 2012

Brian,

We will miss you and look forward to seeing you again.
Miss seeing your great patterns of mowing the lawn. You were an artist.
Will miss coming home and seeing you with a beer waiting.
Was great to visit Switzerland a few years back with you and Terri. What a great trip.
We will miss your laughter.
We know you were so proud of your family, especially your kids.
You are a great friend and are missed dearly.

Chris and Cindi Meyer
Grosse Pointe Farms, MI
Formerly of Okemos (your next door neighbor)....

Rick Harrison

December 13, 2012

I'm so very sorry to hear of Brian's passing. We played sports together in High School and I alway remember Brian's big smile, good nature, and sense of humor. Again I'm so very sorry! May God Bless the Onweller family.

Rita Thornton Stout

December 13, 2012

Dear Terri and Family,

I am so sad and sorry to hear about Brian's death, he was a great guy. My sincere condolences to the family.

Barry Robinson

December 13, 2012

Heartfelt blessings of comfort to the entire Onweller family.

Lanene Webster

December 13, 2012

I, along with my mother Sid Foster, send our deepest condolences to you during this most difficult time. My mother and Fran are such good friends and we all have fond memories of Brian so many years ago in Hudson. Our thoughts are with all of you now.

Cathy McCausland

December 13, 2012

Was so saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I remember his smile and his great sense of humor. After high school, he would come by the office at Parks & Rec to visit one of his sports buddies that I worked with so I was fortunate to have had contact after high school. Prayers go out to Terri, the kids and the rest of his family and friends. Rest in peace and may God be with you and comfort you at this difficult time.

Geoff Estabrooks

December 13, 2012

I had the privilege of knowing and working with Brian for almost four years now. I can say without hesitation that you couldn't meet a nicer guy. Always willing to help and offer advice. He had a never ending smile that was contagious and was eternally optimistic, no matter what the situation. I feel very lucky to have known him and he will be greatly missed. My condolences to his friends and family.

December 13, 2012

Terri, Shane and Kari,
Hugs and prayers to all of you at this difficult time. Brian was an awesome nephew and cousin. My mom said "he was THE cutest little ring bearer". We didn't get much of a chance to spend a lot of time together as we all got older and started our own families, but childhood memories and times spent together at "Turkey Stuffing"parties and Christmas's will forever be held close in our hearts. We will so miss him!!!
Love to all,
Aunt Rosie
Dave, Michelle, Adam, Sarah and Alex

Kristy Joblonski

December 13, 2012

I will miss Uncle Brian very much. He welcomed me into this family when I was a little girl, and never made me feel like a "step" relative. He was a warm, caring and loving man. To Terri, Shane and Kari, please know I am thinking of you all, and sending much love.

December 13, 2012

Keeping you in our prayers at this time of loss. May your good memories carry you through this difficult time.

Eric and Peggy Samann Hannah and Family

Fred, Monika & Claudia Obermueller

December 13, 2012

Dear Terri,Shane & Kari,
we are deeply sorry for your loss,and we hope,that the love of your family and friends will carry you through.We are thinking of you.

Leann Lewis

December 13, 2012

Our Hearts and Prayers are with you in this difficult time and will be in the days, weeks and months to come. God Bless you all. With Sincere Sympathy, Leann Lewis, Maddie and Colby Putnam, Mike and Karen Lewis

Patti, Nevaeh and Diego Amador

December 13, 2012

In life you get to know a lot of people, but like Brian none. I had the privilege of knowing and working with him for 40 years. He was always a hard worker, self motivated and more than anything else a TRUE FRIEND. May the Lord give him in heaven the rewards that he earned in life. We will miss you HERR BRAIN. Our prayers are with Terri, Shane, Keri and the rest of his family, we love you.
Patti, Nevaeh and Diego Amador

Jim & Sheri Greenhoe

December 13, 2012

Terri, Shane, Kari,
We are so saddened by Brian's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. I am very thankful to have known Brian when we coached travel baseball together. I will always remember his genuine kindness. He will always be a true gentleman.

Dave Ranville

December 13, 2012

Brian was one of my best friends for over 30 years. Through many ball tournaments, football games, phone calls, e-mails and Christmas dinners, I had never seen him in a bad mood. Over 30 years of great times. My best to the family. Rest in peace.

Ellie (Lueck) Kidder

December 13, 2012

I haven't seen Brian since our high school days, but I have never forgotten his smile, his laugh, and how kind he was to me. Such a nice guy! Terri, please know you are in my thoughts. My sincere sympathies to both the Onweller and Wolf families. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Ed Dunn

December 13, 2012

Some of the fondest memories of my youth are of being friends with Brian..his big smile and great personality are what I'll always remember..my heartfelt condolences to his family..

Nelson Amador

December 13, 2012

I had the privilege and honor of knowing brian for 32 of my 42 years of life. He was a good man and will be missed. My heart goes out to Terry and the kids.

Brian and Julie Frank

December 13, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Paul Rodriguez

December 13, 2012

Although I didn't know him for very long, Brian was always kind, caring, funny and I enjoyed working for/with him. He will be greatly missed.

December 13, 2012

May God be with you in your time of need.
The Forrest Family - Ted, Sherry, Brandon & Daryn

Jennifer Sumler

December 13, 2012

Uncle Brian was a great man who had a heart of gold. He will be truly missed. Our entire family in NC wishes we could be there during this time. May peace and God's love surround you all. With great love, Jennifer, Kenneth, Briana, Kendyll and Jaylen.

Frances Hogg Lochow

December 13, 2012

Terri and family, I am so sorry.

Linda Baur-Dyer

December 13, 2012

My sincere condolences. You are in my prayers.

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